I really cannot imagine what it’s like admitting that you’re afraid of making small mistakes because you know your friends will turn on you in a snap
This is basically what I mean by “you guys need to get a personality trait that isn’t tumblr drama” because y’all out here destroying relationships and making your friends scared to stand up to you/disagree with you and then argue that having a normal and healthy relationship is “emotional labor”.
Like it’s fucking weird
Like I’m just going to come out and say it, but if your friendship makes you feel scared and anxious of stepping out of line or leaving your friend because you’ll know you’ll deal with harmful/negative consequences, then it’s not a stable relationship.
It’s abuse. You should never feel scared of upsetting your friend over basic mistakes or your own personal needs. Just get out of there.
