Fuck it can be frustrating to not have a foreskin sometimes!
I’m sitting here horny as hell, rubbing myself furiously tonight and I can barely feel anything! This was exactly what my wife wanted when she made me get it cut off and it’s definitely worked. There’s not enough skin on the shaft to pull up over the head as I stroke and even if there was the head has become so insensitive it wouldn’t make a difference. It’s amazing the way women can perpetually control us just by having the doctor cut a little bit of our skin off. It’s incredible the way society has normalized women taking away so much of men’s ability to self-pleasure. No matter how much I might want my foreskin back tonight to get myself off with, it will never happen. It’s gone forever and with each day I feel less and less. My penis is just a tight shaft and dull head now.
And I’m so grateful I have a wife strong enough to make the decision to do that to me…
Just wait buddy. Next up is your vasectomy that she will insist you have as soon as your last kid is born. Then next up is your total castration and cutting off your balls to end your sex drive so she doesn t need to deal with never letting you fuck her as much as a man wants and needs.
She will cut off your manhood and sexual abilities piece by piece until you are her neutered gelding.
It’s interesting you say that…
I don’t think I’ve talked about it on here yet because the whole thing is still a bit of a sensitive issue in my head but, since you’ve mentioned it…
Yes, actually, my wife has already told me she expects me to eventually have a vasectomy.
She brought it up one day after she’d been visiting with family. From the little bit she’s told me, it sounds like one of her cousins had just had her husband vasectomized and was talking about how happy she was with the results. I think he was still in the healing phase and still not able to have sex yet but she had absolutely no regrets about it. Then a couple of aunts chimed in that they’d had their husbands done as well and thought it was a great idea. This evolved into a conversation amongst all the women about how it’s the obvious thing to have done to your husband after you’re finished with pregnancy because it’s so simple and makes women’s lives so much easier–they all loved how the procedure meant not having to worry about birth control anymore. Apparently there was a general consensus that there was no down side to it because a man’s anatomy made it so straight forward and we don’t miss having sperm in our ejaculate anyway.
It was a couple days later when we were getting ready for bed and she was taking her pill that she said in a very matter of fact way, “it’ll be so nice once you’ve had your vasectomy and I don’t have to worry about these anymore.”
I looked at her stunned and after a second replied with, “I’m sorry, what? No, I’m not getting a vasectomy.”
She looked at me with an expression of bewilderment, like it had never crossed her mind that I hadn’t already expected this, and replied, “What do you mean? Of course you are. Once you don’t need to get me pregnant anymore.”
I continued to look at her stunned and confused and finally asked where this idea had come from all of a sudden. She responded calmly that it wasn’t all of a sudden, it was simply the most reasonable thing to do. A woman’s body is much more complicated than a man’s which makes birth control more difficult and dangerous for them. The only problem with vasectomies is that they’re permanent which is why we were waiting until I didn’t need to get her pregnant anymore and then I’d go to the doctor to get it done. It wasn’t until I pressed her on the fact that in years of being together she’d never brought this up that she finally told me about the conversation she had with her family.
I continued to insist that I wasn’t going to have it done but I couldn’t really make an argument against it. She just smiled and kept calmly saying that it isn’t a big deal and lots of husbands do it for their wives and never have any trouble with it and that I needed to think about what was best for her and that it was just a little cut in the side of my scrotum that would be over before I knew it. Eventually she ended the conversation with a kiss and an “okay dear, whatever you say.”
Looking back on it I’m a little stricken by just how similar this conversation was to our first conversation about circumcision, and you all know how that ended up. Very much like with circumcision, she presented the idea in a very matter of fact way, as if it would be silly to think that I wouldn’t have the procedure and without any hint of interest in my thoughts on the subject. She clearly has no concerns about having my spermatic cords cut and tied and leaving me permanently sterile.
She hasn’t brought it up again but she’s on her second pregnancy now and I can’t help but wonder how much longer it will be before she does. And I’m not sure that I’ll do any better resisting her intentions for me this time than I did the first time when she set her sights on my foreskin…
Once my partner and I finish having kids, I have no qualms about getting him snipped too. If I have a c-section for the last kid, I might get myself sterilised too, while they’re in there.
This reminds me of stories of boys going in for hernia ops, or tonsils, appendix, broken arms being set.. and waking up unexpectedly circumcised ;) Mmm.. I remember speaking to a friend once about circumcision and he told me how he was cut twice. Once at birth, and then when he was 8, he needed a hernia operation, and as the nurse is checking him out just before he goes under, she told his parents and the surgeon that he had a very loose circumcision, and should they tighten that up? His mum said yes, and that she’d long been worried about that. Poor kid was laying on the table, just about to be put under, while two women are discussing cutting his penis again. Of course, he woke up and had two owies ;)
Regarding snippykins last comment - not surprising at all. The number one complaint parents who circumcise have after is that it was left too loose. Most don’t have a good opportunity to do anything about it. If it was covered via insurance I suspect a -significant- minority of mothers would say “yes” if given the offer to tighten their sons circ up.
My partner has been aware of the modern trend to not do them as tightly as they often did back many decades ago and specifically asked for a tight circumcision for our son before hand.
