FUCK DISTANCE

“Long distance relationships suck, they really do, but they’re so beneficial. I’ve learned to appreciate every text, kiss, phone call, high five, hug, nap, skype conversation, snapchat, etc. I’ve learned to save up my money and to work hard for it. I’ve learned that the best things really do come to those who wait. I’ve learned to cherish my boyfriend on a whole new level. I’ve learned to control my emotions and to not fight over bullshit. I’ve learned to love myself. I’ve learned that my presence can change my boyfriend’s day. I’ve learned my boyfriend loves to be surprised with gifts. I’ve learned that the boy I’m waiting for is the one I want to spend forever with. As tiring as a LDR is, I would have never learned any of this if it wasn’t for distance.”

“I believe if distance breaks you up, something else would have.”

“I know you care about me, but I also know you don’t care enough. I don’t know which one is worse.”

“When someone leaves your life, realize it has nothing to do with you. They left because they needed to. They’re just as insecure as you are. My advice: have a good cry. Afterwards, start healing. And don’t you dare search or beg for closure. Honestly, that’s just a stupid excuse to text their phone. You’re never going to hear a valid reason for them to cause such tremendous pain. You’ll come to your own conclusions as the days turn into weeks and the weeks turn into months. Once you see your “healthy” relationship for how it actually was, you’ll realize that closure comes from within. So for now, register in your mind that some relationships are just broken. No amount of time or effort can tape the love you’ve shared back together - especially when you’re taping alone. Let go of the pain and the exhausting stress of trying to help a person love themself. Don’t be scared when you realize you don’t remember their voice. Don’t be scared when you realize neither of you two have attempted to talk to each other. You’re moving on. You’re letting go. Keep going. It only hurts as long as you allow it to.”

I believe if distance breaks you up, something else would have.

I know you care about me, but I also know you don’t care enough. I don’t know which one is worse.

Long distance relationships suck, they really do, but they’re so beneficial. I’ve learned to appreciate every text, kiss, phone call, high five, hug, nap, skype conversation, snapchat, etc. I’ve learned to save up my money and to work hard for it. I’ve learned that the best things really do come to those who wait. I’ve learned to cherish my boyfriend on a whole new level. I’ve learned to control my emotions and to not fight over bullshit. I’ve learned to love myself. I’ve learned that my presence can change my boyfriend’s day. I’ve learned my boyfriend loves to be surprised with gifts. I’ve learned that the boy I’m waiting for is the one I want to spend forever with. As tiring as a LDR is, I would have never learned any of this if it wasn’t for distance.

I believe if distance breaks you up, something else would have.

When someone leaves your life, realize it has nothing to do with you. They left because they needed to. They’re just as insecure as you are. My advice: have a good cry. Afterwards, start healing. And don’t you dare search or beg for closure. Honestly, that’s just a stupid excuse to text their phone. You’re never going to hear a valid reason for them to cause such tremendous pain. You’ll come to your own conclusions as the days turn into weeks and the weeks turn into months. Once you see your “healthy” relationship for how it actually was, you’ll realize that closure comes from within. So for now, register in your mind that some relationships are just broken. No amount of time or effort can tape the love you’ve shared back together - especially when you’re taping alone. Let go of the pain and the exhausting stress of trying to help a person love themself. Don’t be scared when you realize you don’t remember their voice. Don’t be scared when you realize neither of you two have attempted to talk to each other. You’re moving on. You’re letting go. Keep going. It only hurts as long as you allow it to.

The best revenge is happiness.

I thought our relationship was a ‘your problem is my problem’ type of deal but I guess you thought it was ‘I have a problem & I need to blame you for everything so I can try to make myself feel better’ type.