Loving Black Women & Wearing Leather.

if İ were a men İ'd give the hairy chest & little gold necklace look every single day of my life

hard pill to swallow: the idea that your ‘soulmate’ or ‘the one’ will know exactly how to make you happy without you ever having to communicate is fake. the fantasy that you will have all your needs met in a relationship without ever having to be vulnerable is fundamentally not true. sometimes you have to express your needs and desires, you have to ask for things, you have to communicate how you want to be loved, it’s uncomfortable and clumsy but relationships are about learning to love each other not being a mind reader

Forgiving people in silence and never speaking to them again is a form of self care.