EXO Astrology

So I was pinteresting around and found this (4th pic) src: exopoop. So being the astrology junkie I am, I had to check it.

Mr. Yixing while may look sweet and cute actually has Jupiter (planet of abundance) in Quintile (talent/extreme luck) with Pluto (planet of manliness & extremes). So basically “this man is definitely packing down there.” Don’t doubt this man’s size, I give you my word.

EXO MTL Optimistic line up:

Jongin (Kai)

Sehun

Minseok (Xiumin) = Baekhyun

Jongdae (Chen) = Kyungsoo (D.O.)

Junmyeon (Suho)<------- Realist

Chanyeol

Yixing (Lay)

Astrology can reveal whether a person is positive or negative quite easily. If one has a lot of good and comfortable placements he’ll feel good in his skin and be happier than the one who has a lot of troublesome placements. Such a person would feel a lot of inner tension and uncomfortability thus resulting in negative thoughts/mood. (ofc you can train your mind, this is mostly for undeveloped people)

*Please remember I’m not talking about the way they act but about their outlook on life and inner thoughts

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The easiest way is to let some website to generate your natal chart. 98% of the astrologers I know use Astro.com so I somewhat trust this site. Keep in mind this is a bit too in-depth just to I make it as clear as possible.

1) In Astro.com go to Free Horoscopes Tab >> Natal Chart, Ascendant all the way in the end

(mbmb forgot to crop this picture, Probably will edit this later)

2) Option 1 is great if you just want to check your chart and don’t plan to come back to the site. No strings attached (I’m using this option for this “tutorial”)

Option 2 is for people who plan to comeback to the site, save and store a lot of natal charts and want to dwell into astrology a bit more

3) Now you just enter your birth details. (In this case I’m using Irene’s data). There will be quite a big difference between charts if you won’t enter the exact birth time and choose it as “unknown”.

4) After you click Continue your chart will be generated and That’s it! You have your natal chart! Your Sun/Moon/Mercury and other planets with their signs are in the chart on the left!

(26th March 1990, Seoul)

Key Points of Minseok’s natal chart:

Chart type: Bucket/Funnel which tunnels on Jupiter Singleton and gifts him with “I can do anything” attitude, positivity and also with extreme happiness just there, out of nowhere, to help him to deal with any struggles he might face.

Moon Pisces as Mutable singleton - VERY sensitive and understanding of others’ feelings. Can feel and adapt to the atmosphere in the room very easily.

Bottom side heavy table? (just assumption) it would make his life rather private. And I see him and Kyungsoo as the most private members of them all

Cardinal dominant - natural reformer, loves changes

Capricorn & Pisces dominant - structure + creativity/sensibility

Saturn dominant - adds some structure and hardworking qualities to his childish and air-headed aries and pisces sides

lack of earth shows that he probably has very unrealistic expectations. They’re SO high that doubtful he’ll ever reach them

3 T-Squares - to have even 1 T-Square in one’s chart is a blessing from above and this fella has three of them, sometimes I’m jut so jealous

Square as the most common aspect creates a lot of tension inside. A lot of problems he had to solve but it made him keep moving. Taught him a lot, made him a strong, ambitious, hardworking and an intelligent person.

Sun Aries (*taking in consideration the rest of his chart)

enthusiastic and energetic

a born leader (doesn’t find it difficult to step up and take charge if need be)

kind of argumentative and can get offended easily

thrives on action and isn’t afraid to be forceful

intellectual and objective but some times may appear as an extremist (when it comes to politics, values, religion…)

loves to socialize

likes people who challenge him intellectually or offer some kind of competition

a born extrovert

not the most subtle person

may be quick to get angry but will forgive easily in most cases

usually honest to a fault, may suffer because of it

self-absorbed personality but will be very generous at the same time

(would be doing his own thing, ignoring others but the moment he found out somebody needed help would jump into fire and wholeheartedly help others without a second thought hope it makes sense)

will devote himself to whatever he chose to do (even when it might seem stupid)

doesn’t know when to quit 

Moon Aries -Pisces Cusp

always wants to stay busy

obsessive and determined to get what he wants

rather emotional

instant gratification

naturally talented

takes everything personally but doesn’t hold grudges

gets bored easily

finds it difficult to differentiate wants from needs

amazingly compassionate and can easily put himself in others shoes

this might also make him lose himself in others’ problems

a natural romantic (would NEVER forget somebody’s birthday or a special occasion)

a very deep person

sweet and soft-hearted fluff who genuinely cares about others

empathizes with almost everyone in one way or another

can get overwhelmed with emotions around him

has weird ability to understand things he hasn’t experienced yet

rather sensitive even if he doesn’t show it

can easily get hurt by insults, rejection and criticism

would find a lot of fulfillment by being involved in charitable activity

very curious

as children, pisces moons can easily get bullied into going along with the crowd even if they have this creative and imaginative side to them

it is important for him to have a meaning to his life

not too attached to material possessions

rather clingy and possessive even though rarely shows it

tries to be mysterious but usually messes it up somehow and ends up showing his true colors 

Mercury Aries

quick thinking

doesn’t have a lot of patience for studying every possible outcome

very direct, loves getting to the point asap

may appear blunt or aggressive sometimes but it’s because he tries to shut down any possible opposition to his ideas

it doesn’t occur to him that someone may disagree with his ideas so might act a bit frustrated if somebody goes against him 

very attached to his ideas

when learning, takes what he wants and dismisses anything that feels irrelevant

has a certain innocent charm, love to begin new things and is very enthusiastic about it

any negative criticism will be taken personally though

not afraid to stand up to a challenge

idealistic but also very intelligent

excellent promoter

knows how to motivate people and make things sound fun

loves competing with others, might argue a point simply for the fun of it

will do anything to win an argument

great mental agility, can think well on the spot or extreme situations

finds obstacles absolutely frustrating

witty and inventive also a great conversationalist

charming but also can be brutally honest

opinionated almost to a fault, shares his views even when it isn’t wanted

needs to be kept busy

likes to do things his own way and secretly dislikes being told what to do

a great leader, if not in such position, will have some followers as he naturally inspires people and his enthusiasm is infectious

likes talking about himself, his achievements, his beliefs and passions also his appearance

an aries mercury would be SO GOOD if somebody couldn’t stand up for himself as these people just jump into fire like superheroes to help those in need and they don’t back down until they win. They’re like justice warriors (even when nobody asks them to, as they might cause some trouble because of it…)

Mars Aquarius

he can be a bit difficult to figure out and he loves being that way as he loves to surprise others

finds conventional methods boring and look for new exciting ways to reach his goals

original and unique

needs independence

has no problem standing up for himself

while he may act open-minded he’s surprisingly stubborn and doesn’t let others’ ideas in too easily

hates being trapped, would make him act rebellious

if he thinks somebody found a pattern in his behavior, he’s sure to change it! kek

a lot of ambition and energy

sometimes, his thoughts might appear mad but somewhere in there, it all makes sense

good at getting what he wants

can be the dominant force in a relationship without his partner even realizing it

values his and others’ freedom and individuality above all else and always needs plenty of space

he might come across detached even in a close relationships

likes to run the show, is organized and is a great leader

strives for change and is a natural reformer

likes exploring and anything new, be it everyday life, relationships, food, sex or hobbies. Craves variety and excitement

very defensive of his opinions and ideas

can have very unpredictable “triggers” (but it’s usually something about his lifestyle, identity and beliefs)

Bonus:

Mercury Conjuncting Sun makes him take everything personally. Dealing with him is like dealing with a sunburn. You have to walk on eggshells around him

Uranus Square Mercury can make person lose touch with reality

Venus Square Pluto people have an overwhelming energy to them and can be some of the most seductive and intense people you’ll ever meet

Saturn Aspecting his Sun would’ve made him very childish and immature in his early days but made him mature faster as well

A lot of fire (in this case Aries) placements and jupiter aspects make him very funny

Neptune Aspecting Minseok’s Sun clouds his personality and gives him a confused sense of self. Everybody sees him differently.

(22th May 1991, Seoul)

Key points of Junmyeon’s natal chart:

lack of fire - lack of assertiveness, “meh” sense of humor, not very “out there” and can seem like he lacks energy

sun & saturn dominant - determined, hard-working, charismatic, energetic

aquarius & capricorn dominant - has strong unique views, demands independence, understands the importance of authority, hardworking and ambitious

his chart shows an all-rounded person. He’s good at most things and isn’t too special in any of the fields. Would’ve done great in any other professional field as well ^^

Sun Taurus - Gemini Cusp

eternally young

energetic

once finds something that he really likes, does it A LOT

super versatile

just tries to do too much and too frequently, definitely needs to learn to limit himself, because of it probably wears himself out a lot 

a natural communicator

loves conversations about literally anything but might take over the conversation and start talking in monologue

conflicted about certain things

while he wants to be down-to-earth and stable he’s also drawn towards more unstable and care-free behavior

may not be sensitive to other’s feelings but will spend hours debating over his own emotional matters

tends to burn out, both physically and mentally, needs to learn self-discipline

focuses too much on money and possessions

gentle, dependable and tolerant of others

entertaining and makes loyal friends who are fun to be around

loves to spend time with good food + a quality conversation

stable, intellectual, persistent and has great conversational skills

intelligent and hardworking

independent and proud

if unhappy, tends to become apathetic and sluggish

seriously needs to learn forgiveness

Moon Virgo

often anxious & critical

detail oriented, loves planning

high expectations on himself

likes to make friends and likes to be liked

secretly need constant validations through words

his showing of love might seem like nagging to others (will tell to eat your meals, go and change to something warmer, will scold you for living unhealthy life and such)

most likely keeps criticizing the ones he loves as it’s his way of showing he cares about them (it might drive people away though)

yet he is extremely sensitive to receiving criticism himself

probably has low self-worth

needs to learn to forgive himself and others for not being perfect

very cautious/shy about showing his feelings

even though he may care for somebody deeply, he’d rarely express it openly and freely

looks more mental and logical than emotional

very trustworthy, reliable, reserved, practical and down-to-earth especially when we’re talking about emotions

great source of advice and SO good at comforting others

not a fan of open affection, would need some time to get used to new people

great at analyzing people/situations and then finding the quickest and most efficient method to solve any problem

has a tendency to nit-pick

loves being useful

would show his affection by trying to help people out, serving them in some way

enjoys taking care of details and doing hose-work (might wine but don’t believe him)

sees happiness in the little things of life

easily stressed and is much happier when he is able to stay in his comfort zone

enjoys routine, planning and doing things for a purpose

might appear fussy or like a complainer but he really DOES love his strict schedule

the best at micromanaging

loves being busy and is usually happy while his life is under control

puts up invisible barriers from people whether realizes it or not

born skeptic

can be frustrating because insists on finding practical application to everything

actually full of curiosity but looks apathetic at the same time (this probably confuses a lot of people)

Mercury Taurus

mind as inflexible and stubborn as a mountain

persistent when it comes to his dreams & goals

practical, pragmatic thinker

sometimes lazy to work

loves to give his friends and family advice

patient and good with words, would make a great teacher

talks rather slowly

loves talking about beautiful things, aesthetics, food, art and other creative topics

very well-defined tastes

rather difficult to argue with, as he believes he’s always right

needs to learn how to adapt,

hates being forced into quick decisions

likes building new things

has to see the fruits of his hard work

incredible memory and even more incredible discipline to get through any training

those who’ll take his advice will rarely regret it

Mars Cancer

will do whatever it takes to avoid arguments

tends to hold grudges

his conscience would be killing him if he’d find out he seriously hurt you

possibly passive aggressive

cannot stand other people’s indifference

prefers peaceful solutions

seeks stability in all areas of life

can be quite moody but tries to suppress his emotions + his moon, mercury helps hide it from others

but it’s probably horrible when his emotions explode

loves babies and would definitely want one as soon as possible

very dependable, helpful and protective of his loved ones

but can be quite manipulative as he always likes to get his way/ it’s his way of protecting others because he knows best

Bonus:

Sun Sextile Mars makes him brave and competitive

Pluto Aspecting his Moon cloaks up his feelings and makes it even harder for Junmyeon to be in touch with his emotions

Venus trine Pluto people are almost always  born into money and luxurious life. They also stay rich their whole life.

Jupiter aspecting Mercury makes him want to be intelligent, smart and seek knowledge

Cancer mars men might come across quite feminine, motherly and soft but tend to be dom and aggressive in bed (this is something new I found, dunno how accurate it is)

Saturn aspecting his sun probably made him immature and childish during youth but also made him mature faster

Has OCD when it comes to his feelings. All his feelings MUST be in place and organized, hates when he doesn’t understand some of them

(12 January 1993, Seoul)

Let me begin by saying that it’s extremely difficult for Kyungsoo to express himself and be understood by others. His tightest aspect is Moon Opposition Venus at (-0,01′) literally as tight as an aspect can be. And it’s just such a difficult aspect, I’ll cover it in later posts but think of it this way “Very few people know Kyungsoo, I doubt even other exo members are close enough to know and understand the real Soo not because he doesn’t want to connect to others (oh trust me, he wants to be loved sooo bad). He’s just constantly misunderstood and doesn’t know how to show his care and love“.

Actually this pancake is so interesting, layers upon layers and every single one is more different and interesting than the rest. Even after a whole week of studying his chart I doubt I have a grasp on him.

Dominants/key notices:

lacks air and fire in his table

fire void in one’s table can mean lack of assertiveness OR the person may try to overcompensate by appearing as super manly and powerful (think Luhan)

people who don’t have a lot of air placements dislike “small talk”, think it’s pointless and aren’t that big of socializers

as capricorn dominant he really respects authority, is hardworking, ambitious, likes working on details and is a great organizer

absolutely loves working on details, learning. Constantly wants to improve his mind and work

Capricorn stellium sun, mercury, uranus and neptune (ego, brains and dreams)

This combo makes a very down-to-earth person

very realistic dreams (less dream-like, more like goals)

loves working on details

ambitious, calm and hardworking cutiepie

rational, clearheaded and logical

stubborn and prefers to be in charge rather than bossed around

dislikes surprises

easily concentrates

very practical, responsible and persistent

will never simply bail on a project, will always see it through

nobody is as good at finding the right resources and making the best out of them

rather inflexible thus needs  to learn how to bend and adapt as things don’t always go as he might want

his serious/formal-ish image might make him look angry, unpleasant and difficult to approach

when in reality he’s just cautious

constantly feels like everybody is judging him (as he judges others himself, he thinks others do the same)

doesn’t talk much

making friends is super difficult for him

but the ones he befriends have his unbreakable loyalty (like, this man still prefers hanging out with his childhood friends, tell me this aint loyalty)

yes he’s a great friend but still awful at texting back

i don’t really want to talk about relationships in this series, just know that Kyungsoo would be the absolute bestest husband ever. No buts. I’ll tell you guys about it one day, You’ll melt~

what a thinker he is, he just has to explore and think over all options before making a decision

slow and methodical, appreciates structure in his life

brilliant memory and a passion for learning

material success is VERY important to him

he just loves working, and when stressed he just works even harder, and becomes even more focused

this can wear him down so if you ever meet him just tell’im to relax a bit ty

he’s naturally very cautious

tends to keep his ideas, beliefs and thoughts to himself

by doing this, he puts far too much pressure, worry and stress on himself

it’s a huge struggle for Capricorn dominants to open up and be spontaneous (especially considering his Moon Opposite Venus this is just painful)

he doesn’t want to appear foolish, so chooses what to say carefully, because of this might come off stiff

if he looks confident and natural during a speech you can bet he worried himself sick over how he’d appear and practiced all night

doesn’t get influenced or swayed by others easily

but often feels the need to prove himself

will live and die by his beliefs

actually learns life lessons rather slowly because of his stubbornness

usually chooses a subject and becomes an expert in it (rather than being jack of all trades and learn everything at the same time)

really fascinated by history and traditions

thus wants to do something practical and useful so that he’d leave a mark on this world that would stand the test of time (I believe that’s one of the reasons why he got into acting)

might appear judgmental and strict as he just doesn’t have the patience to explain the obvious

dislikes air-headed people

absolutely hates people who don’t keep their word

pretty skeptical about new ideas, needs time to think them over

powerful voice and he proves he’s worth listening to

has a bad habit of getting himself into negative thoughts

but would not tell anybody until on the point of breaking down

some topics he’d love to talk about: his life goals, history, his reputation and ambitions

most likely a weeb/furry

passive aggressive little shit, but almost everybody in exo is passive aggressive so they probably understand each other well (it’s a joke guys, I’m not trying to be rude)

And now virgo moon and his emotions

what emotions? he’s a virgo moon, he has none

end of paragraph

jk jk

all virgo moons are in denial of having emotions

they don’t do feelings because those are problematic and make life more complicated as they seek perfection, order & have high expectations of themselves

feels shy and insecure about showing others how he feels as he sees it like burdening others and for him feelings = flaw

even a bigger hard worker

but often anxious

he loves being liked and to have friends (even though he doesn’t say it)

but won’t hesitate to cut off a toxic friend out of his circle

secretly thinks he’s better than everybody else~

also, doesn’t say it, but needs constant validation from others 

honestly pisses others off with his love (as a virgo moon, I know what I’m talking about)

will tell you to not stay up late and go to sleep, eat healthy, put on your seat-belt, quit smoking, lecture about your unhealthy lifestyle...

for others it might sound like nagging

but he says it because he truly cares about your health and safety and it would break his heart if you got hurt

will show his love through constructive criticism (the saddest part is that people nowadays can’t take criticism)

but he doesn’t want to hurt you

he wants your relationship and you to be the best you can

almost always gets misunderstood for this showing of love and probably believes there’s something wrong with him sigh

feels like he doesn’t deserve love and sympathy

thus always needs to feel useful

finds it rather difficult to understand other’s feelings

enjoys the little things in life, may deny it, but likes running errands, meddling with details, taking care of the house (may complain, but if he’ll get appreciated, he’ll do his very best)

usually the first to volunteer to help someone

really loves routine or at least feeling that his work is necessary and meaningful

open affection most likely would make him to pull back a bit

give him time to make himself comfortable around you and he’ll show his true colors ^^

Virgo moons enjoy being busy and they’re happy as long as their life feels under control

usually put up invisible barriers to others, whether they realize it or not

they hope that others will put forth the extra effort to get to know them anyway... (haha kill me)

With cancer mars ruling his aggression, he’s rather emotional about conflicts (unlike everybody depicts him)

finds it difficult to let go of past pains, tends to hold grudges

that’s actually the main cause of conflicts - everything pilling up until it explodes into tears

would do almost anything to avoid an argument

sensitive when it comes to family, very close friends, internal anxieties and uncertain future

indifference hurts him more than anything

emotional displays would occur if he felt threatened

seeks security in everything

not very vocal about his needs and expects others to figure it out

exceptionally loyal

loves babies and would want children asap

Bonus:

his sun, moon, mercury, neptune is all strict structure, work and locked up feelings

but his love life is as soft and cute as cotton candy

he’d release all his suppressed emotions, would love his family dearly, would be constantly smiling and just so so happy. Would love talking to his wife, breakfast to bed, hugs, cuddles and just being soft together

he’s such an emotional romantic under that hard shell. Such a family man

he also understands how relationships work very well. He’s not afraid of ups and downs of marriage, divorce is VERY unlikely, he just naturally knows how to have a happy marriage

with Moon in 10th house (esp in conjunction with MC) he would find it easier to express his feelings in public than in private. In his case though (as he has a lot of harsh placements when it comes to relationship with others) thus it makes him exceptionally good at expressing feelings in movies.

And that, my dears, why he’s so good at acting. He might have struggled with expressing himself all his life but stars aren’t cruel, if they take from one aspect of life, they bless you in another ^^

(7 October 1991, Changsha (Hunan))

Our precious Libra prince♕

I’ve never seen a more libra person, almost all of the sign’s qualities apply to him. And if you ever have to give a Libra example just say Yixing without a doubt.

Okay, he might not express all these amazing libra qualities on screen as he (the same as Jongdae) doesn’t have too good television placements but trust me, irl he’s the most lovable person.

A few key libra qualities:

beautiful communication

real charmer with words

the sign of fairness and justice

Now let’s get into more details with Libra Sun, Moon, Mercury & Mars (Ego, Feelings, Brain, Communication and Energy/Aggression ) Everything mixed and matched for a more organized read

libra gives him an expensive taste be it art, food, clothing or about anything literally

a very diplomatic nature, a natural conflict solver and strives to maintain peace in his daily life

all aspects in life must be in harmony

gets along with absolutely everyone

that usually compromises his personality as he tries too hard to keep the peace and everybody happy

tries to understand other person’s point of view, often compromising, at his cost, to keep relationship happy

quite ambitious (but doesn’t like to show it)

a real charmer when he wants to be

libras are the funniest and most likeable people and he’s straight up a libra prince

usually well-liked by friends, loves to socialize

loyal and truly interested in your life~

does well in situations where surrounded by admirers

may be passive-aggressive, instead of being openly upset or mean

you usually don’t even realize when he’s mad at you, but his anger is terrifying so watch your back

gets stressed out by the tinniest little shits... like ugh

if he messes up, pls don’t point it out, he’s already beating himself over it

needs motivation, does best when paired w/ someone they admire

even though he may act spontaneous, he spends a great deal of time formulating his thoughts and opinions

also tends to keep his thoughts and worries to himself and not to tell others

which often results into increased anxiety and being misunderstood

happiest when in relationship and is especially sensitive to his lover’s needs

rudeness, violence and conflict drives this man crazy

will most likely get triggered by injustice and unfair behavior

likes arts, enjoys literature

culture and intelligent people are very important to him

he really likes women and is so romantic that often comes off as sentimental

probably has a great network of people as he’s talented at bringing people together

detail oriented and a dedicated planner

works hard but dislikes dirty work, prefers giving out orders

procrastinator

likes to have his way and will accomplish his goals with the support of others

can change his personality to fit who he’s spending time with, this makes others feel comfortable around him

will never try to force it and try to prove something

despite a lot of positive traits libra people tend to be quite flighty, shallow and flirtatious

rather indecisive and change their opinions every other day

lacks spine, is timid and too easy going to stand up for himself

often anxious, very high expectations on himself, critical thinking

this guy must work on his self-worth, he just puts too much focus on others and is too picky and hard on himself ;-; pls love him 

often uncertain, doesn’t adapt very fast

must weight each side of the decision over and over even if he’s just trying to decide what to have for breakfast

this lack of decisiveness makes him miss some opportunities

moods change constantly yet manages to stay even-tempered throughout all that (usually cheerful and positive)

you’re basically his decision-maker

but if he feels like he doesn’t like your opinion will try to manipulate you into changing it (ofc you won’t notice with his libra sweet-talking and tact)

and after he’s FINALLY made up his mind becomes extremely single-minded

just don’t point out his physical flaws pls

really dislikes being alone

hates being alone SO much that would take somebody with him even for the little trip to the shop around the corner

he kind of expects his partner to read his mind about what he likes/needs

will hold a grudge if the need won’t be met

can be a bit forgetful

Now about his tiny virgo moon part, as his moon is on a cusp between virgo and libra

it would make it kind of hard for him to receive love as he feels like he doesn’t deserve it

even less likely to show his feelings (he already has such a hard time with them)

it also makes him a bit more down-to-earth

appears more logical/mental than emotional

even bigger perfection seeker and never-good-enough-for-himself

Bonus:

People with a lot of earth placements (including Yixing) tend to be great dancers

Mars in 2nd house usually makes one protective of his possessions. May come across as selfish or stingy. (I doubt he ever shares his clothes or any of his belongings, well at least he doesn’t want to)

as he has very strong air placements that’s a red flag that the person wears masks in public

Venus conjunction with Jupiter blesses with great beauty and wealth

now one of the biggest problems I see is lack of water in his chart

so even though he’s sociable and is all about others as a libra dominant

he doesn’t seem to have satisfying relationships with others and doesn’t really understand why

he just doesn’t know how to convey his emotions and finds it extremely difficult to feel genuine sympathy for others

that’s why he might come off as fake but trust me, he just isn’t very in touch with his feelings and prefers to listen to his justice seeking libra brain

lacks “tv star” placements (just like Jongdae) so is not as noticeable and attention seeking on screen

he actually is extremely creative!

the softest and most talkative member in exo FOR SURE

he could literally talk for days

This guy is your typical social butterfly

(21 September 1992, Seoul)

Let’s start with his ego, the side of him he shows to his co-workers and casual friends - virgo sun

it makes him rather down to earth and practical

he enjoys thinking things over, analyzing, making plans and tables in his head (probably has countless notebooks)

loves talking and working on details

easy guy to work with

prefers taking care of others and being in charge than to be the “protectee”

I’m pretty sure he loves counting and planning his money

loves improving himself

secretly very critical and perfectionistic

kinda selective about who he befriends

actually... he probably secretly thinks he’s better than everybody else. It’s very common with virgo people (coming from a Virgo btw. a shameful virgo secret)

he said he’s actually the best singer in EXO, several times. I don’t deny it, but if he says such things we can only imagine what goes on in his head...

now let’s dive deeper, into his feelings, see what makes him sad and happy, with that cancer moon

very nurturing and helping nature

great supportive friend

feels the best among his friends, loves taking care of them

friends brings him comfort and emotional stability and I doubt he could ever lead a “lone wolf” life

mood swings, a lot of them (mars is empowering his moon and moon is in his natural sign - cancer, so yeah, even stronger than the usual cancer moon)

but not very likely to show his “down and sad” side to others

seeks to feel safe (emotionally, romantically, financially, you name it)

kind, gentle and considerate bean

is very unhappy when doesn’t get what he wants and when he actually does get it, drops it and jumps to other thing (kind of like a little kid)

loves showing love to others by straight up giving gifts, making their bed, cooking meals,... (very materialistic, understandable showing of love)

loves seeing that he makes a difference in other people’s lives

can’t receive straight compliments. Becomes suspicious. Feels like it’s some set up or that something’s actually wrong.

Tell him “you look more rested and happier today” or any other case of “ you look less bad than back then...” and he’ll be sooo happy

Leo rising gives him warm and energetic (even sort of electric) aura

he needs to be the center of attention,

has great sense of humor

Easy to talk to but hard to befriend. hella sexy imo

Now, we finally got to his sexy libra mercury brain which is his dominant as well!

a real poet’s mind

don’t lie, we all LOVE to talk to a libra mercury

incredibly social

born peacemaker

will never impose his opinion on anybody, will ask what you want first

but will secretly think that he knows better

indecisive when several options present

explosion of charm, beauty and art

social butterfly

has no spine, climbs the social ladder with social skills

thus ends up rather underdeveloped inside (as such people don’t stand up for their values)

this incredible mind of his + powerful jupiter influence makes him funny and a real prankster

he’s the soul of the party and with that leo rising everybody wants to get a peace of his charm

I wouldn’t be surprised if in real life he’d be the most charming person out of the group

and would put the rest of exo to shame with his charisma (baek and chanyeol who? The two feel more comfortable in front of camera and in the company of their friends. While Jongdae is a social butterfly who loves meeting new people)

BONUS:

He doesn’t have a lot of “television star” placements like the others covered so far so that might explain why he doesn’t have as big of a “presence” on screen as the other members

Very Cardinal personality, no notable Fixed placements. Basically he’ll constantly try to go against the current ofc in his subtle libra ways. Always up for change.

I actually see him having a lot of problems with relationships, probably attracted to older women. And there’s some deep hidden fear and insecurities about relationships. (Saturn & Dark Lilith in 7th house, I assume it’s also related to his childhood trauma, read below)

constantly unhappy and problems with the way newly met people see him. Maybe he just sucks at first impressions? Maybe he dislikes the impression he leaves to others? All I know it’s one of his insecurities.

He has some aspects that make him rather stubborn and with saturn as one of his dominant planets he respects order and hierarchy. He’s very polite when he needs to be, respects authority and understands it’s importance.

for my dirtier readers: he’s most definitely a sub but I’m almost sure he is super into thigh grabbing and has chocking kink. You didn’t hear it from me.

“Don’t you think the last post was too much?”

“If you hate exo so much why do you write about them?”

“it’s astrology yet you’re blaming them as if it all is 100% true”

“This is lowkey rude”

"Why are you so hateful and rude?"

I’m not that rude, actually, I'm usually a shy and silent bystander unless we’re talking about certain topics. Men preferring mom figures as their s/o is one of them. 

Trigger Warning. Sharing unpopular opinion

I’ve been taught that the ultimate happiness for a woman is to marry, take care of her husband and have children. It’s what men like and that these "business women" will die alone, unhappy and with nobody wanting to marry them. (and no, I live in the west)

And however much I’d like to disagree with my dad’s words, I learned the hard way that it’s true. I’ve lived long enough to realise it.

Men look for weaker, softer women to use as replacement for mothers. To support them emotionally, to tell them to study, to cook them delicious meals as if they were pampered little boys again. They are scared of “masculine” career women.

And I am not a salty “career woman”. I’m actually that constantly used cancer “mom” figure. And I’ve seen how these kind of relationships play out. You’re living for him. And he’ll see if he’ll have some time left for you. But you don’t fkn care, because you love him, so you give your whole existence to him just because you’re this soft and selfless cancer. And it seems like you’re happy until they get bored and don’t appreciate the things you do anymore. It becomes “the norm” to cook for them, clean the rooms, give them massages, listen to all their troubles and pamper them with compliments. And you’re left with nothing but hurt as you gave all your time to them but they were doing something “bigger” with their lives and now you’re simply not enough. Such a one-sided relationship.

And when I played the stronger woman’s role I got bashed for being too masculine, not loving him enough and if I really need a relationship if I spend so much time studying and working. I would get constantly compared to other girlfriends and how “better at the girlfriend thing” they were.

So sorry for being biased, But it hurts. I want strong women to be wanted and I want equality in relationships. A girl should not be a stepping stone to a guy's success and she should not be just a warm fireplace to come back to after work. Please girls, don’t sacrifice all of yourself to a guy, no matter how much you care for him. To some people it’s easy to be egoistic but others are natural givers and find it very difficult to not live for others.

Again, I’m generalising a lot because I’m talking about the majority, I know there are guys who like independent women, but think of all your friends who are married. I’m almost sure most of them are soft and caring. Guys prefer career women for casual dating.

Sorry that my emotions show through in my posts. I’ll be reviewing all of my analysis in the upcoming week to fix the typos, wording, add some newly learned things and will try to remove any unnecessary sensitive comments I made. Even though this started out as a pretty personal blog, this should be an astrology blog, not a diary and I get it.

Now off to cook dinner. Love you, buttercups!

EDIT: So I just wanted to share a story an anonnie just sent. We can all learn from it tbh.

–I just wanted to share this with people who don’t understand. But I wanted to say that I understand your pain. I saw how my mother had to give up every single of her dreams so my father could become a musician –he was, and still is, in a rock band here in our country which is pretty famous if you’re into the world of rock and punk; but that was because of the hours and hours he spent. Music was his passion, and that’s what enamoured and killed my mother at the same time –not literally, but mentally. She was young, 25, when she married him, and after two years of marriage I was born. She had to watch how the man he married wasn’t there the day his daughter was born bc he had a concert, how even if parents are supposed to love their children the most, he still rejected me in order to improve in music, how even if I had a 40ºC fever, he would still go to practice, letting my mother all alone –everyday, at home. He got out of the house at 9 in the morning and returned, at least at 11 pm. I know my father loved me and my mother, but, we both knew that his one and only true love was music –he’s career, and year by year that made my mom sink more and more into depression.

She doesn’t love him anymore –not in the way she loved him when she said the ‘I do’, but somehow she still loves him and stays by his side. I watched my mom sacrifice everything she had for a man that didn’t even look at her twice before disappearing when she needed him the most; and what really pains me it’s knowing that somehow, when I marry someone, I’ll end up being as miserable as my mother.

If this isn’t the most heartbreaking story I’ve heard I don’t know what is. We all romanticize idols but here’s the other side of the coin... Honestly, your mom is a hero, I wish to be such a strong woman to hold the family together even through the toughest moments.

And cupcake, we will not suffer the same pains! We learned the lesson! I just wish girls wouldn’t fall for the “guys want this kind of girl so I gotta become her to be liked” and end up ruining their lives.

THANKYOOOOU Chocolate Chips for spamming my mailbox with cutest supportive messages, adorable and positive chain messages but me, being an antisocial fuck I am, never passing them on and so sorry for not posting all of them here but I just want to keep you all to myself

but honestly I just feel like those messages were personally to me and not for everybody? Like they don’t care whatever messages I get because it’s not for them? I dunno, does it make sense? But it sure makes me happy. Actually after every positive message I manage to sit down and do a 5 hour work in an hour or so. Because.  I get the power. kill me

so I had this adorable anon who put a lot of time and effort and added some more details to the talk about Bakhyun’s preferences in women

"Idk if it’s cause of their age but chanbaek used to be the noona killers of the group but there was this massive study (if I find again I’ll link you!! 💜) that showed that now both are the ones who barely have any and obviously that might be for a number of reasons (newer,younger groups, not AS cute - bbh for instance isn’t doesn’t act that cute any more and rarely does aegyo etc, also they’re older etc) but I also don’t see either as ideally wanting to be with older women anymore maybe It’s because like I said they’re older so they might not be AS interested as before but yeah I just really see them being into younger girls. Also the way baekhyun (not chanyeol since he still so shy - probably cause of cameras) but baekhyun is so flirty with younger idols like watch Star Show 360 (search flirty baekhyun on Star Show 360) I know that’s only one thing but even the way he looks at younger girls at events and like the way he acted with seulgi compared to say amber is so Different also cause exo have said he has the manliest personality and chen hinted at him always wanting to like dominate? Or more like take lead and I feel like with younger girls he’d find it a lot easier in a way I can’t think of the word in English (also ew I’m generalising so much with the take lead thing I’m sorry) :/ but yeah we’ll never know until he says lol but I just noticed how that’s been like a point you always include with baekhyun that’s all :) this was so long and ahhh”

That is a VERY good point. Baekhyun is not a small and immature boy anymore, he’s a 92 liner, that makes him 26 in Korean age. That’s the peek time for marriage in his culture. And as an idol he had a lot of exposure to women, thus probably matured relationship-wise faster. So, the older, expensive, hard to get girls were his ideal type for casual dating but he probably felt like it wasn’t working for him in long term relationships. It was fun while it lasted.

I’m pretty sure now he’s leaning more towards his Juno/Companion (marriage, long-term partners) placements which would describe his ideal as a fun & outgoing Aries woman, who’d he have fun with him BUT at the same time a woman with a lot of Cap placements - traditional, organized, mature, when need be. The fact that he’d want a Cap girl means he’d want a traditional marriage with most likely a younger wife. Also his 4th house (of family) is also soft, cuddly, innocent and sensitive cancer so I bet he wants to protect his s/o. Also a huge alert that he’d like a younger partner.

So to sum it all up, now he’s probably looking for somebody to settle down with and not just for casual dating. And that anon actually deserves an award. She made me realise that most of exo members aren’t looking for casual relationships anymore. They’re mature and old enough to be looking for women to tie the knot with. Mind blown I know

Is there someone from exo that would have a good connection with a scorpio and why?

This question was rather vague but I’d feel bad if I ignored it and didn’t explain it.

I assume you’re talking about your sun sign. As sun sign shows only your ego/character, it’s VERY difficult to find the right match just by your ego. If you want to keep it simple you could check just your venus(love), mercury(brain, communication, mind) and moon(true self you show people close to you) signs and try to match them. Sun sign is usually used to check compatibility for casual friends and co-workers.

Sooo as casual friends you’d get along especially well with Capricorns (Kai, Kyungsoo, maybe Chanyeol on his calmer days)

It is possible that you meant Scorpio as your dominant sign. Then you’d be besties with Chanyeol and Kai

Includes mostly Mars & Eros for Sexual Attraction;  Venus, Juno, Companion for Romantic attraction.

Xiumin

Sexually - Aquarius & Pisces -: literally cotton-candy-like eyes and smile. So sweet you just never want to let go of it. Prefers chubbier girls with beautiful hair, dreamy and unique fashion sense. Somebody cute and a dreamy.

Romantically - Aquarius, Scorpio & Gemini -: This man loves dimples more than anything. Trust me. Darker, mysterious eyes would get him hooked. Appreciates original style, charming and ambitious personality. Well sexually he’d be attracted to someone with a bit of fat in the right places, but for dating he’d prefer a skinny girl. He’s looking for creative, ambitious and charismatic girl so they both would lead fun and fulfilling lives. Would love coming back home and talking about each other’s days, supporting each other in everything they do and most importantly not being overly dependent on each other and leading fulfilling lives.

Offs: probably not too fond of hyperactive or hella sassy and hard to get attitude.

Jongin (Kai)

Sexually - Capricorn & Pisces -: Would like a mix of traditional and artistic girl. Dreamy eyes + defined and prominent eyebrows? Classy and strict style + fun and colorful patterns? Melancholic eyes + traditional and strong outfit? Just mix and match. As he’s not head over heals for girls (work/friends first) he’d most likely find this mix extremely interesting and would be eager to find out more.

Romantically - Capricorn, Libra & Cancer -: Charisma, softness and order. The holy trinity he seeks in his s/o. Would like a traditional soft looking girl with maybe more defined eyebrows or a more defined nose. Would die for a cute smile. Probably likes a girl with nice casual & clean style: t-shirts, shorts, jeans, adidas sneakers + flower patterns and girly colors. In his s/o he’s looking for a charismatic fluff who’d also be a sweet and loving.

Offs: Over-energetic, loud, insensitive, attention-whore

Suho

Sexually - Cancer & Sagittarius -: This man can appreciate a nice figure. Breasts & Hips guy. Doesn’t care too much about in-between. He'd love a childish/mischievous and innocent look. Big sparkling eyes would most likely drive him mad. Nice smile and roundish face would also be a bonus.

Romantically - Cancer, Aquarius & Libra -: Would find dimples especially cute, would want a tall-ish girl with nice curves, feminine but also someone who’d express herself through unique clothing style, sociable but not too out-there for attention. He’d love a girl with positive, creative and loving outlook to the world. He’s looking for a creative, soft and charismatic girl. A social butterfly most likely. A cute flower  you’d love to show your parents if you were a guy.

Offs: too aggressive, all-over the place kind of woman, masculine, hardcore feminist would be a huge turn off

Kyungsoo (D.O.)

Sexually - Cancer & Sagittarius -: Pretty much the same as Suho. Breasts man. Would love a cute, shy and a bit childlike character. Would find a curious and adventurous woman charming. But I somehow don’t see him as the guy to sleep with whoever attracts him.

Romantically - Pisces, Cancer & Aquarius -: This is man appreciates a woman with beautiful hair. Big beautiful eyes would instantly catch his attention. Would like girly, dreamy style. Unbelievably soft and cute but creative, with an artsy soul. He’s looking for a very feminine woman, in touch with her feelings, also a giving soul and just an artistic fluff overall. I can imagine his wife to be a stay-at-home artist mom. As she’d love her family, taking care of her husband almost as much as she would love to be creative and show her individuality through her work.

Offs: Aggressive, overly clingy, stubborn, insensitive, self-centered, rude, career women

Baekhyun

Sexually - Pisces, Aries & Taurus -: Prominent eyebrows/forehead, passionate, lively eyes, sweet smile, smooth and fine hair, feminine, romantic style with some bold elements (maybe showing some more skin, shorter skirts/shorts). Nice figure would be a huge bonus. Somebody who’d play hard to get would look especially intriguing.

Romantically - Taurus, Aries & Capricorn -: Eyebrows. Your eyebrow game has to be on point to catch his attention. Strong feminine features, classy or minimalistic fashion style, mischievous look. He appreciates a beautiful smile as he’d love to make his girl laugh. He’s looking for a pretty traditional and stable girl to run the house and take care of herself but she also should have a spark and love for spontaneous adventures also she should appreciate his humor

Offs: I doubt he’d get a long with very artsy and dreamy personas, he’s more down to earth. Not having a sense of humor would also be a huge no-no.

Jongdae (Chen)

Sexually - Cancer & Virgo -: Hair. Shiny, fine hair. Straight, curly hair. This man loves beautifully styled hair. (messy hairstyles are a no-no though). Prominent face bone structure is his magnet but would not mind a softer look as well. Would be attracted to a tidy, sweet looking woman. Someone who looks like she has her life figured out, confident with big doll eyes. Clean, neat style + soft colors with a fuller figured woman would be a killer.

Romantically - Libra, Gemini, Pisces & Sagittarius -: He’d love a super exciting, lively and charismatic girl. Would probably notice girl’s figure and dimples first. He finds it unbelievably attractive. Would prefer someone skinny and with a beautiful smile as s/o. Let’s be honest he’d love seeing that smile all the time. He’d be more into casual, comfy styled clothing. In his girlfriend he’s looking for someone like him! Super charismatic and bubbly, curious and adventure loving with a creative mind. I imagine them having fun and being absolute chatterboxes all of the time. They’d think of weirdest activities to do and never get bored. Aaah what a fun couple

Offs: Probably wouldn’t be fond of somebody stubborn, overly aggressive, negative, wouldn’t find rudeness charming.

Yixing (Lay)

Sexually - Libra & Sagittarius -: Eyebrows and Dimples man. Small feminine faces, adorable smiles, an overload of charisma and energy would be the end of this man. He would love a real chatterbox who’d enjoy exploring, learning new things and would be full of life. He would most likely prefer a minimalistic casual-sporty style. Think of amusement park date clothing style - colourful, playful, comfortable and simple.

Romantically - Virgo, Leo, Capricorn & Scorpio -: a very traditional girl but with powerful, mysterious aura and strong look. Especially notices girls’ hair and figure. Would be fascinated by an independent woman with ambition and structure in her life. So I’d say a classy outfit and perfectly styled hair would catch his eye. Also loves when a woman is hard-working, tidy and organized. He’d love to support his wife and to be a power couple together! Would admire each other’s work, support whenever one or the other would feel like giving up and countless compliments~ He’d be such a sweetie and would love the fact that his baby is conquering the world and making her dreams come true.

Offs: A mess, clumsy, lazy woman

Chanyeol

Sexually - Cancer & Scorpio -: Roundish, cute face, very noticeable eyes, great posture, soft voice, beautiful hair. Would like an average/healthy body. Not too skinny and not too chubby. Would be attracted to a girl with cute but mysterious aura. I can see him into minimalistic classy or casual clothing style. Keep it feminine and cute but don’t make it the most important part of your look. Your eyes should be. Make those eyes pop.

Romantically - Capricorn x2, Cancer -: He’d love a typical waifu. Very motherly and traditional. He’d fall for somebody caring, loving and giving herself to the world but also somebody who’d like order, structure and would have some ambition. Unconditional love + taking care of the house and that xxl sized boy. Most likely would prefer a woman with classy-minimalistic-girly style. Would love it if his s/o looked innocent and cute so he would appear as the protector and your hero. His family’s consent is very important to him.

Turn-offs: very independent women, lazy, somebody who’d complain and whine

Sehun

Sexually -Pisces & Taurus - : This man loves and appreciates a good figure. A woman with a beautiful hourglass body, glamorous hair and perfect eyebrows would make him drop all his marbles. Classy + dreamy/romantic outfit would be the final nail in the poor guy's coffin. He loves women who know their worth but are still feminine and have a soft charm.

Romantically - Taurus, Libra, Cancer - : A real beauty. Overflowing with charm, down-to-earth, charismatic but not too all over the place. He finds a hint of confidence charming but not too much as he’d love to keep you under his wing and be the protector. Loves Romantic and cute style. I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t mind his s/o being a bit chubby as it is usually considered feminine and soft. Also eyebrows, Eyebrows and eyebrows I cannot stress it enough. He loves a pair of beautifully groomed eyebrows. Would actually like somebody clingy. He probably would love the constant attention and the feeling of being needed.

Offs: attention whore, hyperactive, scary/intimidating/powerful aura, snobby, untidy, rude

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What’s the purpose of Extrology?

I’m into Astrology and EXO is great practice (as I know literally nothing about them). Here I share my finds and sort my mind into tiny scenarios to make sense of it.

Think of this blog as my public astrology journal, I’m not here to convince anybody, just my input in exo community.

Exo bias?

None as I can’t choose for the sake of god

Top 3 doe:

Kyungsoo

Xiumin

Chanyeol?? (I have such a love & hate relationship with this guy, one day he’s “definitely my ultimate bias” and the next I absolutely hate his childish ass)

How long have I been into EXO?

All my friends were exo-ls from the very beginning so I heard countless stories and jokes about them but I didn’t get into exo until maybe 2-3 months ago? I’ve never read about them or watched their reality shows and I have maybe 10 pictures of them across all platforms. So by no means I can say I know them. I use astrology to get to know them (hence the name of the series) so what might seem obvious to some, really isn’t to me.

I like their music. I enjoy watching their performances and latest interviews once in a while. And I absolutely love exo memes, this community is too good. And that’s about it. It’s more about astrology practice.

Astrology background?

I’ve been breathing and living astrology for the past half a year. It literally consumed me. I have no life now. ty stars.

What makes me happy?

Chanyeol talking ASMR, Luhan’s, Scarra’s, 뜨뜨뜨뜨’s voices

talks about video games and e-sports

learning languages

drawing

playing piano

not showing my work to others

improvised public speaking

music (I have a serious addiction to music, it’s not a meme)

favs: 20-60s blouse and jazz, grime, rap, exo, IU, 7th sense

old Hollywood movies

doing laundry, ironing clothes

organizing my mind into mind maps and tables

succeeding in my diet

Why don’t you talk to people?

<<Main Planets & Asteroids Used + His general chart. Skip this section for general description>>

Moon (what needs) - Cap (order, stability, old-fashioned/traditional partner/relationship, control) |

Venus (how acts in love) - Cap (order, stability, old-fashioned views, control)|

Mars (sex) - Cancer (motherly, giving, soft and caring, emotional)|

Neptune (unconditional/idealised love) for Caps (traditional, strict, organised, ambitious) |

Pluto (req for intimacy) - Scorpio (passion, danger, power, mysterious aura) |

Lilith (desires in love/sex) - Pisces (emotions, creativity, softness)|

Eros (what turns on) - Scorpio (passion, danger, power, mysterious aura, Erogenous zone - Genitals)

Juno (marriage) - cancer (soft, caring, emotional bond, feeling of belonging and home)

Anteros (the kind of love he receives overall) - aries 1st (strong and wild love for his personality)

Companion (who’d be the perfect long term partner) - Cap (stable, traditional, ambitious)

Valentine (what would sacrifice for true love) - taurus 2nd (all his material possessions)

DC (ideal type looks/aura) - virgo (clean, organised, perfectionist, intelligent looking)

his ideal type to date would be the really cold queen with beautiful feminine features

a woman who doesn’t care much about romance and is all about power, career, incredibly high standards and who loves a man with high position. Romance for her is just business

he’d love her stable and traditional side, I feel like Chanyeol would get along with a Capricorn woman incredibly well as his Moon, Venus, Neptune and Companion are all Capricorns. They would understand each other well and there would be few conflicts in the relationship

basically Chanyeol dreams about getting himself a hang off that fem fatal girl. (Quite a challenge considering his cancer mars but he’s got fame and status so why not. He wouldn’t be very happy in such a relationship for too long as it would seem too cold for him. He seeks emotional softness but it’s a nice challenge for his ego)

Now about the girl he’d fall from the first sight AKA how to look to catch his attention

A girl with high standards, sleek style, all details perfect, clean and planned out. Manicure, hair & eyebrows on fleek, classy and minimalistic outfit. A woman who has control and looks like she has a hold of her life.

he would generally fall for a person with powerful aura, confidence and stability

The traits that would naturally awaken his sexual attraction or would make one seem like waifu material (his inner husband would come out and he’d want to settle down with such person)

Someone with large, charming and doll like eyes who provoke vulnerability. Usually smol, a bit to the chubby side, light skin. Such face and looks would instantly make others want to protect this cancer. It would be Chanyeol’s weak spot. She’s delicate, has a motherlike caring aura and it seems like there’s no end to her kindness. She shows her affection by cooking, listening to all your troubles, making all kinds of gifts and just giving all of herself to the world.

caring, loyal and sensitive. Somebody who’ll show their love by actions. Sweet, creative and understanding. A family oriented woman, might be a bit jealous or sometimes overly emotional

(Might sound strange that such an innocent looking being would bring out the beast in Chanyeol but he’d most likely want to protect her and his emotional hunger for unconditional love and cuddles would take the better of him.)

Chanyeol would be very unstraightforward with his love and would confess only later when he was absolutely sure

would go after his crush in very subtle ways

he doesn’t flirt if he actually likes his crush, just stares at her and imagines things in his mind (would talk the same way he does with everybody else, I feel like he had to learn flirting as an idol though :/ and the reactions probably fed his sag ego :/ But if he was genuinely attracted to somebody I doubt he’d be this brave. poor cancer mars men)

shows his affection by providing warmth, stability and protection from the rest of the world

will try to charm his crush by acting like a gentleman

he seems aloof and caring at the same time (basically his ultimate charm)

hates mind games more than anything (and he will definitely see through all your lies)

alpha-male

sugar daddy material

naturally takes the lead and will show his crush he can take care of her/him

doesn’t like his sex life being dragged into public

wants long-lasting relationships

very mature approach to love

likes traditional type of relationships

a lot of feels but doesn’t like talking about them

lowkey super possessive (ofc doesn’t show it)

career > love

runs away from problems by working

doesn’t show when feels down

if he’s feeling down, listen to him, avoid giving advices, try to distract him or just leave him with his thoughts and music

after sex talks would be the best way to get out of him why he’s been down lately

he actually loves intellectual after-sex conversations, could spend hours on end just laying and talking in bed

enjoys challenges and proving his love with actions

during sex will want to stimulate his lover's emotions and connect to him on emotional/intellectual level

a subtle and sensitive explorer in bed

will try to please in the best way he can

nurture his feelings since he’s quite sensitive

likes gentle, sweet sex, doesn’t mind being submissive

doesn’t like it rough, keep it romantic

most likely addicted to sex

although faithful, can get bored as he likes to change things up

but family is his soft spot and would be a great husband

just by looking at his chart you can see he’s going to be an incredibly great father and husband. (Even though he MIGHT not look like it now) Quote me on this.

He’s going to be a soft, outgoing and fun dad for his kids, but a great traditional manly husband who has a soft spot for his wife. Tell me that ain’t perfect.

jupiter, in 7th especially libra, points to having a lot of relationships before finally settling down

I’m almost sure he had a lot of girlfriends (but his genius detective mind is too sharp to get caught for it unlike poor Jongin)