Just look at her — bent over, moaning, completely lost in pleasure while her man fucks her hard from behind… except it’s not his cock anymore. It’s my strap-on. And she’s loving every inch of it.
Once you’ve kept him locked long enough and built up all that incredible passion we talked about in my last post, something beautiful happens. His desperate, throbbing energy becomes completely focused on your pleasure. And when he finally puts on the strap-on and you take every thrust… it can be incredibly intoxicating.
He gets to feel me using him while I get filled and fucked exactly the way I want. His tiny cage stays locked and useless, leaking and bouncing helplessly as I ride the strap-on he’s wearing. There’s no performance anxiety, no worrying about how long he’ll last — just pure, raw, focused passion.
Mentally, it’s on another level. Sure, a strap-on doesn’t feel exactly the same as a real cock, but that almost doesn’t matter. The psychological high of being fucked by my locked husband while he’s completely denied is insanely hot. I can cum multiple times on it — something I never could have imagined doing with his real cock. Most of the time back then I didn’t cum at all because he would finish before me and leave me horny and unsatisfied.
Now? I cum every single time. And honestly, it doesn’t feel mean — it feels fair. He had years of getting to cum whenever he wanted while I was often left frustrated. This is just balance. The strap-on gives me exactly what I need, and his denial gives him the deep submissive thrill he craves.
This is the next level of the intimacy I described before. The longer he’s denied, the more intense these moments become. He wants me so badly that he’ll do anything, take anything, and channel every ounce of his frustration into pleasing me. And I get to enjoy a thick, reliable strap-on that never gets soft, never cums too early, and always hits exactly where I need it.
Long-term chastity doesn’t just make him a better husband outside the bedroom — it completely transforms what happens inside it too. His locked little dick gets replaced by something that actually satisfies me, and he gets the deep submissive thrill of knowing that’s exactly how it should be now.
If you’ve been on the fence about bringing a good strap-on into your dynamic… do it. Especially after months of consistent teasing and denial. The passion it unlocks is next-level.
He’s so horny and so desperate to feel like a man again that he’ll eagerly put the strap-on on over his locked pink cage and fuck me with everything he has. In those moments he gets to pretend — even if just for a little while — that he’s the one taking me. That he’s the one making me moan.
The humiliation of knowing he can only do it with a fake cock while his own stays locked and soft is intense, but he clearly loves the thrill of finally getting to “fuck” me again after being denied for so long.
Sometimes he gets so worked up that he actually cums in his cage while he’s thrusting. The embarrassed, flushed look on his face when that happens is adorable. But for me? It’s the biggest compliment. It means the mix of denial, teasing, and finally getting to be inside me again (even with the strap-on) was just too much for him to handle.
I love this game because it keeps him constantly off-balance. He never knows how long he’s really going to be locked, and even when he thinks he’s finally going to get to fuck me like a husband, he still ends up serving me with a fake cock while his own stays denied. And yet… he keeps playing. Because some part of him really needs it.
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FAQ: Starting and Maintaining Your Female-Led Chastity Lifestyle
Q: How do I even start this lifestyle if I’m feeling a little shy or unsure? Start small and stay consistent. Pick one simple rule (like daily chastity checks or a short list of household tasks) and enforce it firmly but calmly. The more you lean into it with confidence, even if it feels a little awkward at first, the more natural and exciting it becomes for both of you. Remember: the fact that he wants this with you is the ultimate compliment. It shows how deeply he trusts you and how comfortable he feels surrendering control to you. That level of vulnerability is a beautiful sign of love.
Q: What if I’m not always “in the mood” to be strict or dominant? That’s completely normal, and it’s why passive domination and self-maintenance rules are so powerful. The worst thing you can do, even for one second, is let him sense that you’re not into it or that you’re not serious about the things you say regarding his cage, SPH, punishments, etc. it only takes a single comment to shatter the facade you've spend so long to create. Stay in character. Even a simple, firm text like “You’re in trouble tonight” keeps the dynamic alive without requiring constant high energy from you. The more you act into it, the more into it he becomes and it creates a cycle where the play gets hotter and more intense for both of you.
Q: How do I keep the chastity play going every day without it feeling like extra work for me? Make him do the heavy lifting. Create a list of rules he must maintain on his own (shaved body, painted toes, daily line-writing, pictures every time he leaves the house, etc.). Then set simple reminders on your phone for low-effort teasing: a quick chastity compliance photo demand, a spicy selfie, or a text that says “don't forget your spanks tonight!”
One of my favorite techniques is to casually point out small “failures” around the house, even things that are barely noticeable or slightly exaggerated. “The kitchen counter wasn’t wiped down properly last night” or “I found a shoe out of it's place.” He’ll start constantly surveying everything himself, trying to stay ahead of any possible punishment. This keeps him mentally locked in the dynamic with almost zero ongoing effort from you and makes him act proactively.
Q: Should he get spanks every single night even if he’s been good? YES! At 10 maintenance spanks every night, no matter what, plus any additional ones he’s earned that day. This keeps the power exchange alive and reminds him that discipline is part of the lifestyle, not just a reaction to bad behavior. It’s consistent, predictable, and deeply reinforcing. Always follow through. Consistency is the single most important thing in this lifestyle. If you say there will be consequences, there must be consequences, every single time. If he tests a boundary then it's your job to make sure he pays for it with an appropriately over the top punishment!
Q: Why does humiliation so often lead to feminization and emasculation? Humiliation in this context is about stripping away his sense of traditional masculinity and reinforcing that he exists for your pleasure and control. Feminization (dressing him in lingerie, painting his nails, making him wear the pink cage, giving him a pet name like "princess", etc.) is simply one of the most effective and visually powerful tools for that emasculation. It’s not because he secretly wants to be a girl or identifies as one, that is a gender identity thing, it’s because making him look and feel pretty, dainty, and submissive heightens the contrast with the strong, masculine role society expects of him. Men that are into this kind of thing are almost always men that are high performing masculine men outside the bedroom and their brain is subconsciously seeking an escape from it. The goal is role reversing, consensual humiliation and emasculation that satisfies his subconscious desire to be cared for and vulnerable in a way that society doesn't allow him to but you as his most trusted person can. it's not about changing his gender identity, sexuality, or anything else deeper then that.
Q: How important is teasing compared to just keeping him locked? Extremely important. Pure denial without teasing is a relationship killer. It cannot be stressed enough that it is a tease AND denial fantasy, not a Tease OR denial fantasy. Teasing AND denial is what keeps him desperately attentive, horny, and devoted. Simple daily actions: wearing the key visibly, sending a teasing text, making him kiss your feet when you put on shoes, or wearing something sexy while he’s locked. these things turn the cage from a passive object into an active, constant reminder of your control. Never let the dynamic go quiet into denial without some even small tease.
Q: I’m worried about getting overwhelmed with too many rules and tasks. How do I avoid that? This is the most common way keyholders burn out. The solution is simple: make the lifestyle work for you. Create rules that reduce your mental load rather than increase it. Reference some of the systems we’ve shared before:
He maintains his own garter & stocking collection and must wear them whenever he leaves the house (with random photo proof).
Every Thursday he dresses as a maid and deep-cleans the house while you relax or go out.
He keeps your car clean and gas tank full at all times.
He performs your beauty routines (skincare, nails, etc.) on himself so you never have to look at an unkempt man.
He writes 50 lines every night (“I’m Master’s little bitch”) and presents them for inspection.
When the rules are designed so he maintains everything, the dynamic actually makes your life easier and more pleasurable while still feeding his need for control and humiliation.
the key is that even these passive things need to become active every once in a while, even if just once every few weeks. e.g. he writes lines every night and it is usually just fine but sometimes maybe the handwriting is too sloppy and now he has an additional 10 spanks that night and he better write them neater tomorrow or it'll be 20! etc...
Q: How do I move from occasional play to true 24/7 chastity and deeper submission? Start with structure and consistency, then gradually add layers. Once he’s reliably following the basic rules, begin layering in more permanent elements: permanent hair removal or a permanent tattoo, painted nails that stay on, his cage gets smaller and stays on 24/7, regular pegging (pegging Thursday!), and increasingly strict protocols. The more you stay consistent and act like this is your permanent dynamic (because it is), the faster he sinks into deep, eager submission. Make him know it and feel it too. at some point tell him that you're enjoying this dynamic SO much that you literally cannot even think of a reason to go back or EVER let him out. He should be under the mental impression that he will never be unlocked but that if he ever even wants the chance that he needs to be perfect.
Q: Any final advice for new (or hesitant) keyholders? Stay consistent, stay in character, and make this lifestyle genuinely improve your life. When you do it right, he becomes more attentive, helpful, romantic, and devoted while living out his deepest fantasies. The more you lean into your power with confidence and enjoyment, the more fun and intense the entire dynamic becomes for both of you. You’re not just playing a game — you’re creating a beautiful, fulfilling female-led relationship that works for you.
Holding the Key Is the Easy Part: A Keyholder’s Practical Guide to Chastity
If your husband asked you to lock him, and asked you to keep control of the key, then congratulations.
You are a keyholder.
That is the whole definition. A keyholder holds the key. There is nothing deeper hiding in the word.
But here is what nobody tells you on day one.
Holding the key is the easy part.
Holding the authority behind it is the actual job.
This guide is about that job.
What a Keyholder Actually Signs Up For
The lock is simple. You can buy it online and have it on him by the weekend.
What changes is everything around the lock.
A caged man behaves differently. He thinks differently. He looks at you differently. And most women are handed the key with zero instructions on what to do with the man attached to it.
That is not your failure. Nobody taught you.
So let us fix that.
Anyone can hold the key. The real job is everything under the surface.
Before You Take the Key
Here is the first hard truth, and it is the one that saves the most relationships.
A cage does not create submission. It magnifies what is already there.
If he already wants to submit to you, the cage deepens it. If he does not, no amount of plastic will manufacture it out of thin air. (Read – Thinking a Chastity Cage Will Fix Your Relationship?)
So before the lock clicks shut, talk.
Agree on what being locked actually means in your home. Agree on how he signals you the moment something feels physically wrong. (Read – The Importance of Consent in a Female Led Relationship)
And one piece of plain safety, because this is a practical guide and not a fantasy.
A cage should never cause pain, numbness, cuts, or swelling. If it does, it comes off immediately, no discussion. A cage that hurts is the wrong size, not a sign of his devotion. Pain was never the point.
You Do Not Need to Become Someone Else
Forget the costume. The real keyholder just leads as herself.
Before we go any further, let me name the thing you are probably feeling and have not said out loud.
Fear.
“What if I do this wrong?”
“What if I disappoint him?”
“What if I am not dominant enough?”
“What if he expects me to become someone I am not?”
These fears are incredibly common. Almost every woman handed the key feels at least one of them.
So relax.
You do not have to become some leather-clad dominatrix with an endless script and a cruel streak. You do not have to perform dominance. You do not have to copy women from porn. You do not have to become cruel.
The version of you he already loves is almost certainly the woman he wants holding the key.
If you are naturally nurturing, lead that way.
If you are playful, lead that way.
If you are strict, lead that way.
Authenticity creates far more devotion than acting ever will. (Read – Stepping Into Your Power: A Gentle Guide for Women Curious About FLR)
Understanding the Caged Man
Now the part most women are unprepared for.
He is locked. He is in contact with that cage every minute of the day. His most intimate part is held by something only you can open.
Every unwanted erection presses against the cage and reminds him, again, that you are the one in control.
So he becomes more submissive than you expected. Faster than you expected. He starts looking at you the way he looks at the women in his fantasies.
“She can open this whenever she wants. Or never.”
That is the thought living in his head now.
And you may have no idea how to respond to this sudden shift. This is exactly where many women stumble. Not because they did anything wrong. Because no one warned them that a caged man becomes the most attentive version of himself almost overnight. (Read – What Men Think They Want in FLR vs. What They Actually Need)
Do not waste that.
The Cage Creates a Honeymoon Phase
When the fireworks calm down, nothing is broken. The honeymoon just became a marriage.
A warning about what comes next, so it does not catch you off guard.
In the beginning, he may become unbelievably attentive.
He brings you tea.
He cleans everything.
He answers the second you call.
He looks at you like you personally invented oxygen.
Enjoy every bit of it.
But understand that this intensity naturally settles with time. That is not the dynamic failing. That is the dynamic becoming normal.
Both of you arrive with quiet expectations. He assumes that once locked, you will suddenly turn dominant overnight. You assume that once locked, he will magically stay obedient forever.
Neither of those is how it works.
Long-term chastity is not built on constant excitement.
It is built on habits.
So when the fireworks of the first few weeks calm down, do not panic and think “He has changed back, something is wrong.” Nothing is wrong. The honeymoon simply became a marriage.
Don’t Let His Horniness Go to Waste
He is horny. He is alert. He is listening to you more carefully than he has in years.
I am not telling you to perform some cruel fantasy for him.
I am telling you to use the attention.
Give him tasks. Train him. Let that focused energy run your errands, your chores, your mornings. A locked man who makes the chai before you ask is not a small thing. That is the dynamic quietly settling into ordinary life. (Read – Daily Rituals That Reinforce FLR)
Remember the principle underneath all of this.
Dominating him is about reducing your responsibilities, not adding to them.
A Little Tease and Denial Goes a Long Way
You do not need hour-long sessions of him worshipping your feet while you edge him all evening. Do that if you enjoy it. But you do not have to.
A little goes very far.
Whisper something filthy in his ear and walk away. Let him catch one glimpse, then cover up. Or, even more fun, let him see nothing at all. Step out of your bath and tell him to turn around and face the wall while you change.
He will go crazy. (Read – The Importance of Tease and Denial in Male Chastity)
Here is the math of it.
Tease and denial is not more effort. It is a tiny investment that pays back a hundred times over.
You Do Not Owe Him Perfect Fairness
An orgasm is not a salary he earns on a fixed date.
Sooner or later, every keyholder asks the same nervous question.
“How do I know when to let him cum?”
New keyholders go hunting for a formula. Three days. Seven days. Thirty days. They treat it like a sum they are terrified to get wrong.
Forget formulas.
An orgasm is not a salary he earns. It is not owed on a fixed date. Sometimes you will release him sooner than he hoped. Sometimes much later. Sometimes for no reason except that you felt like it.
And here is the part that should take the pressure off you completely.
Consistency matters far less than intention.
A man mentally locked on day three is more yours than a man white-knuckling his way to day ninety while you have quietly forgotten he is caged. The number was never the achievement. His headspace is. (Read – The Joy of Denial)
He does not need perfect fairness from you.
He needs to know you are paying attention.
He needs attention, not mathematics.
Miss Sana
You Are Allowed to Forget About the Cage
Many wives secretly worry, “Am I supposed to tease him every single day?”
No.
Life happens. Children happen. Work happens. Periods happen. Stress happens.
Some weeks the cage will be central to everything. Some weeks it will barely get mentioned. Both are completely normal.
Remember the order of things.
The cage serves your relationship. Your relationship does not serve the cage.
So many wives exhaust themselves trying to “perform” the dynamic every waking hour, and they burn out. You do not have to.
There is only one thing to protect.
He should never feel alone in this. He should know that you fully acknowledge the cage is there, and that he is doing real, submissive work by handing his orgasms over to you.
He can go a week without being teased.
He must never feel that you forgot.
Chastity Is Mental, Not Physical
Like a wedding ring, the cage does not trap him. It reminds him.
Here is the truth the cage advertisements will never print.
Unless he is wearing a piercing-anchored cage, that lock cannot physically stop him. He can slip out, do as he pleases, and slip right back in.
So what is actually keeping him?
He is.
Which means the cage was never the real tool. His headspace is.
And guess who controls his headspace. You do.
Because men do not think with their brain. They think with their dicks. Harsh, but true. I used to believe there were exceptions. Years of doing this cured me of that belief.
When his head is in the right place, the lock means everything. When it is not, the lock is just an accessory.
You cannot force that headspace into him. He has to want to hand it to you. (Read – Submission Is Offered, Not Extracted)
Keeping him there, in that surrendered, focused, devoted state, is the most important work a keyholder ever does.
Trust Him, Don’t Babysit Him
Two things trip women up here. Both come down to trust.
First, hygiene. This is not optional.
A cage should come off at least once a day. Not once a week. Not once every fourteen days. Not once every two days. Every single day.
He pees through that cage. Residue collects. Sweat collects. Sorry to put these images in your head, but you need to understand exactly why it matters for his health.
And no, I am not going to tell you to stand there inspecting him while he cleans. That adds to your workload, and your job is to shrink it.
Trust him to clean himself. Trust him to be honest.
The same rule covers his slips. If his horny dick gets the better of him and he strokes one out, your rule is simple. He tells you. Every time. The correction does not need to be theatrical. Your disappointment is usually punishment enough for a man who genuinely cares about pleasing you. (Read – Key to keeping him obedient)
Because here is the line I want you to keep.
If he cannot be trusted to keep himself clean and tell you the truth about his own hand, he does not need a Dom. He needs a babysitter. A man worth keyholding is a man you can trust without watching him. (Read – What is a Well-Trained Slave?)
Emotional Aftercare
One last thing the guides almost never mention. Aftercare. And I do not mean the sexual kind. I mean the emotional kind.
Chastity does strange things to a man’s feelings.
Sometimes he becomes frustrated. Sometimes embarrassed. Sometimes oddly emotional, unusually affectionate, or suddenly very needy. And often he cannot explain to you why.
Here is what is happening. Locking him does not only concentrate his desire. It amplifies his emotions right along with it.
In those moments, a little reassurance and affection go much further than punishment. A hand on his cheek. A few warm words. Letting him know he is doing well, and that he is yours. (Read – Vulnerability in Female Led Relationship)
Control and care are not opposites. The best keyholders hold both.
Final Thoughts
Being a keyholder is fun. It is also a growth journey, for both of you.
You will not learn all of it on the first day, or even in the first month. That slow unfolding is exactly what makes this beautiful.
But be warned.
There is rarely a way back from this road. Once you have held this kind of control, and watched what it does to him, the old version of your relationship quietly stops being enough. (Read – My Slave After 4 Years of Training)
The cage will not do the work for you.
The key in your hand is not the power. What you do with the man wearing it, is.
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Basic Rules for beginners. The key is to be very strict and follow every rule.
1. Take control of his orgasms
• He must wear a chastity device 24/7.
• You should lock his chastity cage and only you should be the “KeyHolder”. You can also use a numeric padlock.
• Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing.
• Emphasize that he will never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm OR erection! without your permission.
• He must experience ruined orgasms. This emphasizes your control and stimulates his frustration.
• He may only cum when wearing a buttplug and your panties. You may also gag him.
• Peg him, make him cum like a real sissy
• Milk his prostate
• Always restrain his hands(handcuffs or rope) when letting him out of his cage. Many guys will resist after an orgasm or take control when you edge/ruin them.
Everytime you let him cum, you must ruin him. After that you make him eat his cum. You can edge him and forbid him to orgasm. You have to learn him that he may not orgasm. If he does then you have to make him eat his cum.
Ruined -> Eat it
Accidently -> Eat it
Only tease and edge! Edge every day!
2. Chastity devices
• Make him buy secure permanent devices like the jailbird, holy trainer or metal cages with urethra plugs. Make sure you get the right size so he cannot escape. You can make many devices escape proof with medical glue. The best option is a PA. It is recommended to glue his foreskin with superglue so he won’t attempt to escape. This does not damage the skin but lays a sticky layer for 1 week.
• The best devices can be worn 24/7 and only need cleaning every other day. He can clean it in the shower by putting soap in his cage and apply a full jet of the shower head right in the cage. it will clean his penis thoroughly. No need to take him out
• Shaving can perfectly be done while wearing the device. Just move it a bit to reach the hard to reach spots.
• If he has to clean his penis manually for a reason. Do it under supervision or tell him that only you may touch his penis. He is not allowed to play by himself.
• Draw you name on his dick before putting him in the cage. That way you can check if he cheated or not!
For him it is mind boggling not touching a body part for over a month when he used to touch it every hour.
3. Get into his head!
• Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.
• Tease him with his fantasies whenever possible.
• Make him wear your panties all the time. Skirts, stockings, socks everything to make him remember he’s your slut at work or wherever he goes.
• Make him sign these rules without letting him read it. He may experience the joy of chastity.
• He must promise he will follow the rules strictly. You may threaten to leave him if he doesn’t. He will make up his mind soon enough.
• Explain to him that he will only receive prostate orgasm. Sissies should cum like real girls.
• Make him shave his WHOLE body! Nothing better then feeling a soft body next to you in bed at night. It will grow back so he has to maintain it.
4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.
• Taunt him. Dress sexy
• Talk sexy and dirty to him.
• Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.
• Fondle him or let him fondle you.
• Make him wear a buttplug or prostate massager everytime you go out.
• Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.
• Make him give you orgasms frequently.
• Edge him
• Milk his prostate
5. Make him do something humiliating and learn when he will do anything for you.
• Tease him to the edge then command the most humiliating activities. He will do them.
• Make him wear a butt-plug for a time.
• Train him to submit to your strapon.
• Make him be naked when you are not.
• Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum after your ruin his orgasm no matter where it is deposited. Sit on his face after a creampie or feed him off your hand or french kiss him!
6. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to taunt him.
• Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private).
• Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear.
• Make him shop for lingerie or toys for you.
• Leave notes with instructions like: “I want to see you caged and plugged with these when I get home”
7. Control your own feelings of guilt.
• He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.
• If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it!
• Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.
• Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).
Extra sissy rules:
• A sissy must wear panties. He does not own any male underwear. Take away his underwear and replace it.
• A sissy may wear a bra and pink or brightly colored tights or leggings. Leggings and nylon are mandatory!
• A sissy must sleep in lingerie. If he does not have any, he must sleep naked.
• When alone, a sissy must dress as a girl. Good sissies wear lipstick while alone.
• A sissy always keeps himself free of facial hair, and is otherwise well groomed. He must always be presentable, ready to please.
• Good sissies shave their legs
• A sissy must never touch himself sexually without explicit permission from his Master or from his Muse
• A sissy must wear as many lovely pink girly things as possible
• Sissy must be in panties and a bra minimum at all times.
• Sissy must keep shaved clean below the neck at all times.
• Slave is not to masturbate with out permission, and when permission is given, it must be done in a slutty humiliating sissy way that reinforces my position.
Some text to make him horny:
‘I love thinking about your cock in that cage
I’m thinking about you inside me right now, maybe I’ll let you tonight
Fancy a blow job? He replies yes. Shame you’ve got that cage on.
How are you going to convince me to unlock you tonight honey?
I’m really horny. Come and give me an orgasm, at least one of might as well
a list of tasks with ‘unlock cock’ as the final one lol
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Chasity is a game of tease AND denial. If you are not teasing regularly with the denial, then you are just denying. And just the act of denial is neglect.
denial does not mean the absence of sexual activity. denial is specifically the denial of release and or orgasm. In fact, you should be participating in intimate activity regularly in order to keep Chastity game interesting for both of you.
If you’re having a hard time of thinking of things to do, here are some ideas:
Whenever you want in public or in private, make him pull out his cage so you can inspect it. Don’t just look at it. inspect it. grab it. take a picture of it. Kiss it. fondle it. put it away. This could be done at home while he’s driving or out in public.
When you’re apart, make him send you a picture of his cage.
If you’re out at dinner, play Footsy with it.
If you’re out dancing, grab it and play with it while you’re dancing
Give him a caged blowjob . In the bedroom, but other places too like while he’s driving. Or maybe crawl underneath his desk while he’s working and give him a cage BJ there.
Make him wear a butt plug for a certain period of time during the day. Tell him it’s to get ready for later when you plan to peg him or just tell him to wear it for fun even if you’re not gonna take him later it’s just fun to watch him walk around with it.
get a remote controlled but plug and use it at dinner, or use it like a service bell to let him know you need something.
Make him wear lingerie underneath his clothes when he goes out! There is nothing cuter than a pink cage, surrounded by a garter belt in stockings. Take a picture or a video to keep in your phone. This is especially fun if he’s going somewhere with his friends. Imagine his embarrassment while he has to wear his cute pink cage with a garter belt and stockings while he’s golfing! 🫢🤣 ⛳️
Put on your strap on and walk around the house displaying it. Then you can either use it or not either way it’s going to drive him crazy with anticipation. Maybe you just make him give it a blow job and then put it away. You could even watch TV while he does it. No need to interrupt your day.
Next time you’re going somewhere tell him that you’re going to drive. Surprise him when you pull out your strap on dildo and make him give you road head. (Maybe just drive around the neighborhood so it is safe). Take a video!
have him clean the house, naked and nothing but his Chasity cage. Or for extra bonus fun, making him dress up like a slutty maid and wait on you hand and foot. Have him get you a beer while he cleans waits on you while you catch up on your shows. Make him your little house wife. Use the remote controlled plug to beckon him for a refill. At some point bend him over the counter and give him a reward.
make him wear a strapon over his cage. Jerk off his strapon or even give it a blow job.
ask him if he wants to be allowed to jerk off. When he says yes, have him put his strapon on and he can jerk off his strapon for as long as he wants.
Have him lay naked on the bed. Sit on him reverse cowgirl style and bounce back and forth on his cage like you were having sex and just make him watch. This will drive him crazy!
Bend over the bed in front of him and let him try to fuck you with the cage.
Make a collection of photos of him in compromising situations (caged, dress in outfits, give you a bj, getting pegged, etc) and randomly text these photos to him just to remind him of his position as your slutty chastity slave.
does he use his phone too much? Make him put one of these pbotos as his background when he unlicks his phone. It will remind and humiliate him ever time he opens his phone but i guarantee it will also keep him from using his phone a lot more. Which is good because he should be focusing on you and his chores!
Tell him that you told one of your friends about his cage (or actually do!) but dont tell him who. He’ll constantly be wondering who it is and be so embarrassed around all of them.
Schedule a text message with a picture of him sucking your strapon that will send to one of your friends in 1 hour (or whatever time) if he doesn’t get one of these chores done by that timeframe. You’ll never see a man move faster!
make him shave his whole body and keep it shaved (except during summer where others will see his shaved legs).
Paint his toe nails with gel nail polish (he wont be able to get if off even if he tries) or make him keep his own nails painted.
get temporary tattoos and make him wear ones that say bitch, sissy, slut, princess, caged, a queen of spades symbol, or some other embarrassing thing.
Make him give you naked massages every night.
wear the key to his cage around a necklace. Let people see it. If they know, the know 🤷♀️
hook the key to his cage around your garter belt or panties when you are having sex. Let him see it but not touch!
Make him watch you masturbate.
make him show you his porn collection.
make him wear a strapon and jerk off to his porn collection.
anything you want! Just throw something into it that makes it fun!
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