underpaid, and overdressed

But I would look so cute with your hand around my throat

I think part of the reason why I find "retroactive changes" hot in a tf kink context is that, as someone not quite sane who is occasionally gaslit by reality, the idea of existing in an uncertain reality that could be rewritten at any moment is somewhat comforting. Or, maybe it's more like. From my own experiences, I'm familiar with a power dynamic between reality and subjectivity. And, like any other individual who suffered at the hands of an overwhelming power disparity, I can extract eroticism from imagining an erotic version of that power dynamic. This does imply that by further incorporating those signifiers I can make it hotter for me, though I suspect it might lose broader appeal in turn. Much to think about.

if you're pure of heart, you unlock a special way to have sex that's just hitting someone hard enough to make them cry

lets hear it for girls who are too horny to think. and girls who want to be worn like a condom. and girls who want to be legally or magically forced to have their names changed to things like knotslut or cumdumpster or slutpuppy. lets hear it for them.