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It can be hard to set boundaries, especially if you have a close bond with someone. You need to be very direct with people, any person for that matter. A lot of people will over step and then blame it on your or start drama (which is even worse) you don't want to be in the middle of a drama pot that gets stirred by the ring leader. Big hint but the ringleader is not YOU. Below are the steps I've used that have helped me set, keep, and have difficult conversations regarding boundaries.

How to Set Boundaries:

Be direct with your intentions

Lay ground rules

Write them down and have them where you can see them at ALL times

Explain what will happen when boundaries are overstepped

Explain what boundaries you have set

Effectively Communicate

People remember the old you, the YOU they could take advantage of. The YOU that allowed people to come vent to you on a consistent basis and have you waste your breath. People remember the YOU that was a fixer in everyone's life but your own. There WILL be push back, and people will not like this version of you.

When I began setting boundaries I lost a lot of people, but honestly? you gain so much more than you lose. You gain peace, you gain clarity, you gain dopamine. There is a saying, that some people are only there for a season. When someone's season passes they have no reason to be in your life. You know what the crazy thing is? When someone's season in your life is done you will NEVER see them again, even in passing and this is by design. It's not that either one of you are trying to avoid each other either it's just a theory that happens.

If you have someone who makes everything about them, this is not someone you want in your life. A friendship, partnership, relationship, etc. It's all give and take. If everything is one sided, what are YOU gaining from the conversation, what are you gaining in that friendship, partnership, relationship? Are you staying because you are a people pleaser? Are you staying because you have known the person for 10+ years and don't want to see a bond you spent so much building break? If you answered yes, to any of those let me tell you. If something was one sided the whole time then this is called an "Energy Vampire" the main goal of these people are to suck every ounce of energy out of you until you feel emotionally depleted. These people are very hard to be around for long periods of time this is an example of a person you SHOULD set boundaries with as an example. If they over step your boundaries then it is time to bid farewell to allow better people and experiences to come into your life. If you hold onto people and things in your life, then there is no room for other "ships" as I like to call them to come in. A relationship of any type is equal or balanced in some way. If you have a relationship that is unbalanced maybe its time to have one of those difficult conversations.

If you're anything like me confrontation is not a strong suit, and it can also be really scary and daunting. How will the other person react? Will this cause issues? Will my peace be effected? What will happen afterwards? Calm down anxiety. We all feel this, and feeling anxiety is normal before a difficult conversation. Below are some steps to initiate and go through a difficult conversation.

Steps:

Find a secluded/private space to hold the conversation and use a "Call" feature if possible - If there is a voice feature in the virtual world you're in I recommend using it. If you know the person well enough to have their Discord or Facebook I would use a call feature somewhere to have this conversation. It's more personal and you can hear the emotions on both ends of the conversation.

Discuss what is bothering you - Keep it a bit vague, don't give too much information that the other party can use things against you. Provide just enough information to where you can discuss how uncomfortable you're feeling and ask how you and the other person can work together to resolve the emotions your feeling.

Set your boundary or boundaries at this moment

Resolution - Ask what needs to happen on both sides for this relationship to continue effectively. What do both parties need to feel secure in this relationship and keep it going in a positive manner.

If there is Narcissism and the other party is gaslighting or turning everything back on you, it might be time to let go. - This is only a decision you can make and you really need to think, is what you're going through in that moment, the drama, the sadness, the disappointment, the guilt, is that worth it on a consistent basis? Are you okay continuing to walk on eggshells around this person until you get bogged down so much you can't continue? Really consider this moving forward if the person is emotionally incapable of an equal balance relationship of any kind.

Setting boundaries and keeping them are some of the hardest things to do. Your emotional well being is the most important thing. Do not bend over backwards for people who are not reciprocating. This really shows a persons true colors too, because it makes you think at that moment What am I to this person? Why do they only talk to me when they have a problem? Why can't we just enjoy each others company and go shopping? If you can't even spend more than 5-10 minutes around the person it's because their energy is draining you. Especially if they talk to you about the same thing 100x and you provide actual advice and it's never taken, you feel like a broken record and things never go anywhere. There are other things you could be doing with your time then listening to someone vent about the same things over and over again and never take any action even when you provide them with action to take. You are NOT a psychologist or a medical professional. If these people want to keep coming to you for things, get paid for it. If you're not getting paid for it you are being used as someone's free therapy session. Don't fall into this trap.. I've been there with someone and this is coming from personal experience, once you're in it its hard to get out of it. Some people can be quite manipulative. They learn enough about you to learn how your tick and use that to their advantage to keep you. Don't stay in this and if you can help it don't fall into it either.

This is something I will be going into more detail with once I re-release my book on virtual worlds. I released one a while back called "Life according to Ellie" I took it down for a refresh and I'm really excited about releasing it late this year early next year depending on when its going to be edited. I can't wait to reshare it with all of you.

I hope this has helped you in some way with some of the virtual relationships you have acquired. Just remember your mental health and who you are as a person is the most important thing. Protect yourself emotionally because if you undergo too much stress it turns into physical ailments.

When you first enter:

When you first land in this sim, you will be on a boardwalk path that has some nice seated spots over looking a galaxy filled sky and a beautiful moon out on the water. It is a very quiet area as most people tend to go a little further to the other side of the beach. So even though there are people walking on the boardwalk it is somewhat private as they tend to continue walking. I learned from literal experience. This area is perfect if you're on a date and don't want to be around others.

The wall into the second part of the beach:

When you move onto the second part of the beach you come up to a look out tower with a door and kind of a wall blocking off one side of the beach from the other. You will need to click on the door to open it. My dumb self thought I could just walk up to it and it would open automatically. It does not (you have been warned!). The second part of the beach has cliffs and a circular type beach area. The boardwalk is all along the entire beach, so if you stay on the path you will find it takes you to every part of the beach. It's not just a beach but there was also a grassy area in the cliffs overlooking the beach.

The Motel & Old Library:

These builds gave a very vintage feel and I LOVED the design of the library. I might be a little biased with this one though as I love libraries and books in general. The motel was nicely made and didn't seem out of place here with the beach. i was honestly surprised to see more than just a beach so this was a nice little surprise to find and explore. There was also a little park area with seats for singles and couples. So if you're not feeling the beach vibes just go up into the cliffs and you have the Spring grasslands! The library had a classic feel with vines on it, it is a very nice build for how the area was decorated. I swear some people in SL are so creative!

Who is this sim for?

I have found that this place is good for singles, to explore during my time here quite a few people reached out in my IM's while writing this post. So, you will probably meet someone new if they are not on a date. A lot of the people here were just exploring like me or photographers enjoying the scenery.

I saw a few couples here enjoying the moonlight and the water while they were chatting in IM. Yeah you all thought I didn't know what you were doing.

At the end, I enjoyed my time here watching my avatar interact with various animations with the seating around the sim. From reading a book, to interacting with others on the sim, to having my writing flow through me like my life depended on it. This sim unlocked so much inspiration and was visually enjoyable. It's been a while since I have found sims that unlock that bout of creativity. But I'm so glad I've been finding them. From a singles exploration to a beautiful date near the water, this sim provides a lot to be enjoyed! Simple but very nicely decorated.

Steps:

Drastically reduce your draw distance - I have mine at 128 m when on my parcel. Off my parcel but still on mainland I will rise to 160 m you don't need a whole lot unless you are planning to take photos and need buildings etc in the background. I know some people who limit it to 64-100 m.

Disable atmospheric shaders/advanced lighting - I love good visuals so I don't really mess with this. As long as I'm getting between 40-60 FPS on the mainland I feel okay. However, if you don't have a stronger computer you might want to mess with this as it will help bring your FPS up you can also mess with the graphics and put it on low-mid instead of high-ultra.

Lower Avatar Complexity - There are typically a lot of avatars when you're on the mainland and everything is online simultaneously. I don't necessarily do this but you can lower the avatar complexity while on mainland to help reduce scripts other people are wearing. But another way to help with this is by temporarily derendering everyone you don't need to see. Problem fixed!

For those who don't know when you are on mainland it is often much heavier with script lag and a lot of people because that region is on one full cloud platform in a server room for Linden Lab. My other recommendation to help if you are planning on being on mainland parcels often is switching to a different viewer from the standard SL viewer. My go to is Firestorm and you can change the lower mesh detail sliders.

There are other things you can mess with in your preferences to help with this, however, if you have a computer that runs graphics well you don't really need to mess with the other settings unless you're really looking for the highest possible FPS. Just in case I will place the other things you can check below.

Water Reflections - Turn to "none" or "terrain only"

Mesh Details - Set all mesh detail sliders to low

Clear Cache - If you have a cache clearer you can sit on I highly recommend using that instead of having to do it manually.

Check Region Metrics - Use the Top Colliders tool (World > Region/Estate) to identify and mute/hide items experiencing excessive collisions, which often cause low physics FPS.

Use Modern Viewers - You need to use viewers with PBR rendering as this will drastically help with your rendering speeds for faster and more efficient rendering of objects, etc.

First, the main attraction is the small theater to the left when you first land. It is so creatively built, it feels very classical and the stage had a lot of personality! I thought the scene that was portrayed on the stage was so heart felt. Ever have a warm fuzzy feeling when finding something wholesome? That's how I felt looking at this stage decor. I made my own story in my head, yes I have a very vivid imagination. You kind of have to when you are a writer and a story teller. However, if this is not your vibe you might prefer the actual landscaping and decor this land has. There are a lot of cute places to sit that are both single and couples.

This is an event, and please keep in mind that the sim is rated G this is a PG area so no hanky panky! (I'm looking at you two the male and female that have been on here since 2005 doing the deed haha). But seriously, this is such a vast area with so much to see, there are so many little details that make this land super charming.

Towards the end of the sim, there is this beautiful little sitting area with the prettiest tree. There are little seated swings and it is just so relaxing. I'm not going to lie, I totally sat here and wrote my entire blog post from this tree. This might be my new happy place here on Second Life. I always as strange as it sounds would imagine myself when I was a kid underneath a large tree on a swing writing. I have yet to find something like that here in real life. So if anyone knows of any places JUST LIKE THIS in the United States, definitely let me know!

There was so much to do, I took about 30 minutes to really take in and see everything. This is also part of the nature collective, which I didn't know till I saw the sign at the front of the land. I tend to accidentally find myself at these places for that specific collective of sims. But thank goodness, because they are some of the best decorated areas I've seen in a while.

Another cool thing is, I found a cathedral across the way but after exploring this area I found it is not a part of LeLoo's world but another area on the mainland across the way. Honestly? it tied in very nicely to everything where I was at and it was just as beautiful I literally thought it was part of LeLoo's world so great job to the creator for finding a way to implement that cathedral so it looks like part of the area.

This is a great place for photographers, dates, and just trying to get away from it all in Second Life and reground yourself for the next day in real life. This is a relaxing haven it feels safe when everything else right now might feel uncertain.

First, Renting Land, Linden Home, or Mainland:

First you need to decide how you want to go about getting a place. There are three of the most popular routes you can go. I will explain each one and provide you with information on which could be a great option dependent on what you are trying to accomplish long term on your Second Life journey.

Renting Land - The most popular option, a lot of people use the Chungs but you can find many renting companies on Second Life to rent land from such as Fruit Island Sailable Lands, Zoha, Mystical Rentals, etc. This is where you upload Lindens and pay a weekly fee to rent land from someone who pays the fees to Linden Lab to keep the land up. A lot of people rent land because then you are not locked in to it and can pick up and leave after your rental expires as needed. It provides you with a lot of a flexibility. But I'll be honest it doesn't always provide you with the most prims for the least amount of money. Sometimes, these rental companies have discounts or deals you can be grandfathered into at the time. But if you leave after the discount is no longer if you go back to the same rental company you cannot get the same deal.

Linden Home - This is definitely the second most popular option. Dependent on which premium tier you go with you will either have a 1,024 sqm parcel or a 2,048 sqm parcel. You would pay a monthly or yearly fee with Second Life directly and have a home through Linden Lab. Whereas with land rentals and mainland you can buy a home and place it Linden Homes are themed and are already prebuilt that you can furnish to your liking. Dependent on which home you get there might be more land you can decorate or less that focuses more on the interior of the home instead of the exterior. This gives you an adequate amount of space to decorate with and the Linden Home doesn't take any of the prims your provided which is always nice. If you have a 1,024 sqm parcel you will have 351 Prims to decorate with. If you get the 2,048 sqm parcel you will have 703 prims to decorate with. So just under the 1k limit. This post is decorating with a 1k prim limit but you can still gather some valuable information from this post so I do recommend continuing to read to help with decorating.

Mainland - The least popular option due to laggy areas, sometimes eye sores, and other issues but Mainland has its pluses. I particularly own 3 mainland parcels at the moment. Due to being a premium member instead of opting for a Linden Home, I wanted to buy land with my sqm allowance. This allows me to decorate the areas the way I want too. I have two 1,024 sqm parcels and one that is a 1/4th sim parcel. The pluses of Mainland for decorating is you get more prims when opting for Mainland. Mainland is connected to other parcels so its great for those who love to explore new areas and truly see what other people are making. More creative freedom for your parcel, there's really no major limit to what you can do as long as it fits the Mainland covenant and SL TOS (terms of service). I like having the ability to have my aurora borealis out on my land which requires it to be low down in the sky I can't do that with renting land and no one around me seems to have a problem with it either. The 1,024 sqm parcels give me 351 prims each to decorate with while the 1/4 sim gives me 5,625 prims to decorate with. Mainland provides you with more prims at a lower cost, but if you don't have the best of computers, sometimes mainland is a lot more laggy then just renting land or getting a Linden Home.

Second, Buying a Home Build or Skybox:

Buying a Home - There are so many options on the marketplace both free, low Linden, and high priced dependent on what you're looking for. There is seriously something for everyone. As someone who has a passion for decorating on SL I always go for quality over quantity and use the same build for months before switching due to the cost of some of these builds. My favorite home I've used thus far is my ROOST Palm view House and highly recommend it if you like that beach vibe. Reminds me of Miami or West Palm Beach Florida. Houses can vary in prim but luckily the amount of prim of the builds I use never exceed 300 prims. Some great creators are ROOST (medium budget), JBC (higher budget), Inverse (budget friendly prefabs), and Scarlet Creative (Varied homes). If you need to find one to get you started. Again all these creators create homes at the most with 300 prims. Homes can be used as skyboxes if you make a platform or they can be used on the ground level on a piece of land.

Buying a Skybox - Skyboxes as it states are meant to be placed up in the sky. Sometimes they look nice on the ground. I have used a skybox on the ground before but overall they are meant for the sky. This is a great option if you are looking for something prim friendly, if you are trying to keep the ground level of your land for building, parties, etc. A good skybox that can be used on the ground or in the sky is the ~Onsu~ Soho Skybox and I would place a teleporter inside because no door and one outside to teleport into the skybox on the ground level. But again this can be placed in the sky as well. Some great Skybox creators I suggest are ~Onsu~ (medium budget), Crowded Homes (higher budget), Inverse (again, and lower budget option). I love Crowded Homes as I'm currently rocking the Zensky skybox and it was on sale! Skyboxes are typically low prim currently the skybox I have is 50 prims without the kitchen rezzed with it. Home builds can be a little more prim heavy.

Third, Buying Furniture:

The fun part! We love buying furniture. There is a lot of high quality furniture you can buy that has low prim. But a word of guidance is if you have a set prim amount to work with that is below 1,500 prims you should never have an item that exceeds 15-20 prims. That's a waste of prim that you could add other pieces of furniture with or use those to rezz things to unbox, etc.

I recommend furniture that is between 1-10 prims at most as you will go a lot further by rezzing furniture and items with this amount of prims. Rule of thumb is you can always find something you like that is a lot of prims that is made with less prims. Please research effectively as it will help you in the long run if you want to have left over prims on your land for other things or to contribute to your "Breedables" addiction. I know a lot of you have it!

My Decor at 600 Prims:

I specifically opted for a Skybox, as the ground portion of my land is my building, photography, and sandbox area. I wanted a space for creative freedom and to live. With 5,625 Prims, I can surely have it all and that's what I did.

My skybox and the decor inside only cost me 600 prims, I have other skyboxes and platforms on the same land as I love to decorate and wanted places for each season and each one has a 1,000 prim limit and most are decorated underneath that limit.

My Home - Zensky Skybox - Crowded Homes (High quality texture skyboxes and homes)

Living Room - .Nutmeg, LV Curve TV, ROOST Fireplace, Trome Candle Sicks, Trompe side table, What Not table and hot chocolate rezzer, Malone Dusty Rose Rug.

My skybox is only 63 ft off the ground parcel so I built the city backdrop on the ground and then placed my skybox.

Kitchen - came with the skybox, you can either rezz the kitchen or have it as open concept and use it as another room, open space, etc. I had no idea what to put here so I left the kitchen.

Loft - I turned this into a massage area. Massage tables are from Chez Moi.

Bedroom - CS >> Castle Romeo << 1.07 Bed, Chez Moi stool, Moss & Mink photo holder, Backbone Fireplace, Astrology planetarium NOMAD.

The highest primed items in my whole decor are, the Planetarium, the bed, and the drink rezzer in the massage room.

Bottom line is, It is highly possible to decorate land or home with a low prim limit and have it look nice as well. You just have to be intentional on how many prims an item is when placing it. You can do this by looking at Marketplace every item posted shows a prim limit.

I am using this Marketplace listing as an example,

Where it says land impact, that is how many prims it will be when it is placed on your land.

SoKawaiiSundays is a weekly event that highlights kawaii themed creators. These creators place one of their creations on sale every weekend. There is a notecard you will get with the various creators, a link to a texture of what is being sold before you go, and a landmark to the store to get the item from that store.

The events overall idea is to provide exposure to creators that represent the cute side of Second Life while providing the users with cheaper costing clothes, skins, eyes, etc. There are so many creators that are a part of this event every weekend. Everything that is sold is between 65-95l each. Some creators also have other things for sale when you are there for a little bit more to experience some of their other creations outside of the SoKawaiiSundays event itself.

I might have a little bit of a shopping problem and this event is one of my favorites. There have been weeks where I didn't like everything that was being sold, and that is okay. You don't have to like everything but there are options and that is what I wanted to highlight by sharing this with you. To participate you must join the "SoKawaiiSundays" SL group so you can get the notecard ever Saturday. The notecard is provided every Saturday evening at 11:59 PM SLT and lasts 24 hours throughout Sunday. Hence why it is called SoKawaiiSUNDAYS. You can also check out their website with the catalog for the week to see if there is anything you are interested in. The notecard looks like the above, this is the notecard for the week of May 3, 2026.

-> Click here to go to the SoKawaiiSunday website <-

No, this is not a sponsored post. I've just experienced this event for a long time and know that the items that are provided are high quality and worth your lindens 8 out of the 10 times. I have never seen something that wasn't nicely made and of good quality. A lot of the creators listed are popular stores too within SL.

You can always check out the website for more information that I may not have covered in this post.

By the way this weeks lineup was such an addiction! If you were able to see this before the 24 hours was up then I hope you ended up getting some of the items as well! They were really good this time around. I created my new avatar for the week with items specifically from the event. I said it in a previous post and I will say it again, you can find good quality stuff on a budget and not spend a lot of Lindens to have an amazing looking avatar.

I am also attempting to find other ways outside of the written word to provide my content. As you all know, I have a YouTube channel but I stopped with it due to not being able to post consistently. Plus honestly, I do better with writing so I just found myself gravitating more to the writing portion here. So I have been doing a lot of brainstorming today. I have had the craziest bout of inspiration today.

I have found myself exploring realistic areas and beach type places. I have been surrounding myself in language specific sims to keep up with the languages I know. I use SL to practice different languages I have learned. I have learned to read and write in 10 languages all thanks to virtual worlds and what we call the "metaverse." Now if I could just speak all those languages I have it all made!

I have remade my avatar back to it's original form, I originally had the Reborn body on but then switched back to Maitreya as most of my clothes are for the Maitreya body. I do love the reborn as it is more like my real life body type but Maitreya is a prettier body in my opinion and the longest and most sold body on SL.

Crazy idea, as I was sitting and overlooking a duck pond on SL today, I always keep music going in the background when I explore (Thank you YouTube Music) and I was thinking of making curated playlists to each place I visit with songs that match the vibe to listen too while you explore. Is this something that might interest you as you read the SL Exploration posts? I will add a poll later on! But I also went to another cool beach type sim that I am going to post about which is why I will not name it here but I hope you guys go to check it out when the post is up!

I've been sitting in different places and just writing and letting my thoughts escape me today. Also, for my astrology and witchy peeps, Happy New Moon in Scorpio, how are we feeling with these relationship flings and past peeps popping up for no apparent reason? Whether it be in SL or RL. It's been crazy, because I know what's going on during this moon I've been keeping to myself most of the time so far! Like I typically do, just minding my own business, literally.

Well that's all I got for now,

This island has so much charm, from the rolling hills with beautiful farm life. To the beach, to the cliffs, and even the docks. There are so many places to relax and take in the scenery. There was so much to explore. However, I found myself more around the duck pond than anywhere else. That is my favorite spot of the whole sim, this is why I set the landing point link to that area, it's so calming and so realistic.

As previously stated, I took so many photos and honestly, I would share them all but I took more than 30 I had to pick and choose my favorites to share with everyone. I even met a couple that was in such a pose on their date I asked if I could take a photo and asked if I could share it with all of you, and they said "yes!"

This sim is perfect for photographers, dates, calming walks in the evening, a place to get away from it all, if you're being creative in real life and need a place of inspiration or just to sit while writing, drawing, etc and you like being in SL when you do this is a fabulous place for that too.

The Farm:

Reminded me of the farms you would see in Disney's Beauty and the Beast, it was so picturesque and very thoughtfully put together. There was a farm house with a windmill with open grasslands with horses and some random donkey just there. In front of the farm there were cows very nicely placed in front. It was nice to look at and reminded me of the house Belle lived in with her inventor father.

The Beach:

There is a beach line all around the sim, this is an island after all. Some parts of the beach were decorated and others just beautiful sands and scenic views of the open waters. There weren't too many sitting spaces on the beach so keep that in mind.

The Duck Pond:

The is a gazebo with a couch. The couch has minimal seated poses for singles and couples but is beautiful to overlook the pond area.

For this sim you HAVE to use the shared environment to get the full experience of this sim. Using midday or standard midnight doesn't give this sim justice.

All thanks to a random SL user, I have him to thank for this experience that I can now share with the rest of you! There isn't too much to say with this one except this is a must see on your SL journey!

This is going to be a bit of a shorter post, not because I have anything against the country but because there wasn't as much as expected to explore. But nonetheless it has some pleasant scenic views to see and a great place to take photos in. There are small little things to see like I found this little stray cat area that was cute near a small shop that was near a house. There is a random moped that is nice but its kind of random to the area so wasn't a huge fan of that but overall the decor all matched the theme and vibe the sim designer was going for.

I loved the little villa, it had a pond with moving swans and it reminded me almost of a painting in the Italian countryside! I thought it was a very nice addition. There is also a beach right in front of the house that was quite nice to spend time on, made me feel calm and relaxed as my avatar walked along the shoreline. To the left there is like this somewhat ancient lighthouse, but I like lighthouses and I'm a collector of mini lighthouse knick knacks in real life so that had a soft spot for me. I loved the beach the most and the little river in the back of the building those were my favorite parts of this sim.

There is a hill with this really cute country like house with crops, chickens, and a board with notices on it. Still not sure who "lived" in that house like if it was meant to be historical or not but I enjoyed the decor in it. The house felt very classic. Reminded me of a countryside home on a hill and it was peaceful. The landscaping is very well done and if you're going for the countryside vibe for your photos this would be an excellent sim to take photos in.

Each home and building is decorated within the theme of the sim with some very vintage and unique pieces, I left the inside of the buildings out of this post because I wanted to leave something for all of your to discover without seeing photos prior.

Overall, I enjoyed my time here, though the countryside aren't really my vibes in particular it is very well put together and very scenic. This place is great for photographers and I even saw a couple and one other person taking photos while I was. So, there are people who go there and at the time overall there were 5 or 6 people present not including myself. So 7 altogether! That's good for a sim nowadays that isn't a club, especially a scenic area. I recommend taking a look and is perfect for a nice little stroll, it evoked a lot of childhood memories for me while I was here. So you will feel emotions while here, it's peaceful and quiet with nice music and nature sounds. I feel this is also great if you are looking out at the sea while writing if you have two monitors like myself. That is essentially what I was doing and it was nice.

Spending the night in virtual bliss.

At my vacation spot for the evening writing and typing by the water. We love a night in silence and creative flow.

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I was thinking about some things while brainstorming and writing as I had my avatar looking out at the water.

Virtual worlds are more than just an online space, it is a visual manifestation. If you believe it's possible anything can and will be possible. It doesn't matter the how in how you're going to get there. It only matters that you believe you can. I have used virtual worlds to manifest my reality many times. I was thinking about it and I legitimately have everything I use to build and make in Second Life and even IMVU for myself.

For years about 5 my avatar never lived in mansions. I always wanted a detached townhome with a loft. My avatar drove a white sports like vehicle, had two dogs and was in a nice area with parks and places to ponder. This was in 2015 up to 2020. In 2020 I had an opportunity to buy myself a townhome, it wasn't detached but it had everything that my SL home had. About a year later my car gave me trouble and I got an amazing deal on a White Honda Accord. Then in that same year I got my first dog and 2 years later I got my second. I got everything my SL avatar had and more. I firmly believe virtual worlds can be used as a visual vision board. I wish I was making this up but I'm not... from experience I can vouch that the law of attraction truly works. My problem is I cannot visualize unless I have the things in front of me to look at. Think it's called aphantasia (probably spelt that wrong but spell check isn't fixing it so we are rolling with it) or something like that.

This is all to tell you that virtual worlds are what you make it, and who knows maybe it will even become your reality. I'm working towards that mansion now. Haha