to feed the ego

i love the kind of ship where calling them lovers feels almost reductive, when the friendship they share is the most important aspect of their closeness and has been there since way before they actually fell for each other.. calling you my “friend” because my attachment to you is not purely based in romance, you were my dear friend first before you became anything else. because i’m not just attracted to you, i adore your soul and how it connects with mine. because i don’t just love you, i like you. because love can end, but in our case i know even when you leave that you will always return. THROWS UP EVERYWHERE!!!!

whether or not men benefit from feminism has no bearing on whether feminism is worthwhile

put another way. i dont care about how men are impacted by feminism

already have people mad about this. okay here's another take. men should be feminists for no benefit.

just as white people should be anti-racism for no benefit, and cis people should be pro-trans for no benefit. the only "benefit" that should be required is the creation of a more just world, not because you, personally, actually do get something out of it.

happy pride month dykes i love you dykes

mel and trinity's little opposite thing is really fun for me. world's most authentic person vs woman who can't help following up her sincere moments with an insult. always expressing uncertainty whether she's doing a good enough job vs overcompensating to make sure she makes it. thinking the er is a family which she desperately wants vs assuming everyone in that same er hates her. walking through the er begging for connection but ultimately unable to prioritize her own life enough to find some vs loudly announcing that she relishes being on her own but ending up with multiple meaningful relationships anyway.