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@epic-curious
As far as I can tell, a "transandrophobia truther" is just someone who thinks trans men are oppressed. Which is so self-evidently true that the insistence on using a conspiracy theorist sounding name for them really just says far more about the people using the term than the people the term describes.
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You say one thing about how grown women shouldn't be telling trans boys that they're gonna be ontologically evil rapists if they embrace their gender and their truths and suddenly it's 500 unhealed women in your mentions going "MISANDRY ISN'T REAL" ma'am that is a different sentence entirely lmfao.
Mfs want men to be vulnerable and vent to them so bad until it's "actually my abuser/rapist/groomer was a woman" then suddenly you're attacking all of womankind even when you didn't say anything derogatory about women as a whole or even imply that women oppress men? Yeah I do think it's weird and fucked up to be saying bioessentialist transphobic shit to little boys who can't stand up for themselves as grown women that should not be a controversial statement if you are pro children's rights in any fucking capacity I would say this about grown men saying dehumanizing and misogynistic shit to little trans girls too!!!! It's all connected lets fucking talk about it and stop ruminating on 2013 MRA bullshit forever as a scapegoat to avoid difficult conversations.
Emi Koyama has passed. 🥀
Extremely sad to see. She was apparently only 51.
Folks, if you don't know who Emi Koyama was, you should. Her website (eminism.org, which is a delightful pun) has a ton of her work entirely for free.
You can read the Transfeminist Manifesto in particular here. Emi considered it a historical document and she wrote a very good self-critique in 2008 (included in the document) on the subject of the Manifesto, white feminism, and the lack of inclusion of trans and genderqueer people who aren't trans women. I highly encourage everyone who wants to involve themselves in transfeminism to read her work, not because it is perfect, but because I do think Emi Koyama's Manifesto represents the best intentions for transfeminism: the desire to challenge cissexism, to take activism seriously and compassionately, and a commitment to being open and honest about where we fall short and how we can do better.
I really appreciate this quote from her, which I hadn't seen before, on the subject of feminism needing to "fit in" trans people:
Cis feminists do not own feminism. We don't need to "fit trans people into feminist theory"; we simply need to challenge cissexism in feminist movements and theories. Trans people do not need to be explained by feminist theory; we need to start from the fact that trans people exist and matter.
And it would be a crime to not mention how hard she fought specifically for women of color, to challenge racism and imperialism (white/western and non-white/non-western) in feminist spaces and in general, as well as her intersex activism, and far more. She had such a drive to contribute to, engage with, and push for more and better feminist discourse.
You will be remembered fondly, Emi Koyama. Thank you for all your work and for all your life.
Shinigami eyes in practice, everyone.
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my mutuals are doing this to me
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reinstalled shinigami eyes to take a look at the damage and it's so much worse than a year or so ago when i deleted it. virtually every intersex blog i know of regardless of how they feel about tme/tma is marked red unless they are especially vocal about liking it, countless trans men are marked red regardless of whether they are vocally inclusive, most who are marked green are either famous guys or are (somewhat) infamous for their transphobia and exorsexism if not also racism.
Plenty of transphobic cis folks are green. Virtually every trans-positivity account is red except for the ones who are unapologetically transphobic to at least part of the community. Countless trans women who vocally uses the term transandrophobia are marked red. Several trans women who dont even use the term but have at least on one occasion defended or sympathized with trans men are red. Several trans women who are bigender/NB/Etc with inclusion of any "male" or masc terms are red regardless of whether they seem to have anything to say about trans men.
It is BLEAK. I've been trying to remove reds and greens as I assess, but it is really really gross that it was a pretty well-known soft rule a decade plus ago that you didn't mark trans people red at all even if they were shitheads, unless they were actual proud terfs, because the flagging was guaranteed to isolate them from community.
Inability to assess risk and a total aversion to narratives that contradict what you assume to be the case for others is getting people into a lot of trouble.
Shinigami eyes is completely dead and less than useless, but since so many people still seem to trust it, I do not want people to keep getting flagged as violent evil transphobes cause they started identifying as genderqueer.
Avocados are pretty cool bc their mere existence is like a big clue about the history of agriculture bc avocados evolved over a million years to form a symbiotic relationship with megafauna that could swallow a whole avocado which is why the pits are so large but also why the flesh is so high in calories and fat for a fruit and they evolved to that relationship w megafauna bc megafauna were really big and thus good at not getting killed and tended to migrate so they’d shit huge piles of shit that would be a really good source of fertilizer for the avocado seed they shitted out
But when humans first entered the Americas that resulted in the extinction of most types of megafauna in the continents bc highly intelligent primates with spears that run on two legs and can coordinate advanced strategies together and thus are very good persistence hunters showed up so like if you weren’t also really good at hunting and fighting humans or just got really fucked by how humans fucked with things you went extinct. But avocados are still around even though there are no wild animals native to the Americas that can eat them whole and poop them out anymore (which means there are no truly “wild” avocados) and that by itself is a big clue that humans quickly learned how to cultivate the plants themselves basically around the same time they ran into them which was roughly 10,000 years ago. Which also means that the development of agriculture in the Americas happened at about the same time it did in Mesopotamia
So yeah she definitely had something to do with her boyfriend's mental breakdown, or whatever she was referring to with that weird poetry post she deleted.
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"I don't feel bad for male victims of grooming and csa cus they wear the fact that they got touched by an adult woman like a badge of honor and that makes it hard to sympathize with them" holy fuck y'all really hate victims fr
There are grown women out there who until very recently thought they were cool because adult men fucked with them as teenage girls and didn't really see themselves as victims like that is part of the grooming process. We also live in a society where the amount of sex you have is reflective of how well you're doing as a man + no one takes female pedophiles seriously so no fucking shit these guys don't see these victims??? Some of you misandrists are just as stupid as the men you claim to hate.
"You shouldn't have to be a perfect victim to get sympathy for your experiences" till it's a dude who has literally been lied to his whole fucking life into letting grown people put their hands on him. Look at our feminists dawg.
genuinely just saw someone say transmascs 'transition into the highest form of privilege society allows'. what are we doing here
dam they transition into billionaires????
Yeah as soon as I changed my pronouns on amino when I was 15 I got called by the government and given one trillion dollars. I thought that was common knowledge??
the majority of trans men immediately squander it on alcohol, gambling, and expensive cars because of our intense toxic masculinity/desperate need to do male stereotypes because we’re silly billies who don’t realize we can just be gender non conforming lesbians
so it’s a common misconception
upon changing my pronouns to he/him all of the melanin was sucked out of my body and all of my physical and mental disabilities were cured. I check my bank account and it says one mascutillion dollars deposited directly by jeff bezos
“welcome to the boy’s club,” he said to me with a smile and a wink. thanks big JBeezy
"maybe one day, one day, we will be finally freed from the scourge of autism behavior = toxic masculinity" what do you mean by autism behavior
ive seen, in multiple ocassions, how behaviors like infodumping about your hobbies is seen as mansplaining, or how rigid mathematical thinking is seen as "male STEM-brained" thinking, or how not being able to parse body language or implied messaging is "men not paying attention to other peoples feelings" and how speaking monotonously or without being too expressive is men trying to be stoic and unemotional and so on and so forth and i think its unfair to blame all that on "toxic masculinity" when there is an alternative explination that a lot of these behaviors stem from neurodivergence
any apparent gender differences in these things are a matter of not enough women feeling free to do them
and framing them as toxic masculinity is the opposite of helping with that
don't forget how if youre a man, its always 'weaponized incompetence,' because it is of course inconceivable that many people sincerely struggle with tasks you find easy.
If you wouldn’t tell a trans woman “if you want to be a woman then I’m going to treat you like one” and then proceed to act extremely misogynistic, why the fuck would you do the same thing to a trans man? It’s also just extremely easy to tell that you’re not treating trans men like you would cis men, so what’s the point?
Gideon the Ninth, first flower of my House.
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It is kind of wild how much anti-ai folk really love getting an excuse to larp being reactionary, first the made up slurs and then the weird virginity veneration thing...
Part of the reason I find it so difficult talking about masculinity under the patriarchy is that part of it is men’s fault, and part of it is very very systemic.
Like, you know that post about how it’s your responsibility to fix your trauma? Yeah, it’s also men’s responsibility fix their sexism. No if ands or buts. We are not going to blame other people for our problems.
But on the other hand, the violence I faced as a child, teen, and yet still as an adult is rarely mentioned. Men’s social incompetence is looked at as a skill issue instead of the direct response of social neglect. Low emotional intelligence is viewed as some intrinsic male trait instead of the result of years of forcing boys to be men.
