AmeLeigh

Not because of any like scary occult stuff people think can happen when you use them

Could anyone please connect me to any spells about moving out into a new place, cleansings, etc. for when you are in your new home

For all things home related, my first stop is always The House Witch, unless I’m doing something intuitively. The super simple salting of doors/windows and also doing a smoke (or spray) cleanse are common for me.

-it objectifies and commodifies women

“women are valuable because they can create life!” Not only are there many women who can’t or don’t want to have children, there are so many wonderful things about women and its wrong to deem some people valuable and others not.

-it pushes many people away from magic

women who are infertile, women who don’t want kids, women who could have kids but it is too dangerous for them, transwomen, people who identify as male, women who can no longer have kids, people who are intersex, the list goes on..

it’s pretty hetero and cis-normative and pushes other people in marginalized groups away. As well as it is gate-keepy

-it’s ageist and places a priority on younger women

It places virgins on a pedestal and really pushes the idea that women have a “prime” and are more valuable at certain points of their lives. This is a narrative we continuously see everyday, and it doesn’t need to be pushed into the witchcraft community.

-it pushes misogyny for the aforementioned reasons 

if you think about it, placing more value on women who are virgins or pregnant furthers not only the idea that women are meant to be obedient baby-makers but that women aren’t powerful on their own. You are not more or less valuable after losing your virginity. You are not more or less valuable if you have a baby.

-the obvious transphobia and exclusion

I’m not here to have an argument, I wanted to get my opinions out

If you personally feel like pregnancy and childbirth was magical for you, congratulations! I’m very happy you had a fulfilling experience of it and had the opportunity to do so. Just because others haven’t had this experience doesn’t make them less magical, they have likely had magical experiences you have not. If you think your power comes from your womb, that’s your choice, but don’t push the idea that that is the only place power can come from.

Transwomen are valid witches

Nonbinary people are valid witches  

Men are valid witches

Everyone has power and anyone can have magic

If you don’t agree (or that makes you uncomfortable), try taking a look at: why, who told you that, and what their motivations are to spread that information. 

YOU DONT HAVE TO CRY TO DO SHADOW WORK.

Every single witch does their shadow work differently and crying is NOT a requirement of shadow work.

If someone is trying to tell you it is, they aren’t correct. If you’re not an emotional person, you aren’t in a safe environment to cry, you can still do some gentle shadow work. CRYING IS NOT A REQUIREMENT.