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The way the imagined Thai trans woman is simultaneously degendered and presented as successfully feminine and “”more like a woman”” bc of her supposed submission to the role of feminized sexually subjugated “”male”” person

And it’s easy to be like “well wouldn’t that imply smth about their sexuality if they want them to be male” like the way when men were Return memeing about fucking Roman towel boys ppl wanted to turn it on them by being like “this is gay” but this retort doesn’t really confront the reality of patriarchal male sexuality bc it’s actually perfectly in line w sexual norms

I mean traditional male sexuality isn’t necessarily heterosexual in the modern sense even today it’s almost always been that appropriate sexual targets are ppl subjugated under gender rather than cis women specifically so this makes sense but is often unacknowledged in our current milieu despite its persistence

Like obv not new this is just a classic aspect of transmisogyny in which men who fetishize trans women want them to be erotic objects who they can cast as subjugated feminized male people who are too subhuman to be allowed to claim a personal identity within public society but it’s just so crazy

This is such an interesting post. Like maybe one third of these statements would be insightful were we talking about real gay people or even about ppl who think a fixed fictional dynamic is bad BUT it’s just about how OP doesn’t think ppl should write bottom Ilya

The craziest part to me is them saying ppl wanting gay top chars to bottom is them saying “the presence of a hole means it must be fucked” and is therefore a misogynistic statement

Like I’m sorry but everyone in the world has a hole and there are no social scripts anywhere on earth that suggest that all men must be fucked in the ass

Like are you saying you feel ppl who want bottom Ilya want all men w holes (every man on earth) to be fucked in the ass and that if you do that’s misogynistic