A woman’s choice to engage in sexual banter on her blog or express herself openly in a sexual manner does not in any way allow you to dehumanize her. Nor does that allow you to invite yourself into her bed when she has not summoned you. She is not an object. Never a novelty. Every woman deserves respect no matter what dimension of herself she decides to show. Don’t be a dick head.

Sinners wasn’t scary in the way it had me biting my nails and clenching my seat. It was terrifying in the way my blood ran cold that vampires aren’t just mythical creatures stalking in the night waiting for their next prey to suck you dry. It was the very real realization that people can be vampiric as well, but instead of blood they want your energy, they want your essence they want your light. They want to drain you of everything you are to swap it for themselves or reduce you to the lowest form of yourself, never fulfilling your true purpose and destiny. Like Remmick promising eternal freedom, love and fellowship these creatures say all the right things, they know your deepest desires and wishes. They bait you with empty promises and guarantees of a reality that will collapse on you as quickly as it was created. Burning down around you. But there is a silver lining, you have to invite them in. Into your space, into your body, into your energetic field for them to take hold and sink their teeth in you. Gnawing at your flesh and drinking you in until there’s nothing left and the worst version of you takes your place or better yet a lifeless corpse moving through the world devoid of any feelings because the trauma they caused was too much to bear, so you detached yourself from your own heart. That’s the only catch. Are you naive enough to allow them in to set roots down in your mind? Do you fall in love with what you hear instead of what is shown to you? Words from those who will take what they could never return to you. You have a choice. Do not invite them in. These entities aren’t just manifested in people but your own thoughts. Bad habits. Ruts you dug yourself into. Places you’ve made yourself comfortable. Ward your mind. Draw sigils on every surface. Drive a stake through every single last fear you’ve allowed inside. Bathe yourself in holy water. Do not let them inside. When the sun rises you’ll have another chance to begin again letting them burn down to ash along with the past.