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The blog is coming back to life! We lightweight stepped away from the digital sphere when opening our pop-up shopâ it was a lot of work yâall! Now, since we said BRB to having a store, weâre making our way back to giving you content.
And what a way to kick-off our blogging than with womxn empowerment?
On Sunday, February 17, I attended a #feministAF dinner by Haejin Chun.
Um. Our dinner came with a bouquet for every single guest! Brb crying with gratitude
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Haejin Chun â the culinary artist behind Big Bad Wolf SFâ hosted her first-ever womxn-only event titled Big Bad Queens. Upon announcing Big Bad Queens, Haejin referred to it as the âmost significant, meaningful, and empowering gathering thus far, or imma die trying.â
Let me tell youâŚ
Homegirl succeeded that and beyond.
Leading up to the night, Haejin set the tone with her IG posts of how her celebration of being Big Bad Queens would be. You knew her and her team poured their hearts in preparing for this gathering.
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Did I make these Pom Poms and mini tassels ? đđťââď¸yes. Was it meditative and fun? đ no. Am I a crazy person who has a million things to do before a big dinner with Pom Pom fuzz all over me? Definitely. At least no one can say I donât care or try hard enough đ¤ˇđťââď¸. Vessels for our 1st course: âCeremonial (medicinal) Tincture.â CBD, manuka honey, aloe vera, tumeric, jujubes, ginger, pineapple, cinnamon. We will start the dinner by pouring each otherâs glasses. #communal. The jars are empty for now, bc the ingredients are too expensive just for photos. My goal has been the same since day one: people coming together from all walks of life, vibing. That everyone who sits at my table will be present, filled with joy, and feel like theyâre part of something bigger. But most of all I hope they feel special -that I will hold space for them and that I fucking care deeply. Because I do. Iâve never felt more love, more aligned, or more empowered going into a dinner. đŤ #BadAssBossBabes got me feeling a type of way. đđź Thank you. Giving it every, single, last drop of who I am and what I can give in one moment. See you Sunday. #foodismedicine #loveisinthedetails #tribevibes #weareallvessels
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âBIG BAD QUEENâ (sold out). đđťEMPOWERED. đđťBLESSED. đđťFEELING IT. . . Another đđťđ just gave me the greatest compliment Iâve received thus far in life: âYou empower other women.â đĽđđź And while Iâm humbled that might be true, right now Iâm feeling pretty empowered by all who are coming. Every one who is gathering for this event is undeniably a FORCE TO BE RECKONED WITH. Weâre about to give them heaven and hell. #LaurynHill. All bad ass women playlist for our 7-course womxnâs dinner. Whenâs the last time you were in a room filled with other BIG BAD WOMXN?! Those accumulative vibes, that intentional gathering, unapologetically powerful⌠This oneâs gonna be beyond đŤ.#feministaf #sisterhood. Be about it. . . #feministaf #bombesquad #girlswithknives #sfwomen #ladiestothefront #girlgang #femalechef
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I admitted to Haejin prior to the night that the particular reason why I wanted to join was because of a need for inspiring vibes. Her response:
[Thatâs] exactly why I wanted to do this dinner. Women empowering and inspiring other women.
Because the lead-up alone nourishingly hyped the Queens up, entering the venue felt magical. Womxn  gathered glammed-up in their own unique styles; rose was poured alongside the nightâs  roses; and, as we mingled with each other in the nicely dimmed San Franciscan loft, the first two courses were passed out to give us a teaser of the glorious flavors composed by the Big Bad Wolf.
The two appetizers included a warm and crisp pan-fried savory mochi (mm) and a pine nut purĂŠe that felt like a hug from the inside of your belly (not pictured because I ate it right away⌠same with the second one I ate.) What I also wish I took a photo of was Haejin passing out vapes on a silver platter. I donât indulge in smoking but, câmon, look how cute this is ( + bonus points for the organic, local, sustainable shout-out):
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First course: @permanentxholiday. . . Regardless of what happens, who knocks on our door, free swag or not⌠I have and never will work with products or brands that Iâm not feeling. Period. I know itâs a privilege to be so selective; I know Iâve been spoiled AF. But itâs not just business, itâs personal. And Iâm not about to put anything subpar in my body or my guestâs. I use organic, local, sustainable ingredients whenever possible. Itâs the same for flower. 100% cannabis derived oils and terps (flavoring), a high content of live resin, and non of that toxic filler. Happy to welcome these new friends at our table. That #tangie is YUMMY. đđźâ¨#cannabiscommunity . . Artwork by Hawaiian artist: @aaronkkai
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Greeting us to our assigned seats was a simple & elegant table setting with our take-home gifts, including  osmanthus honey brittle and two sorts of wrapped up flowers, one with our names handwritten.
Once everyone made their way to their seats, Haejin welcomed us with an opening speech about how this dinner is the most meaningful one she put together to-date. Â She referred to the guest list as powerful and, you know, Big Bad Queens.
She then redirected the floor to Kayko Tamaki  for a ceremonial soundbath. Kayko guided us into meditative thoughts of how extraordinary womxnhood is and to honor our connection to ourselves, our bodies, and the earth herself.
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This is Kayko. #Womxn to Womxn, she has given me strength, shared her wisdom, made me feel my own feminine power⌠Iâve admired her and have been inspired by her on a soulful level for many years now. Sheâs a healer, activist, #feminist (is an understatement), hypnotherapist, spiritual guide, a well-known figure in the #LGBTQcommunity, POWERFUL and so much more. Iâm so honored and humbled to announce that she will be leading us through a pre-dinner ceremony and sound bath ⌠to initiate, welcome, heal, and further unite us during our womenâs gathering (however you identify on the spectrum, all are welcome.) I have the chills just thinking about it. @kaykotamaki thank you for being you so unapologetically, so poetically, so beautifully accepting of yourself and others. You are the sister in #sisterhood. 2.17.18. Canât wait. More about Kayko in my stories. #BadAssBabe
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Then came the feast. And, while indulging, Haejin had one rule. She wanted us to further connect with each other by engaging in one small yet meaningful task: pour each otherâs glasses. For the first round, we raised up our ceremonial tincture to drink together.
The night wasnât only about gathering Big Bad Queens together, it was about filling us with goodness. In Haejinâs welcoming speech, she shared how she did research on foods that are healthy for womenâs reproductive systems. Our tastebuds, tummies, and vaginas thank you.
The main courses included: a banchan flight, chicken dumpling, bo ssam, and spicy mussels with soba noodles. From the presentation to the taste and portions, wow. I really donât know the right words. How about this; every dish made each guest close their eyes and mutter words along the lines of omg⌠so goodâŚ
Last â and definitely not the least â were âdouble chocolate brownies with toasted hazelnuts, raspberries and dusted with a pink Himalayan matcha salt.â Holy Sh*t. I forreal slumped my head back upon taking the first bite and whispered to my chocolate, â I didnât know how much I needed you in my life.â Next thing you know, Haejin catches me and says, âLook at you eating that chocolate like a queen.â Â I was too betwixt reveling in the chocolate to ask if there were any more.
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Thanks to @katrosereyes, you can relive the dinner with more visuals here:
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âBehind every great woman thereâs a shit ton of other dope ass women.â -Itâs so fucking true. Beautiful recap of the dinner through the heartfelt perspective of @katrosereyes. I didnât hire Kathleen. She casually asked me through DM before the dinner if it would be ok if she took some videos at the event, or if that would be disruptive. I had no idea it was gonna be this. đđźđĽđ. Sunday was the first day we met and she did this completely on her own. Iâm just so overwhelmed with everyoneâs love, vibes, and womxn to womxn affirmations⌠empowerment. Strangers becoming friends at our table: our creative energy inspiring/fueling each others⌠believing in each otherâs dreams and valuing each otherâs existence. This is why I do what I do, and why itâs so damn important to me. Full throttle FEELZ. I honestly donât know how I got so lucky, but Iâm so thankful for you and for this.
A post shared by BIG BAD WOLF (@bigbadwolfsf) on Feb 20, 2019 at 9:34am PST
Thank you to Big Bad Wolf for an extraordinary evening. Days after the dinner, the inspiration from that nightâs sisterhood is still keepinâ me feeling revived.
Coming up next on our website: a blog blitz of our time at Moment SJ. Stay tuned and welcome back.
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