the empath

@ozwolff - independent, selective, private and canon divergent oz from buffy the vampire slayer.

@twelvetm - private, selective, and independent 12th doctor from doctor who

@pvnkiid - independent, selective, jess mariano from gilmore girls

“  I’m not trying to win. I’m not doing this because I want to beat someone — or because I HATE someone, or because I want to blame someone. It’s not because it’s fun. God knows it’s not because it’s EASY  . It’s not even because it works, because it hardly ever does. I do what I do because it’s RIGHT ! Because it’s decent! And above all, it’s kind! It’s just that. Just KIND  .  “

indie, private, selective 12th Doctor from BBC’s Doctor Who

written by Peter

est : 2018

every single jalice scene ever: [31/?]

don’t go. 

please, don’t go. 

it hurts. 

this hurts. 

we can’t be friends. 

you shouldn’t be here. 

stay here with me. 

it doesn’t feel like you care. 

i can’t feel your heart. 

i’m so alone. 

i need you here, with me. 

there’s nothing left. 

we’re up in flames, the both of us. 

it all comes crashing down. 

i don’t know what to do. 

you won’t go with me? 

why don’t you stay here? 

i’m going alone.

my heart’s broken. 

they broke your heart. 

where did this come from? 

how did you get this scar? 

who is {name}? 

what are you saying? 

i shouldn’t have come here. 

it’s like we’ve become strangers. 

who hurt you? 

who did this to you? 

please, don’t ignore me.

please, say something. 

is there something i should know?

i’m not leaving you here. 

you can’t do this to me. 

after all that we’ve been through… 

                                      “  you  know  -  ernest  only  has  lovely  things  to  say  about  you  .  ”

                                           private, selective, indie, jess mariano from gilmore girls

                                                                                        by peter

     You can say no and the other person should respect that. 

     If they don’t agree with you saying no to something, then fucking run. 

     As with my previous rant about IC and OOC being separate and that fiction is fiction so whatever can be written, we need to also remember that saying no is fine and nobody should put you down nor attack you for it. 

     If you are in a situation where somebody says you have to do X or Y and you really don’t want to, or that it is heading that way, you can always say no. You can back out. You can propose things going a different way even. You don’t have to do whatever somebody says.

     You are in your right to say no. You are in your right to back away from somebody’s role play if it is not how things should be going nor how you want it to go.*

     Yes, it can be hard to say no. It can be scary. You may fear the response. But you are still within your right to just say ‘no, I don’t want X to happen’. Bring it up. If somebody starts whining or trying to force something then back away because that is fucking toxic. 

     This is role play. It is made up. If somebody starts trying to get their way then they are wrong. You can say no. You can say no. You can fucking say no. Especially if it relates to a squick, trigger, permanent harm or even death.

     You are always within your right to just say no. Remember this.