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some kinks are porn kinks and some kinks are in real life kinks and some kinks are fantasy kinks. for example i don't want to cum to porn of blood but i do want to draw blood out of a woman violently and then lick it up and smear it all over and fuck her while we're covered in it. i don’t want to actually kill someone but i do want to fantasize about it when i see a cute piece of meat. i like watching some porn categories id never touch in real life and that don’t interest me outside of getting off to it in a video and going about my day. do other people feel this way about most things or do you just kinda like things like... across the board in most/all contexts?

i dont kinkshame or anything, i just wish some of these kink blogs would break kayfabe once in a while to post in actual solidarity of the people theyre fetishizing. that cis woman has shown no reason to believe that she supports transfeminism, she could very easily be a TERF. theres dozens of detrans kink blogs that use actual detrans rhetoric and at no point have posted anything actually trans-positive, not even in their bio as like a disclaimer or whatever. maybe this is a me problem but idk im just done getting abused by chasers and kinksters that genuinely see me in the ways that these kinks describe.

Okay, now swallow. There you go, very good. You'll start feeling it a bit right away, but it'll peak in a few hours. Of course we'll do something about it later, but first I want you to try and go about your day! I want to watch you stumble around, lightheaded and confused as the need in your core grows and grows. I want to see your eyes glaze over, your hands tremble, your breath turn ragged, as the heat builds between your thighs. Won't that be so fun? No, absolutely no touching until I say so. Now go on, try and do some of your little chores or something. I'm going to enjoy watching you fall apart. Wow, dizzy already? Cute.

Also, being forced to make out with another sub for an audience

Need to hunt someone through a dark forest and fuck them when I catch them. For my mental health.

all weed is slut weed when i smoke it

i want a throatfucking where it’s clear the more you violate and degrade me the more it gets you off. it doesn’t matter if i need to breathe if i’m gagging and choking if drool is starting to pool and drip down the side of my face. your pleasure is all that matters and besides, you like how fucked up and whorish i look. tell me to take it like a fucking slut, i wanted this so bad, so i better take everything you’re giving me. push me further than i think i can take. drag my head down by my hair and thrust into me without a care for my wellbeing, like my body’s just a toy for your pleasure.

Intox is always "drug you and rape you when you're unconscious" and not enough "drug you just enough to make you stupid and clumsy and unable to fight back but fully aware of what's happening and whimpering in fear the whole time"

Being forced to hold a plank as a girl places her boots on my back. A timer on her phone as she reads out the passing time, forcing me to be aware as she presses down harder than necessary.

whos gonna get me hjgh and fck me while I have no idea what's happening

people are so weird about cnc and I always just want to look them in the eyes and say “you are getting mad at people for playing pretend. you are getting mad at people for saying ‘raaar! I’m gonna getcha!’ you are not a serious person.”

so much ink and tears have been spilled theorizing that rape kink is about trauma and social anxieties and power fantasies and sure maybe. but I think we’re just mammals who like pretend danger in our play just like every other mammal ever. because we have evolved to find that fun. and the only difference between play-wrestling in bed and pulling out the fuzzy handcuffs is commitment to the bit

Forcing her to drink until she’s a drunk pathetic mess and force myself on her, fooling around in her pants while she weakly tries to push me off and beg me to stop has to be one of my biggest fantasies.

I need to be forced to drink a lot until I’m nearly black out drunk and then played with while I have no idea what’s going on

really want someone to interrupt me mid conversation by groping my tits, pinching my nipples, anything to shut off my brain and remind me that what i was saying wasn't that important, because after all, i'm just a pair of tits really <3

I love casual CNC so much. I'm making food? Stick a vibrator in my ass and turn it max and then proceed to help with cooking acting as if you didn't anything. I'm playing games? Lift me up and sit me down on your dick/strap and bounce me without even acknowledging that anything sexual is happening. I'm watching TV? Put a ball gag, cat ears and a buttplug in me and cuddle me asking what I'm watching and all I can answer is drool and mumbles. I could go for hours with examples. I just love this so much.