EarshawMis

Unlike BDSM, abuse has no limits or safewords. If you are a sub in a D/s relationship, be very careful not to give your submission to just anyone. True submission to a Dom must be earned first.

Mistress makes the rules, controls the slave's time and actions, and has the final say in all decisions. She wields the power to reward and the power to punish.

A slave is expected to be totally obedient, respectful, honest and loyal. A full-time slave may be ordered to work at a day job (and be required turn his paycheck over to the Mistress). The slave must also do most or all of the household chores and errands and be prepared to serve the Mistress’ needs on demand. If he’s lucky, the slave may be granted the privilege to give his Mistress massages, foot rubs or other personal services. Often the Mistress will require the slave to wear a chastity device to control his orgasms. The Mistress/slave dynamic usually includes various BDSM kinks.

Some Mistress/slave relationships have a love component. In others, the Mistress has outside romantic interests and the slave is just a slave, nothing more.

Serving a Mistress can be anything. From sex to being an object, to cooking, to cleaning, to anything.