Tumblr Doms Terrify Me.
The mindset frightens Me, the entitlement and that sudden rage that overcomes them when they don’t get their way…
The idea that because they identify as a d-type, or at least they think they do, means that every s-type will fall to their knees in worship is ridiculous! If you’ve spent any time in the scene then you know that a certain respect is given which goes both ways but never an unwielding devotion because you’re on the left side of the slash.
These relationships/dynamics are built on intimate information gathered about your partner. You have to know everything you would in a vanilla relationship plus triggers, flags, fetishes, safe words, head spaces and much more.
A Dominant’s position is not about power - not one bit - it’s about the responsibility that comes with being given control.
