DYKE

I'm their favourite chew toy 🥰

This is 100% not me coming for you and there is no judgment for anybody. But I think somewhere along the way in the past couple years we’ve as a group kind of lost the plot about what a 24/7 dynamic means. It very much does not mean being in headspace 24 hours a day seven days a week 365 days a year that would be extremely unhealthy for everyone involved. In fact, I think that would actually be a deficit for my own little space personally because part of the reason getting into a little subspace is so freeing for my brain is because I have adult things to do. If I didn’t have adult responsibilities after a while, I’m sure the shine-iness of little space would wear away. 

A 24/7 dynamic does mean that your kink goes outside of the bedroom/ one scene it is on going. But it shouldn’t mean that your life is being interrupted. So for example, what that looks like for me personally in someways:

-we may be in public doing adult things but I know I have to walk on the inside of the sidewalk, I need to wait to have doors opened for me, and at any point I can turn to her for help. No one would know that these are rules that I have they would think that they are my dad being caring for me, but we know they are rules.

-As I go about my normal day, I know at any point she can call for me and ask me to do something (which in turn is pretty similar to just having a partner) but we know it is coming from a heart of submission and service.

- we do have certain routine routines in the morning and at night, where she make sure to create space and time for dedicated littleness everyday and I know those times are not negotiable. (Like staying in bed in the morning till she comes to get me) again if there’s something I or we have to do that day and there’s not time for that then she’s not going to force that to happen. She’s going to make sure that I have the space and help if I need it to be getting done, what needs to get done.