DRM

WELCOME!!!

DMs AND ASKS (❌ANON) ARE OPEN! JUST DONT BE WEIRD!

EXTREME SPOILERS FOR TSAMS, TLAES, AND TEAPS... THERE ARE WARNING TAGS,,, sorry

> I'm DRM / Dreamy! I'm an INFJ TRANS guy, but I'm okay with any pronouns or nicknames that aren't feminine, even xenogenders are okay as long as long as I know you're referring to me. We don’t judge here unless you’re a bad or problematic person, so feel free to be yourself!!!

> I post a multitude of things, but my main fixations are TSBS, Dandy's World, and my OCs. Asks are not guaranteed to be responded to.

> I'm a minor, so I'm not interested in any interaction that isn't strictly platonic or basic politeness with adults (with the exception of people I'm close to). Obviously adults are welcome, but be mindful as most of my audience are minors,,,

‼️HEAVILY NSFW INTERACTION, ASKS, REQUESTS, ETC IS NOT ALLOWED AND YOU WILL BE BLOCKED‼️

⚠️ I block indiscriminately. If you piss me off, harass me, or generally post stuff I don’t like, I will block you. Don’t come to me whining to be unblocked, if you’re blocked, I blocked you for good reason.

More info and references under the cut!

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PERSONAL TAGS! (FOR CONTEXT):

#dreamy yap = for when I yap / rant

#dreamy fanart?!?!?! = fanart others made for me! <3

#dreamy reblog = art / content I reblog that isn't mine

#dreamy art trade = for when I do art trades!

#dreamy answers = for when I answer asks!

My physical health has been spiraling downhill. My anxiety has been unbearable for the past few weeks, and it's gotten so bad I'm getting physical symptoms now. I can't keep food down, my heart problems are becoming more prominent again, and I haven't slept well.

I don't find enjoyment in what i do anymore, and I'm honestly reaching my breaking point.

I'm probably going to disappear for a bit. This online nonsense isn't helping either and I'm sick of it. I'm sick of being sick and sick of even living.

I won't be answering asks.

Moots and close friends feel free to msg me still. I have a private Instagram account, and I can give the @ to a select few at request. Otherwise, I'm leaving for a bit.

I honestly can't stand to even look at my art anymore, let alone draw and post new things. I haven't written anything in forever, and the pressure of having any sort of audience is making my mental and physical state slowly rot.

I appreciate everything, truly, and I'm happy and grateful for the platform I have. But in the end I'm a sniveling, pathetic teenager struggling to even make it to my next birthday.

I'm not usually this open, but I'm tired. Really fucking tired.

So I'm taking a break. Is it permanent? Probably not. I've thought of quitting permanently a lot but I don't think I could give up what I do entirely. This is the consequences of my actions, and I need time to deal with it.

You can block me after this idm

I genuinely. Don't know why people go to harass others so I'm sorry people have been doing that with you and the other person

and. sorry that my message may have seemed rude [especially with that last part]

I have no excuses for my lack of research on stuff like this and the actual definition to what I said. So I'm sorry about that

I will say I was genuinely curious on why start stuff, but now that you've explained it, I respect that :]!

I am NOT a moot of that person, and really I only followed them for their art

I was unaware of their past dramas and will be blocking them after this cuz. what the fuck

Anyways, I'm sorry for sending something on anon like a coward and I'll take this as a learning experience to both research and mind my business with others' dramas

Smart thing to turn off anon btw. Kudos to that

Again, you can block me like you did to my main idm. I just wanted to apologize for my message

Have a good day and rest of your career drm!! I hope stuff like this stops happening to you and your friends <3

[also last thing, now knowing the definition, yeah I'm not a proshipper XP. just to clear that up]

- Sincerely, Moonie

I'm actually really appreciative of you taking responsibility??? That's so rare online these days. Thank you XD

Also, if I blocked you on your main, its probably from when I panicked and blocked everyone involved. You likely just reblogged something from them and I panicked.

I'm not telling people to just willy-nilly block. I'm sure as hell not telling people to go fucking harrass anyone. If someone ships something seen as morally wrong, I'm gonna tell people who also think that's morally wrong so they don't have to see or deal with it. Every time I've called someone out I've told everybody to NOT FUCKING ENGAGE.

If you don't support them just don't interact. I made that mistake. I realized what I did was wrong. I won't do it again.

'Twas a learning experience.

I don't care what your personal definition of a proshipper is. Proshipping has always been associated with horrible things. Just be honest and say you ship some fucked up shit. Everyone does, that's literally like toxic ships and stuff. But there's levels to this shit.

And oh my god, the terms.

Please please please PLEASE remember the terms guys. This is so fucking important. I'm so serious. Can people have different definitions? Sure. But these are the things that the terms were originally for. You simply cannot change that. Sit me down and explain what you mean if you're any one of these problematic ones because genuinely they're labels for people who ship things considered morally wrong. They always have been.

Comship (Complicated Ship); toxic relationships, power imbalances, stalking, kidnapping, basically all your classic Wattpad dark romance type stuff. These aren't problematic. They can be weird asf but they're not inherently problematic.

Darkship; incest, pedophilia, zoophilia, etc. This is problematic for obvious reasons. If I have to explain to you how these things are inherently problematic I will assume that you're not serious.

Proship; Supports all ships. ALL ships. Including comships, including darkships, and anything else problematic that may be included. This can be problematic.

A tiny, itty bitty, select few proshippers don't support problematic things.

However, the majority do. The people I actually call out for being proshippers do. If you're not doing something actively problematic I genuinely dgaf.

If you are, I'll block your ass, tell people you're problematic and move on. Don't get mad when you're problematic and someone tells you you're problematic. You made it public. Not me, not anyone else.

I have proship/darkship dni on everything. There are some exceptions to this, simply because again, not every proshipper is bad. But these very, very few exceptions have explained themselves. You DO have to explain yourself. You don't owe me it, but if you don't I am genuinely going to assume you're problematic. That's just how it is.

TLDR; if you're gonna be weird or problematic, do it with pride, be honest about it, and expect some people to not fuck with it.

That's all. That's it.

Much appreciated! <3

Meh it'll blow over eventually. They'll get back to doing what they always do and so will we.

just block, ignore them, and move on, because none of that is worth your time. if they try anything insane, people will back you up. the fact that they're THIS insane over a show that is mostly slop (I say that with love) to begin with astounds me

please take care of yourself, i LOVE your art, au's, and solarnexus content <3 drink water and eat well!!!

Thanks so much for the supporting words anon!

Honestly, stepping back I realize how stupid this situation was. I feel like there's a lack of common sense leaking from this drama, and that includes me. I lacked common sense. That's my fault.

And yeah, I honestly never liked this person, but I left them alone. I will continue to leave them alone, and only respond to those who accuse me of things still.

Just leave people be if you don't like something they post or support XP [unless if they're actually harming someone or themselves]

[also a proshipper is someone that. by definition. Is pro ships. not the disgusting stuff that the word is connected to. It can be a part of it but yk. if you don't like something just block n move on. it's the Internet afterall]

Listen, I was just wanting to spread awareness. People are allowed to have their own opinions once I present them with the proof and facts. You know, like a screenshot where they admit to being a proshipper and telling people who ship a certain thing to kill themselves. Most people are a big fan of when you do that.

I really didn't mean for anyone to straight up get harrassed, and I stand by that. I had nothing to do with those anons or that random troll account. I gave the screenshot to someone and LITERALLY TOLD THEM NOT TO SHARE IT OR HARRASS ANYONE. I literally cannot control what people do. I also cut off the person who I gave it to in the first place since this entire thing started because apparently I couldn't trust them to not give that to someone who had bad intentions.

The post where I was the one who was saying the mean things, I deleted soon after I posted because I knew it was wrong. The post was up for no more than 2 minutes at most and I realize I fucked up big time, so I deleted it. I apologized multiple times. There's nothing more I can do about that. If there is something more I can do, by all means please let me know. I'd like to fix this.

I called them a "creep" in MY PERSONAL dms. I was honest about my dislike for them. Was that too harsh? Most likely. Yes, actually. But also, that's my opinion, which I as a person am entitled to. I have a right to think so when this person tells people to kill themselves over a ship (A ship that I like btw. They were basically telling me to kill myself) and constantly harass people. And yes, I CAN give proof. Just tell me when. Genuinely.

Also, saying you are a proshipper means you support all ships, even the bad ones. You can't pick and choose with a term like that, especially when it's always been associated with bad things. You search up the word "proshipper" on anything other than the Google AI Overview and you see straight child porn. That is what they're saying they support, whether indirectly or not.

They could've used any other term. Or just say "I support people who ship what they want, except the bad ones." That's what I say, because I believe people should do what they want as long as it's not an illegal ship (pedophilia, incest, etc.).

And I didn't want them to get harrassed for this, I wanted to let people know who don't support that stuff so they could block the person.

Their "it's fiction" argument is awfully similiar to the same argument genuinely problematic people make. It's not just fiction. It affects real people, as it teaches younger people who are newer to fandoms that these problematic things are okay when they're really not. It affects real people, real people being ME, as I used to be friends with a proshipper and not only did they groom me, mistreat me, but they convinced me that these things were right. They aren't. And it's not just me, so many other people have had this experience.

They say they're proship but then go on to harass others who like something they don't. There is literally proof of this. It's contradictory. It's wrong. I was calling them out. Because our fandom doesn't need people like that in it.

You can advocate for no censorship. In fact, I ACTIVELY advocate for no censorship. But "no censorship" doesn't equal "free of cosequences". Same with free speech. I fear this is common sense.

Also, I'm a victim of SA too, among a myriad of other horrible things, so them saying that I was the one who invalidated them ALONG with that person (and I literally didn't, it wasn't me), also dismisses MY trauma. Hypocrite much? Over something I didn't do?

I do mean it when I say I didn't want them to get harassed. I do mean it when I say I'm sorry. I trusted people who couldn't keep their mouth closed and that IS on me. I take full responsibilty for that. But genuinely, shut up about this person. I'm sick of being dogpiled for something I literally did not fucking do.

Also, I'm assuming you're a fan or moot of them, so please tell them to stop pinning shit on me that I had nothing to do with.

I hope you have a good day.

Anything I've said about anyone has been accompanied with screenshots or a response from the person themselves.

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WHATT NOOO no crying okay? okay 🥺🥺🥺