Reg Berry

@dominantberryreg​:  Holy fuckin shit babe, you tryin to get me to cancel classes for the day?

Holy fucking shit, huh? So I caught your attention. Hi. Is that what this makes you want to do?

PM: Dorsey...Fuck. First off, you’ve always got my attention babe. Always. Hi there, handsome. I think you know that it’s exactly what this makes me wanna do. I see you. C’mere, let me rip those clothes off you. My boy. My one and only. I love you.

Sorry sir. I really I guess feel nervous about asking questions in general. I dont want to be perceived as stupid. I would like information so I can be a better informed submissive. I eventually want to try and run for Mark leader but im not knowledgeable enough currently. I lack experience. As for a mentor; I mean Miss Frannie and Miss Ariella would be two submissives I look up to so to speak. I just dont want to be a bad submissive, I mean I have other motives outside of mark leader for improving myself as a submissive. So you’d recommend finding a mentor? What else?

That’s going to have to be the first thing to go. If you wanna learn, you’re going to have to ask questions. That’s the only way that’ll happen. Asking questions isn’t dumb, and it doesn’t make you stupid. So that’s rule number 1. Ask some fucking questions, get some fucking answers, and fuck what everyone else thinks. First and foremost, you’ve gotta be doing this for yourself. To better yourself. To gain more knowledge for yourself. Because you have questions, and shit you don’t know that you need to. So, that’s good ground to start on. And, that’s a good thing to recognize. A good goal to have. Which brings me to the answer to your question- what else? Goal setting. You need to know exactly what it is you’re looking to accomplish. You wanna be Mark Leader. That’s one good goal. Think of some more, long term type stuff. Do you eventually wanna be in a claim? Do you eventually wanna teach? Think about what you really hope to gain as a submissive from this process. And then, think about those goals. Think about what you wanna learn, and think about the information you’re missing to get you there. That information is your stepping stone, and that’s where your questions should come from. Like, if you eventually wanna be in a claim, the big question is how do you get to a point where that’s possible? Well, to get there you’ll need a better understanding of topics x, y, and z. So then, what are those topics? What questions do you have about those topics? Write all this down. Keep a journal if ya don’t. Think of it as a flow chart. Draw diagrams. Lists. Whatever you gotta do to make it make sense to you. To get yourself organized. Yeah, I know Frannie and Ariella. I know Frannie better since she’s staff. What I’d suggest is asking Dr. Fabray to be your mentor, and then spending time with Ariella in addition to that. I say that just because Frannie is staff, a counselor, and has a little more formal experience in this arena. Like I said, I’m opening myself up as a sort of mentor, someone to at least ask questions to if and when you need that perspective- only if you’re serious about this. Which, seems to me like you are. You can get where you wanna go. You’re takin a lot of good steps right here. I’ll tell you that because you should hear it. 

You’re perfect. I love you. You’re the reason I’m here, you’re the reason I can function on the daily. You have to give yourself enough credit. I will, I’ll remember that. You’re my anchor, always. My most important, most trusted, safe person. I like doing things with you, I’m glad you want to go to the movie. Yours. All yours. Yes, Sir. I can do that. Thank you. I’ll calm down. I’m just excited. I came out of my low and I broke the glass ceiling. One at a time. Yes, Sir. You do, you have me.

Nah, babe, that’s you. I love you more, so fuckin much. Just like always, I could say the same things about you. The fuck would I be doing without you, Dor? I’d be good as dead, you and I both know it. You have to do the same thing, babe. Good boy. I always will be. You know. You know I’d never let anything happen to ya, and I’d never steer you wrong. You know I’ll be here, always no matter what. I like doin things with you, too. We’re gettin to do so much stuff here we never have before and I just...I’m so fuckin’ thankful I’ve got a way to at least share some shit like this with you, even if I could never probably do it on my own. I’ll go anywhere with you, Dove. Shhhh, you know I ain’t saying that. I know, I want you to be excited. I want you to be happy. But, like I said, we gotta take things in the order they come, or we won’t have any excitement left over for later. You’re the best thing that ever happened to me Dorsey Rose. I can’t wait to make you my husband. 

To tell the truth, all of those classes would probably benefit me greatly. Maybe we should talk about that? [PM:] I want to be good for my boy. I know you get that.

Maybe we should then, Elliott. You can set up an appointment during my Office Hours, or we can get things going over text if that’s more your jam. Don’t mind either myself, I’ll leave it up to you.  PM: Yeah, I know a thing or two about that. So first question then- what makes you think you ain’t already? Good for him, I mean. What is it you feel you need to improve on?

Sir, hello, I don’t have any particular questions to d/s relationships currently off the top of my head, but I was wondering if you were open to giving advice or any information on submission or just any type of knowledge? I know I haven’t been the most present but another staff member told me to work on myself and my education and I want to take that to heart and take their advice seriously. I know its non specific to your class and you don’t have to help me I can always go to Mr. Moore but, any information would help. would you mind providing me with a way to get more information on the differences in D/s relationships, I’m not intentionally trying to be vague I just… I don’t know where to start and I know thats no excuse given I have been at the sanctuary for seven months so I apologize and I’ll work on being better.

Interesting. Well, I know you said you aren’t trying to be vague, but that kinda was. And, it’s a little jumpy. I can’t get a clear read on where you are, or what you’re asking me for specifically, outside of information. Which yeah, I do have and can share, but knowing what information is necessary is helpful. Otherwise we’ll end up having a conversation you didn’t ask for. Now I’m rambling- Look, point is yeah, I’ll help as much as I can, to answer whatever question(s) you may have from a Dominant perspective. The first thing I’m gonna suggest, though, is that you get yourself a Submissive Mentor. Someone who is well-versed in submission. Someone who really knows what they’re doing. It ain’t a bad thing to want the perspective of a Dom, though, so you’ve come to the right place in a way. If you’re really lookin for help, I’m not gonna turn you away. But, yeah, place Number 1 to start- find a Mentor. Got any ideas or anyone in mind? Someone who’s submission you admire or look up to, who really knows what they’re doin?

I noticed that too. The volunteered thing. I’m feeling okay. I went numb for a minute, but we were prepared for it. We usually are. You’re so good to me. You make things better, you make me feel better, my Sir. Do you want to come watch the thing? We can do the movies too, if you want.  I know Charlie Brown probably wouldn’t be your first choice but… the experience might be cool. We can see more of the horror ones too. –I’m talking a lot, I must be good. I love you.

You’re gonna be great, you always are. I’ll be with ya, you know I will. I know you did, and yeah we were. I wanna get back to gettin good at predicting when it’s gonna happen. I need to be better prepared for you. I want it to be an all the time thing, not a usually thing. And I always will be. Remember that my Dove. You’re the most important thing to me, always. We can go see the movies, I know you wanna. You’re my thing, that’s what counts. You’re alright too, Dor. Just breathe. Take a minute, on your knees for me. I want you to center yourself before you go up to host the thing. It’ll all get done, we’ll do all the things. But we gotta do ‘em one thing at a time babe. That’s how they’re happenin’, so that’s how we’re gonna do them. One at a time, you and me. I love you too babe. I got ya. 

@subdorseyrose​

private f2f {reg and dorsey}

You always do, I hope you know that. I wouldn’t be here without you. Are you trying to make me blush? I love you. I was yeah. I think they’re good, aside from some overthinking. I think so, yeah. It could be fun. You could reach out to Henry about it. 

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Good. At least I know I’m doin’ something right with you. Dorsey. You are far beyond perfect. You know for  fact I wouldn’t be here without you, either. Maybe I am. I love you more. Good to hear, if not a bit surprising. Overthinking isn’t typically something you hear in relation to Vic and Hen. ...Alright. If you think it’s a good idea. 

private f2f {reg and dorsey}

I’ve never been anywhere like this either. You’re cute, we’re going to have a ton of fun here, I can feel it. You always take care of us, you’re perfect, Sir. I feel good, I think. I was talking to Vic earlier, I think we should hang out with them finally too. Get you your friends back. I know you miss them.

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I know. I wanna make damn sure you have as much fun as possible. I can too, babe. You’re fuckin’ hot, so I guess we’re even then, huh? I promised I would, and I will. You are. You think? Talk to me baby. You were? He good? You think so?

private f2f {reg and dorsey}

Hey, babe. This trip is wild, yeah? 

@dominantberryreg​

Hey there, good lookin’. It is, yeah, for sure. I’ve never been anywhere this nice before. I want to make sure we both make the most of it. How are you feeling?

Very tired today. Might not get out of bed. So you’ll want to contact me here or text if you need your friendly,neighborhood tutor- I won’t be in my office today.

You good, bro?

My apologies, truly. I am still working my way through getting to know everyone and I like to try to ask people what titles they prefer. I should have started with that. I don’t think that is a bad idea though, sir. Any way to help people learn more would be wonderful. Thank you, I hope so too. It is nice to meet you Reginald. I certainly hope we will. I can’t wait to get to meet as many people as I can. Hopefully participate in more of the clubs as well. Do you happen to have any favorites? 

Sure. See, here’s my problem Red, and go with me on this one. You still didn’t ask. Now we’ve arrived at ‘Reginald’. Which, if you’d asked the question you said you try to ask, you’d have known that’s not what I like to go by either. Yes, it’s my full name but I’d expected to be addressed appropriately following attention being called to the issue. Clearly it isn’t a bad idea. You have fun with that, sweetcheeks. Dorsey runs the Astronomy Club. I’d start there. 

Thank you so much for your well wishes, it was certainly a great time though. Hopefully I’ll get another chance to formally meet you guys though. I’ve  just been so lost in getting settled. 

Sure. One question- and don’t think this is specific to you, if anyone else sees this and has some inkling of the correct answer I’m all ears- the fuck is up with the Submissives on this campus not titling Dominants? I’m really starting to think I should rally to start a club or a class- Titling 101. Regardless, welcome uh- Jackie. Hope you get that figured out real soon. I’m Reginald Berry. I teach Claims Information, Traditional D/s Relationships, and Alternatives to Traditional D/s Relationships. My claim, Dorsey Rose, teaches Coping with Trauma through D/s. I’m sure we’ll see you around.