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1. CHASTITY

Lock its genitals in order to restrict access. Make sure it is chaste most of the time, free only in your presence from time to time. This way, its body parts become your property and it is unable to play with itself, which ALL men do.

2. INSPECTIONS

This might seem like unnecessary play only but it is not. It send a strong impulse to its mind about who is in charge and has unlimited freedom. Do it on regular basis.

3. ROUTINES

Routines are very important, any kind of routine. To begin with, decide upon a daily routine with which it will show its respect and humility to you. Make sure there will be no skipping on routines.

4. DISCIPLINE

This is a complete must, done on daily basis. Discipline is the most essential ingredient. It doesn’t need to “deserve it”, it is simply necessary. Find the time and the will every day.

5. TEASE, EDGING, DENIAL

Having and keeping its balls full will ensure its full attention towards you. It will make it beg and it will make it soft on its mind. Have you tried it for hours? No? Try it. Bigger balls equals more obedience and willingness to do anything for you.

6. RUINED ORGASMS

Your slave needs to cum and it will do anything to cum. You will allow it to cum on occasion but you will also slowly take away its right to have that pleasure. Ruin iits orgasms often and make it thank you. In time you could easily have it pleasure-less and without actual orgasms, up to you. Remember, an orgasm is not a right, it is a health necessity. It is not a reward either. Yours are important and only orgasms that should be cherished.

7. HUMILIATION

As bad as this might sound, subtle ways of humiliation are extremely effective. It needs it, it wants it. Do it. Find ways, decide up on them and act upon them. Humiliation makes it more humble. Then humiliate some more, subtly.

8. USE IT, MAKE IT FEEL USED

slaves like being treated like objects or toys. So that’s just what you need to do, use it for your pleasure and needs and then simply discard it. It’s a play, nothing more but it works just fine. Make sure you train yourself for such acts properly, in order not to appear silly.

9. EMASCULATION & PEGGING

Chastising your slave is the begging of emasculation. Pegging is another great way to emasculate. Make it your bitch, bring out its feminine side. Bringing out its feminine side works beautifully in favor of emasculation. Emasculation kills the ego every man has. Ego is an absolute enemy. 

With all the advice out there on how to be a good fag, i’ve found that much of it miss the basics that can really lead to fulfilling service to Kings and Alphas.  Many have asked how i do it, so want to pass along what has worked out for me as well as what hasn’t. As background, i am a fit, attractive, white collar professional with two degrees from top 10 schools. i have a great career and generally good life.  Yet, i find i am happiest when i am serving Alphas, serving my Dom, my King. Here are a few major facts i learned to be absolutely true and even necessary:

LEARN SKILLS THAT PLEASE.  i thought i was big shit getting my professional licenses on the first try. Having a great job. Expensive apartment, Nice watches, cars. None of it mattered when it came to finding men to serve.  i found i had to attend cooking school and learn to cook healthy, gourmet meals for Alphas.  i got certified in massage to provide relief to them.  i learned to iron and tailor clothes for them.  i looked for best practices in cleaning their homes.  i learned to take care of men’s everyday needs.  The result was i got more attention from Alpha’s i served and got invited more.  It was a progression from say a massage one day to getting my holes used after a few sessions, but when you get there, to the point the Alpha sees you have more value to him than just a cumrag, He’ll want you around a lot more to serve Him. 

DROP THE ATTITUDE.  i had a cumdump bottom buddy who met a big dicked Latin guy that fucked him 7, 8–even 9 times a day. Even i was jealous. Sometimes the top came in him.  Other times he didn’t cum at all. My friend asserts he was A LOT of fun.  But one day, my buddy told all his friends that the top was too old (10 years older) and was no longer attracted to his face.  Buuyyyyyeee!  A year later, that cumdump admits not finding another top as horny as the one he threw shade to. Be less about artificial shit and more about the reward for serving dick, getting the load. By dropping many of what now seem to be ridiculous standards, i’ve seen the amount of Alpha cock available to me increase fivefold.

WORK HARD ON YOURSELF.  i used to go to the gym to stay in shape and trained to prevent sports injuries.  Now i go to get stronger and grow bigger, become more desirable for Alphas to want me around.  i look better than a lot of guys younger guys and it is noticed.  Read about different subjects to gain knowledge.  Meditate to be calm and ready for whatever your Alpha requests of you.  Be on-point about details, be it the frequency of your haircut or keeping shaved and smooth. Be the best presentation of you that you can be for your Alpha.

KEEP A SLAVE/FAG JOURNAL.  This concept was introduced to me by @topguydave when i started to serve Him in person out west.  He would have me journal online every night.  It served not only as an outlet to unload my thoughts, but also as insight for Him into what was going on in my head. In turn, He really got to know me and it guided Him as to how to best train me. The result was an amazing journey and even friendship that is only impeded by a change in time zone and distance.  i grew very much as His fag, so much so that the mere sight of Him makes me feel love, calm and pride. Remember, Alphas are human and can’t read fag minds–unless emptied onto paper!

WORK THROUGH YOUR ISSUES.  We all have them.  it was a process, but i eventually admitted i am a fag. i don’t feel shame or embarrassment. i know my place. i continue to do what i do for a living, but more importantly, i elevate Alphas and help them succeed.  i’m still working on a hot button: financial use.  It arises from being ripped off years ago of over 100k   As I continue meeting Alphas, i get better at it affecting me. i get better at being up front.  i get better at reminding myself that it will eventually not be an issue anymore. And i thus get better at serving Alphas.

FAIL. A LOT. i’ve failed some awesome Doms–Doms i was LUCKY to serve. Failed at tasks.  Failed at communicating.  Failed at doing what i said.  Failed at being on-time.  Failed at never being half-assed.  Failed at being a true fag. Sometimes it was because of my own hubris. Others, it was my stubbornness–something i constantly denied when pointed out by one particular cocky top Alpha (he was right, btw). But we fags can learn from these failures. A bunch of failures behind you mean you won’t make those mistakes twice. you’ll be better prepared to serve your Alpha, be the best fag possible for Him. i am a more attractive to Alphas because i know what doesn’t work.  That alone is enough motivation to not fear failure.

Why Humiliate a faggot?

Humiliation breaks down a faggot’s ego and allows it to accept its rightful place.

Humiliation ensures that a faggot remains humble.

Humiliation shows that the faggot is inferior to all real men.

Humiliation keeps a faggot submissive.

Humiliation purges any sense of equality from the faggot.

Humiliation makes a faggot more obedient.

Humiliation eradicates all pride from the faggot.

1:  You  need to get into his head.

-Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.  Use this information against him and to Your advantage.

-Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

-Make him show his loyalty to You regularly.  Reward him, even if it’s just with positive attention when he does.

- Aside from family, close friends and work, give him 0% privacy.  Don’t hide this process from him, make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”  

-Make him need You for everything.  Point out how You help him, how You guide him, and how You accept the negative things about him that others may not.

- Hypnosis, especially while they are sleeping can help transfer messages, ideas and ideals about You deep into their faggot head.

2:  Punish him often for everything, no exceptions!

- Don’t let him get away with anything!  When You let your sub get away with something. You are telling him that You don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

- You can Spank, paddle, or whip him.

- Humiliate him past what is easy for him.

- Long term bondage

- Corner time

- Food restrictions

- Writing standards/lines\

- Write a book report or essay.

- Ground him/take away privileges.

- Wash his mouth out with soap.

- Make him do anything he hates.

- Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

- Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending Your control over him as a punishment.  That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

3:  Routinely discipline him.  This is different than punishment.

- Spank him once a week, just because You can, not too hard, not too soft.

-Humiliate him often.

- 5-10 minuets of corner time a day can do wonders for him, like a sub’s meditation.

- If he is stressed, give him a break and put him in some comfy bondage for a while.  You may or may not want to integrate impact play with this.  For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.

- Routine discipline will save You time and energy in the long run.  You will have to punish him less as a result.

- Taking care of You can be part of his discipline.  Have him do Your laundry, cleaning, etc.

4:  On some level, even if it’s small, keep Your sub horny for You.

- Talk sexy to him.

-Sexualize non sexual things/activities You are interested in. He will see whatever it is You’ve sexualized as such and be more interested/eager to engage.

- Have Your sub do some or all of Your body grooming. This can be Your baths, Your nails, shaving, trimming, waxing, etc.

- Scare him by telling him when and what You’re going to do to him in the near future.

- Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

- Make him give You orgasms.  This is different from sex.  This is a service.

- Let him rest on You to smell You as You watch TV or read.

- Give him underwear/items of Yours to smell as he sleeps.

- Hypnosis, especially while Your sub sleeps can help with this too.

5:  Control Your own feelings of guilt.

-      Your sub needs You to be strong “with” him.  You may show vulnerabilities in Yourself for other aspects of Your life. When it comes to him and Your control over him, be firm!

-      Some meanness and cruelty will be needed from time to time to help break Your sub down.

-      Your sub may not want everything You give him/ do to him, but he needs it.

-      Letting Your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because You feel guilty adequately and severely addressing it is weak.  You need to control that shit.

-      Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them.  Sometimes real men need to show the fag that they are inferior.  This can’t always be done by talking.  And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

-      Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs.  You are filling his needs.

-      Remember, You both need to be happy.  But happiness comes from different places for different people.  If there is communication, and Your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then You are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

-      A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop You from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does be there for him.

6: Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

- Have him wear a small butt-plug for a time, wifi enabled if possible.

- Have him be naked or close to it, around You and or Your friends.

- Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

- Make him wear a chastity device sometimes.

- Teach them “tricks” like sit, drop to their knees to kiss Your crotch, etc.  In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure Your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.

- Make him masturbate for You.

- Slap him in the face.

- Spit on him.

- Treat him as an inferior in public.  (Ex: he carries all bags, opens doors, eats Your leftovers, holds Your drinks, tie Your shoes  etc.)

- Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

- Talk down to him in front of others

7: Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please You.  Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.

- If You want to change his body to Your liking, do so.  Control his workouts, diet etc.  Make sure and be realistic with this one.

- Make sure he is available during some of Your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve You during those times.

- Put him on a sleeping schedule.  Lots of fags are not able to adequately manage their sleep times.  The better rested he is, the better he will serve You.

- Go through his closet/things and throw away/put away any clothing You don’t like him to be wearing.

- Sign him up to learn new tasks or prefect tasks/skills that will help You.  (Ex: massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.)

- Change their grooming habits to Your liking.

8: Help Your sub be grateful for everything he has.  Make sure You are at the top of that list.  One great way to do this is to deny him things.  Yep, it’s time to say “No.”  Subs need boundaries, and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.

- You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

- Make him show his gratitude to You often.  Faggots will show this to You in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to You.

- Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain why well enough. Then take it from him.

- You can take things/items from him that You know he does not need, but likes.  (Make sure he can afford for You to take them and that they are not of an additional value such as sentimental etc.)  Let him know from time to time that You enjoy something that You took from him.

- Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what You make him do. This could be sort or long term.  

9:  None of these actions will work without real trust.

- If Your sub is Your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes You and Your power.

-  If Your sub is not Your partner, make sure You two are real friends. That You appreciate how his inferiority completes you.  The more You two know about and do with each other. The more thoroughly You can control him.

-Part of trust on the subs part is trusting that You will follow through when You say You are going to do something to him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

-  When a sub fully trusts You. He can submit to You his mind and privacy. Letting You go in and re-arrange/manage his life.

- Subs need constant reassurance.  Let him know that no matter what, he is Yours.  If a serious sub feels disposable. He will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

- If Your life is getting too hard for a bit or You need help with something. Trust that Your sub will be able to take over for You and act in your best interest until You are back in shape.  Giving  sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that You are not actively controlling him 100% of the time.  If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for You. Then drop him like a hot potato.

-Talk to Your sub often.  Ask him how he is feeling, and let him honestly know how You are feeling on anything and everything.

- By taking things away from him, You are in a sense rewarding him when You give them back.  Also, nothing he has is his forever.  You need to re-take things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right.  Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog.  Your sub needs be docile enough that You can take his food bowl away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and patiently wait until the food is returned

-Please note: Do not ever deny him from being with Friends or family.  Make him realize that the only reason You allow him to have constant contact/interaction with good friends and family is because he “helps” them by being a good friend or family member.  Make sure the he understands that the happiness that comes from being with them is “second” to the happiness that he brings them.  Basically, he needs to understand that if he pulls away from loved ones. While he is under Your control his loved ones will suffer. That is why he is allowed (and encouraged) to keep and/or strengthen the bonds he has with them.

You may have heard people preach the benefits of being assertive. While it’s definitely true that you should be able to articulate and defend yourself if you are in any sort of threat or danger, there’s something to be said for being the one who always lets others get their way.

You won’t be seen as an angry, shrill, cunt and in fact will increase your potential for making others happy, avoiding conflict, and, most importantly, putting others (particularly Men) before yourself.

If you are a passive person, it’s important to surround yourself with people you trust that can defend and stand up for you if necessary. That’s one of the reasons why finding a true Man to be your valiant white knight is so important for a passive faggot.

Passivity is not a negative trait- in fact for faggots it’s an aspirational ideal that will prime you to become the perfect, moldable resource for a Man to please Himself with. I’m trying more and more to be as passive as possible and I encourage other faggots to be as well.

Here’s my advice for becoming more passive.

1. Realize it’s not about you

It’s a big world we live in filled with many accomplished Men that are smarter, stronger, and more successful than us fags are. We’re really nothing special so quit wasting the energy on feeling entitled to things.

I’m realizing more and more that by channeling the negative energy away from being upset over not getting my way I’m able to able to devote myself fully to more important things like skincare and exercise.

2. Accept blame as the default

We all make mistakes. Some fags more than others. While it’s true that sometimes you technically aren’t at fault when others are upset with you, often it’s better just to take the blame anyway.

You’ll avoid making others even angrier, and then you can move on instead of just arguing. This will also make you easier it easier for a Man to discipline you when you take blame and adjust your behavior to His liking.

3. Apologize more

Saying “sorry” as often as possible shows others that you are not only kind-hearted and sensitive to their needs, but also a pushover. Men will find this adorable!

4. Pick your battles (or don’t!)

Only contradict someone if it’s an absolute necessity. Trust me, at least 90% of the time it just isn’t worth it. An argumentative faggot is really just a joke, so don’t get angry or pushy about anything.

Better yet, depend on Men to do the confrontation for you.

5. Keep your opinions to yourself

Most people don’t want to hear a pushy faggot droning on about how it’s too cold outside or how their boss at work is an asshole. You’ll usually just come across as being whiny and a bitch.

Just remember again that you’re nothing special and aren’t entitled to anything and move on. A Man with His true masculine intelligence will always have better standing to express His opinions.

6. Accept the benefits of giving in

1. I WILL SWALLOW, unless otherwise instructed. A man’s cum deserves as much respect as the man himself. Swallowing reinforces the bond between man and cocksucker.

2. I WILL DEEPTHROAT to the best of my ability, regardless of whether I gag. A well-rounded cocksucker must master the use of his lips, tongue AND throat to maximize a man’s pleasure.

3. I WILL NOT USE MY HANDS unless instructed. My mouth is my sexual organ.

4. I WILL NOT TOUCH MYSELF when sucking a man’s Cock. His pleasure is my own. To suggest otherwise is deeply disrespectful.

5. I WILL NOT EXPECT RECIPROCATION—ever. See above.

6. I WILL MAKE MYSELF AVAILABLE, and service on his terms. A man should never have to jerk himself off when a cocksucker could do the job instead.

7. I WILL ALLOW HIM TO CALL ME NAMES, such as “faggot”, “cocksucker” and “slut”, regardless of whether I enjoy this. A cocksucker must accept his place on the sexual totem pole. Such names are a man’s way of claiming this superiority over a cocksucker.

8. I WILL CONTINUE TO SERVICE for as long as a man deems appropriate, whether minutes or hours, without complaint.

Fags need to be controlled. Fags need structure. Straight men offer structure. So fags should pay straight men for pleasure and control.

To be a better cash fag

1. Be attentive of masters desire 2. Be open and communicate with Master, make sure you know what he wants 3. Work extra to give Master more money 4. Beg to pay Master always, I won’t ask. You beg too. 5. More control over your money the better 6. The more you give Master the happier you’ll be

Now go be a good cash fag, DM me and beg for my PayPal like a good pup. Offer your body and mind to me. Let me control you and your financial freedom. You life and freedom will be mine soon

1. Discourage use of his cock. Every time he uses his cock he is experiencing pleasure as a Top, is neglecting his pussy and learning to get off with his cock instead of his hole. If you aren’t into the whole BDSM and chastity scene, encourage him to hold back from masturbating with his dick, and encourage him to finger himself instead. If you are in bed together and he is trying to wank, push his hands away from his cock so he gets used to sexual pleasure without associating it with cock pleasure. When you fuck him make sure he is focused on the sensations his pussy is giving him by not allowing him to wank during sex - fuck him in a position that is difficult for him to do so such as face down on the bed.  Buy him jocks so that his cock is hidden away and minimised but his pussy and ass is on display and have sex while he wears these so he learns that his cock is not necessary for good sex. Very controversially, and only if this fits with the type of relationship you have, encourage the boy to feel naughty if he touches his dick, but reward him for playing with his pussy. If he has a small dick, or if it is smaller than yours, remind him how small it is compared to your cock, and encourage him to think that his cock is small because it is only meant to pee and not to fuck. Fucking is reserved for Men/Daddies/Tops with Real Cocks, not for a boy and his little nubbin. If he is caught touching his dick, act disappointed, so he feels shame when he touches himself there. Of course if you are in a BDSM relationship then there are many options available to you to reinforce this notion that boy touching his nubbin is bad - whether through chastity or punishment. The idea is to encourage negative feelings towards his cock and achieving orgasm in a conventionally ‘male’ way.

2. Make him feel good about his pussy. All boys are naturally self conscious and worried about what their Daddy/Top thinks about them. By telling him how beautiful and delicious his pussy is, and letting him know how much you love it as often as you can, he will gain confidence in his pussy and be much more comfortable in showing it off and using it. Reinforce behaviour which glorifies his pussy and puts it at the forefront of his sexual pleasure and identity. Much like you are trying to promote a feeling of the forbidden and negative towards his cock in tip 1, here you are trying to promote feelings of desirability and positivity surrounding his pussy and being a pussyboy.

3. Give him pleasure through his pussy. If you want him to be a true bottom and love it, you need to make sure he is feeling satisfied enough anally to forget about his dick. Casually grab his ass cheeks, rub his hole when kissing, play with it during foreplay and ignore his cock completely. As covered in previous posts, REAL MEN EAT PUSSY. If you truly love boy pussy then you will lick, suck and eat it out and make him moan like a bitch on heat and beg for your cock. Rub it. Play with it. Give him pleasure through it, and when you do come round to fucking it, make sure you drive him wild through the fuck and aim to give him an anal orgasm if possible. When he does have an anal orgasm, kiss him, congratulate him, make him feel proud for being a good bottom. Remember that especially for a young boy to ignore his cock and try to experience pleasure through his pussy alone is a VERY difficult task. That means that as a Top you need to be up to the task of giving him the satisfaction necessary for him to feel that it is worth all the trouble and denial he is going through.

4. Combat his shame. A lot of pussyboys may feel shame for many reasons. They may feel shame for being gay, or that they are not very masculine compared to other boys/Men. They may worry about what people think about them. Even if they come to terms with being gay and being less masculine, they may still feel bad about being exclusively passive pussyboys because let’s face it, Tops get a lot more respect than bottoms both from gays and straights. In order for your boy to truly feel comfortable in his own skin and identity as a fully 100% passive pussyboy and completely give himself to you, and by extension accept you as his 100% active long-term partner, you need to not only encourage that behaviour, but let him know that being a pussyboy is OK and anyone who disagrees can go fuck themselves. An important way to do this is to reinforce the message that you are his Man/Daddy and you will keep him safe and protect him from what any haters may say or think. Show him your love and affection as well as your dominance.

Rules That Make you a Better Toy:

Never close your legs

Never close your lips when in front of someone who might want to use you.

Edge every moment you have. Wherever and whenever you can. From the moment you wake till you fall asleep.

Never cum

Find ways to make every everyday activity and life something something that torments, teases, humiliates, degrades or makes you suffer.

Train your two primary holes. (Ass and throat)

Study porn for new ways to degrade or abuse yourself for the entertainment of others. And practice them.

Concentrate on always moving in ways that show off your body. Bend at the waist, arch your back, let them see your tits.

Edge more

Don’t fucking cum

Repeat the things like the following as often as possible to yourself, especially while edging: I will never be good enough, always try harder, I am a pathetic toy, my only worth is pleasing others. You get the idea.

1: Submit what you can afford. Tributes should come out of your Disposable Income.

2: Submit money that you have earned. If you are entirely living off of the State, family members or a friend, your Tribute can’t be financial. Most Students aren’t allowed to submit for this reason.

Daddy Says: It’s time we start networking. Reblog this image and add if you are a Dad or son if you are seeking one. If not, reblog without adding anything so others can help find each other through the notes.Spread a little hope and maybe even a little love this season.I’ll start: