A Domme wanting to try Subbing

brush her hair starting with smaller mats tip to root

give her something fresh to wear

buy her soft house slippers to protect her delicate feet from floor impacts when shes not in uniform

apply appropriate balms, oils or creams to her “skin” depending on how youve carved, painted, or decorated her material(s)

if she is a wind up doll, check up on her inner gearworks and give her a good tuning or at least use a can of compressed air

if she is a plush doll, give her seams a once over and make sure her fluff isnt too squished or compressed in any area

if she is a marionette, check the tension on her strings and replace ones that are weak or close to snapping

kiss every part of her you love

do her nails in the color that looks best on her

polish her faceplate of any marks or smudges

remind her how pleased you are by her service and/or stillness

give her a “massage.” she probably won’t feel it, but it’s an opportunity for you to find hairline cracks or other small spots that are hard to find with just your naked eye

It's okay though! You'll only press the button when I cum! So as long as I don't want to be impregnated, it should be fine, right? I wouldn't cum from something I didn't like, would I? Even with a vibrator pressed to my twitchy sensitive little clit. So it'll be fine if you just leave me there for an hour...

Wouldn't that be a fun experience? My pussy gushing and drooling over the thick dildo, trying so hard not to cum. As long I don't cum, it's fine. Just don't cum. You'd get to see my cute little focused expression and distressed moans as the vibrator makes my cunt clench, fluttering around the girth. My cervix suckling on the end of the dildo, perfectly ready to receive a flood of unknown sperm.

Well, of course I wouldn't be able to help it. The terror and arousal I'd feel when I cum, whole body spasming and hungry pussy squirting around the phallus filling me. I close my eyes in fear of the hot cum seconds from breeding me, surging into my fertile womb... But it doesn't come.

Phew... Luck was on my side this time.

The vibrator buzzes relentlessly and my pussy throbs. How much longer left?

sometimes, “doll” like comfort object, brought everywhere and snuggled with every night.

sometimes, “doll” like plaything, teasing and moving and using to see how many fun noises it can make.

sometimes, “doll” like collectible, dressed-up and kept pristine and still on a shelf.

sometimes, “doll” like servant, fulfilling your every need with no regard for my own desires.

sometimes, “doll” like sex toy, just a body for you to throw around and use how you like.

"Just let me see one breast"

"I just want to pinch one nipple"

"See doesn't that feel good, princess?"

"Here let me just see the other. See, it isn't that bad.

Doesn't it feel good?"

"Doesn't it feel good when I squeeze them?"

"I bet you're getting really wet. It's okay princess.

Totally normal.?

"No don't worry baby, I won't make you show me."

"How about I just rub you above your panties?"

"Are you sure baby? It will make me really happy if you let me just rub you down there for just a second."

"See, it's not bad! I hear you whimpering and moaning, I knew you'd like it."

"Oh fuck baby you're so wet. It's only fair that you let me feel the product of all my hard work."

Please princess, I promise I won't finger you. just want to feel how wet I made you. Just for a second.

"Fuck baby. I know I said I wouldn't pressure you but I'm so hard now. Maybe just the tip?"

"Oh goodgirl! You are sooo warm and wet inside!

Don't worry it's just the tip."

"Doesn't this feel good for you sweetheart? The tip is already inside, so a little more won't hurt right? I won't thrust/move inside you. Promised."

"Fuck! I'm all inside your tight little pussy! It's sooo wet and tight! Told you daddies cock would fit princess! Yes~ promised i'll pull out."

"Hmmhmmm~ i'm just moving inside you a little bit baby. It's just to make you feel good."

"Fuck- spread those cheeks baby! Daddy is going to fuck you nice and hard. I just really can't pull out yet!

But I promise i won't cum inside you."

I touch their ass and it flinchs. A jolt goes through it. Dolls don't move. The doll begins to leak a little as it realizes how difficult this is going to be.

Of course, I inspect its genitals next, I stroke and rub and play with the cute little parts... Watching closely for a reason...it lets out a faint moan but I let it slide.... The doll is pleased with itself.

A caress of the stomach and soon enough I'm groping the tits of my cute little doll... Soon enough I'll move along and the doll will have passed another te- I twist the nipples and a moan of pain and pleasure shoots out, followed by another wave as the doll reals from the shock.

Once the doll recovers I move to the lips... I slowly press a finger into the mouth and feel the warm sensation of the interior of the doll~

Well, yes, that's true, but it's leaving out two very important things. For one, the feeling of the ropes or chains or whatever the specific method is can be very pleasant for a doll, for the same reason many enjoy wearing collars or specific outfits, like maid dresses. Sure, you could achieve the result through words alone, but that's missing a whole dimension of it. Also, bondage is always (always) time consuming, so spending time on your doll is a great way to affirm and deepen your bonds.

I’m so glad you asked! Let me list off what I’ve got for you:

Books I personally recommend:

- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

If you’re having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. They’ll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and aren’t into.

- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra Where this book really shines isn’t actually in helping you “mindfuck” people, it’s in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. It’s a great answer to the question “how do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?”

- Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isn’t a better book on the subject. It’s written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phrase “if the Master doesn’t want it, it isn’t service” will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.

- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali This one’s high on my reading list; I’ve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.

- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I haven’t personally read much of her work, but she’s a well known sex educator and great at what she does. She’s known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.

- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you don’t need that, it’s no good. Just look through this worksheet’s wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of the “how do you want to feel?” section.

Books I can kind of recommend:

- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino This book is weird. There’s a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of what’s written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long. But there’s some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldn’t have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesn’t “enjoy.”

- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shades bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Don’t read this if you don’t already know what you’re doing.

- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera I love this book. Great book. Very focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you can’t read something and pick out what is and isn’t for you, don’t bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.