lemondrop & melonball

attraction regardless of gender DOES NOT mean

not having a preference

not caring what someone looks like or only caring about someones personality or ~soul~ or whatever

being willing to date literally anyone

being “gender blind” (gross)

hearts not parts (gross)

attraction regardless of gender DOES mean

literally being attracted to someone regardless of their gender

attraction is not action. I can be romantically and physically attracted to a man, but maybe for whatever reason I don’t want to date a man, so I don’t act on my attraction to him. maybe that attraction will fade after I realize I don’t want to date him, or maybe it won’t. none of that goes against the fact that I am attracted to men.

also i’m not talking about being able to find people of any gender aesthetically pleasing, anyone can do that.

a bisexual person with a preference and a bisexual person with no preference both experience attraction regardless of gender. if you are bi you experience attraction regardless of gender.