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daoming si ::: nervous as FUCK. doesn’t know what the hell to do at first but he’s gonna go to his friends and family, freaking tf out over it. well, first brag about him getting the most expensive ring for his precious person and then scream when he realize he gotta propose. they would have to calm him down and persuade him to propose to you in the first place because he will back out. not because he doesn’t love you anymore, he thinks he isn’t good enough for you and his doubts will come in quick. he may start acting strange and asking questions or say random things.

examples: “do you promise to love me forever?”, “you know i love you, right?”

si will eventually take you out to dinner (help from ximen and meizuo, of course with lei adding to some of it) and will propose to you in front of everyone. after this, he will automatically start calling you his wife/husband. kinda wants to have a wedding immediately just so y’all can get straight to the honeymoon-

ximen yan ::: damn homie, how long is it gonna take for you to pull the ring out? he would’ve already brought the ring ahead of time, when he realizes you’re the one. he just neglects to finally ask you the question and the boys will question him on it (since they found out he brought it). again, mans kinda got trust issues and they sort of come to play here when he finally sees he is taking too long.

he will think, “what if they found someone else?”. he would take you out for dinner as well but i doubt he would propose in front of everyone. maybe somewhere quiet and when you two are alone because he’s gonna want to have a deep conversation with you to lead up to what he’s doing. after he finally proposes, he would probably explain why he took so long to do it and you need to give him comfort afterwards. he doubts himself whether you see it or not.

feng meizuo ::: EXCITED! he’s gonna be so cute about it and never will stop talking about it. he is so in love with you and wants to show you that. will bring ximen to the ring shopping only since it would be early in the morning and most likely, si and lei are sleep. meizuo will be picky over the wedding ring because he wants the best for you— the whole reason why ximen is there is solely because of that. he will propose at an amusement park. after all the rides and the food, there is where the question will pop up.

have you seen one of those creative proposals? something like that because this boy is extra and i can see him going all out. you would be shocked (i hope in happiness) and wonder what?? when?? how?? why?? and then suddenly, he has this gorgeous ring out and now tears are everywhere for the both of you. definitely will go home and be showered with cuddles. lots of talk about the wedding too.

huaze lei ::: i can see him being the calmest one. like, he’s nervous deep down and freaking out so much as well but he doesn’t wanna show that. the other members would be concerned but not surprised. every questioned asked about it, you will earn a shrug. he wants his proposal to be secret... like the way it’s done because he wants everyone to be surprised. nobody would know when he proposes because he is that good at keeping it secret.

now i can see him as being cute and recording him proposing to you. i think he would propose at a picnic date??? he seems like such a cute picnic boyfriend and i cant stop thinking about that concept. it would be around the time the sun is setting so it’ll look really beautiful when he does it. he will be extra flirty on the date like way more than he normally is and you’re kinda like.... is he okay?? you dont mind— but you cant help but wonder. and he’s just so chill and flirty, not giving out one hint. he would put the wedding box somewhere subtle like maybe give you the box and when you open it, there is nothing but when you look at him, he is on one knee with the ring in his hand. doesn’t that sound cute??? CAUSE IT IS!!

sorry i didn’t see this ahead of time but here you go! now, this question sort of stung me a bit because i dont know if you meant what would their reaction be to sex on the first date like a suggestion to them or if you have sex with them on the first date but i’ll actually do two parts for you so dw!! also i did not go over this yet so sorry for incompletion or mistakes.

daoming si - if you ask about sex on the first date, this man might be too flustered to speak. i know, this doesn’t sound like the grumpy and cold daoming si that you all know and love but it’s true. sure, he might make some sexual jokes on the date but he doesn’t think about actual doing it with you yet. would he be all for it? it depends. he would probably only go as far as making out with you but i feel like he would have some limits before going straight there. honestly though, out of all f4 members, i could see him having sex with you on the first date the second most.

ximen yan - here is the first most guy. now, this man does have some trust issues and you may know that so maybe you’re like huh???? but i feel like he would take a while before going on a first date with you so honestly you might already know each other a bit more and the first date is kind of where he puts a test on you. he might play a game and do some sort of “let’s see if you know me” type thing and ask questions. he might even say something remotely sexual because he seems like the type to ask you if he is a top or bottom. of course, you didn’t know how to answer that so he would hit you with the “you wanna find out?” and that’s how that starts.

feng meizuo - poor baby. you scared him with the question and now he looks traumatized. of course there is some moments where it can lead to something sexual but it usually doesn’t and you are both fine with that. meizuo thinks sex is some sort of special thing. we all know that meizuo probably isn’t a virgin but i feel like out of f4, he could be the one who is most likely to wait a while. he might wait to have sex if you two end up getting married, i dont think he is ready for that on the first date.

huaze lei — oh boy. now he’s getting cocky, thanks a lot. huaze lei is a bit shy on the topic but once he thinks about it more, he is now a bit teasing. he will say things like - “you want me to have my way with you already on the first date?” - LIKE SIR. excuse me?!?!?! shut up. if you two continue the little conversation, it will turn into something more but it depends on what is going on. he has big duality so you won’t know how he will react to sex on the first date. he can also react like - “huh? you want to do it?” - and you’re like dumbfounded because he’s staring at you like you have three heads.

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ximen and si — these two are so confident. they will not shy away from telling you if they’re horny or not, if they wanted to, they would say it in a loud ass tone that would probably wake you up. okay, maybe over-exaggerating just a bit but they will wake you up as carefully as possible. in this scenario, it’s either you two fuck or they take care of it themselves. you have to give a straightforward answer (mainly to si) but they probably wouldn’t take “maybe” for an answer if you’re being a tease. if you become needy too and you tease them, they are just gonna leave you high and dry. would they do foreplay? depends how needy they are, they might just rush into fucking you. who knows? these two are slightly unpredictable. also they will probably go rough on you, unless it was something you didn’t want. ++ a bit of a bonus, si would be a little bit shy at first if it’s his first time waking you up for sex, like he doesn’t know how to approach it to you but as soon as you guys get the hang of doing it, he won’t be as shy.

meizuo, lei — okay finally we are onto the boys who actually care whether you get sleep or not. you may actually have to be the one to ask if they want to do it or not because these two wouldn’t want to wake you up from your beauty sleep. they might go into the bathroom or take care of it right next to you. (i can see lei doing this the most and i’m freaking out over it??????) they would probably fail taking care of it right next to you because they are really vocal so one loud moan and now you’re awake. they will, of course, be apologetic about it if you get grumpy but they will make it up to you. these two will go soft and slow since it’s most likely late at night and they dont want things to go too fast. i can see these two going to sleep immediately afterwards because they are now all of a sudden tired.