An asexual sideblog

I had an annoying interaction so this is your friendly reminder that the A in LGBTQIA+ does not stand for ally, it stands for aspec people.

The best part about being asexual is knowing that you will never be honeypotted. I often picture myself as a mark in a James Bond movie who has information or something and Daniel Craig saunters up in his sexiest tux to seduce me and I’m just like “No thank you” no matter what he does and then he has an existential crisis and walks away in a daze then sends in Moneypenny cause maybe I just like women and I’m like “hey girl, no thanks” and send her away as well and they just never get the information. I am an immovable plot piece without even knowing it. Sorry James but I defy the tropes of your genre.

I have seen all 12000 notifications on this post and MUST ASK why my fellow aces are out here exposing our weakness to pasta and garlic bread???

once again, I'm asking you all to please acknowledge the gray spectrums of aromanticism and asexuality. the concept of attraction is so subjective and complex that it can't exist on a black and white area only, a- and allo- aren't the only ways you can experience attraction. acknowledge the gray!

[Plain text: Sex Repulsion is not the same thing as, or an excuse for, Sex Negativity. /End plain text.]

Being asexual is that everyone on planet earth is just some guy

You know how you feel looking at some random guy you passed in the grocery store? That’s everyone on earth to me

Every time one of my friends intensely thirsts after someone they show me a picture and I’m like yeah that’s a human being alright.

Yeah I can aesthetically appreciate some folks but like. Idk what all the *gestures to everything* is about. I like men but not in whatever way *gestures to everything* that is.

reblog if you fully and intentionally are referring to aspec people as well when you use the word queer to refer to the community

my partner once said, "if you have to explain your sexuality to straight people, you're probably queer"

Being a sex-positive personally-sex-repulsed ace is weird cuz like reading about sex? Awesome. Writing about sex? Not much more intolerable than writing about anything else. Sex is good. Sex is normal. Sex is only as important as you let/want it to be. Kinks are natural expressions of sexuality. Sexual purity is a scam. Bodies are nothing to be ashamed of. Sex work is no more exploitative than any other kind of labor. If you touch me I will throw up on you.

Reblogging for pride month

HAVE THE BEST PRIDE MONTH!

Happy Pride to the Aces!

u can’t have sex w me i Am completely pixelated down there