Pathetic Diapered Jaluks

If you’re not a natural dom, mummy, or daddy you’ve likely been introduced to DD by your partner’s diaper interest. You’re probably worried about the impact of DD on your relationship if you’ll ever grow to enjoy it (it might even be a complete turn-off) and feel out of your depth in how to engage with DD. If this sounds right please read on.

First please don’t feel like you’re alone in this, we’d say that about half of all now active DD dom partners started by being introduced to DD by their partner and grew into their position slowly.

The key thing you need to decide on is if you’re fully committed to your partner. Getting into DD can be hard at first and will require work. If you’re not confident in your relationship this might prove to be too much. If however you really do want to try to make it work, it’s very much possible to go from someone uninterested in DD to actively enjoying playing your part in it. The benefits section of this website goes into more details but you can expect to build an extremely strong relationship once DD is introduced.

If they’re ABDL you need to remember their interest in diapers is not going to go away. They probably feel a lot of shame about it (completely unwarranted as there is nothing bad about ABDL) and DD will provide you a framework to include it positivity into your relationship. It will help them accept who they are, improve their lives, and provide them with fulfillment without shame. Doing this for a partner is an incredible gift and definitely something you can use to your advantage to ask for other changes to improve your life together (more chores, your own kinks, more relationship commitment, etc).

For yourself taking it slowly, but with a commitment to building up your involvement is the path we’d recommend and have seen work time and again. Because of this, you’ll probably not want to start your partner on the stricter levels of DD but we recommend starting at about regular DD level.

It’s likely your partner wants DD so initially, your only involvement can be to enforce their wearing and hold them to account. Decide what days they will be wearing and then make sure they are, if they’re not tell them they need to go put one on. Don’t discuss it, just tell them, your authority will be enough. This is an area some people struggle with as they think “how can I  force them to wear and use diapers” but remember they want or have agreed to wear and just need that push when sometimes it feels inconvenient or they feel ashamed.

Once you’re enforcing their wearing and use of diapers, try to get more involved in checking and changing. First, start with easy diaper changes such as a morning/evening one after a shower which is just putting them in a new fresh diaper. Then move up to doing some wet diaper changes. Our biggest advice here is to take your time, be loving and make sure to wipe thoroughly.

Checking diapers can feel like a big responsibility so ask them to come to you when they think they need a change. You don’t need to do the change yourself but this does two things; first, it increases their dependence on you, and second, you get to learn about the signs of a diaper wet enough to warrant a change. Unlike baby diapers which you may have experience with, high-quality adult diapers can and should be worn until significantly used so you’ll want to see that diaper sagging and wet across a large area.

Try to normalize their diaper wearing in your conversations and interactions. Tease them about needing diapers when you see they’re wet, call them your baby boy/girl, and touch their diaper when hugging them. You and they should be aware they're in diapers and have to use them, try not to hide it from yourself. Around the house have them wear clothing that doesn’t hide their diapered state; onesies, pj’s, or just a t-shirt are great for this. 

You should also take a more active role in buying their diapers, and make them shop for them with you online. Pick out some of your favorite designs for them or get them to buy other elements such as an adult baby bottle and pacifier.

You’re now enforcing diaper wearing, doing some checks and changes, and acknowledging it as part of your life together which is a great start! It’s now time to get used to another key part of DD which is messing. Messy changes are something you’ll probably want to avoid for a while and although we don’t encourage it, it can be something you always make your partner take care of. 

But you do need to get used to your partner in a messy diaper and get over any disgusted feelings you might have from this. For partners new to DD we highly recommend you start your partner on internal deodorant tablets as this will massively reduce the smell and make it much easier for you (and them). Then comes crossing the mental block you might have, to which the cure normally is just a matter of exposure and getting used to it. Some good ways to do this are:

make your partner mess their diaper in the morning (either naturally or forced with a suppository) and don’t let them change for at least an hour. In this time cuddle or spoon them as normal or watch a show in bed, anything normal really.

check their messy diapers by patting the back of it, and get used to the idea that they need to use their diapers for everything.

don’t allow them to change out of messy diapers straight away, maybe start a rule that they must stay in it for at least 1 or 2 hours before you’ll permit a change. This will help you and them get used to it and don’t worry about rashes as long as you’re using powder and rash prevention cream.

tease them about their messy diapers and try to find the humor in a fully grown adult pooing themselves.

Soon the idea of them messing themselves and being around you while in a messy diaper will move from disgusting to normal. A good majority actually end up enjoying seeing their partner like this.

The other key part of DD is that it extends beyond your house, they should be wearing and using diapers in public. The biggest worry you’ll both have is being discovered but this is extremely unlikely. Most long-term DD couples in diapers 24/7 have managed to avoid even friends/family realizing one of them is in diapers, so a member of the public detecting it is near zero. Even if they do, they’ll assume it’s medical and no questions will be asked. In the exceptionally rare event, someone did mention it just say it’s a short-term medical problem and leave it at that.

In public wearing a plain onesie is recommended as this prevents the diaper from ever being exposed and gives confidence to your partner wearing diapers. Then like messing you both just need to get used to it. Make sure some wearing days you spend the majority of the time out of the house, do day trips, and eat out as normal. Initially, it’s fine for the diaper to just be used for wetting as most people can hold a bm until they get home anyway.

Make sure you subtly mention their diapers while out in public. Discrete questions can include “Will you need to change when we get home”, “how full are you”, “how’s my baby holding up”, etc. An occasional bum squeeze or tap won't raise any eyebrows but will remind the both of you they’re diapered.

At this stage, you might be a few months in DD but you should now be forcing them to wear and use diapers, checking and changing them more often, and used to being with them in messy diapers and in public.

This might be enough but you should try to take a few more steps to become more involved in DD and hopefully also enjoy it more. Try to discover the areas you enjoy, maybe you like teasing them, or how dotting they become when wearing or needing a change, or the new control you have.

Start adding some more DD elements:

Get involved in picking out their clothes and dress them in ABDL style onesies etc

Give them their evening drink in a baby bottle. Cuddling while you hold a bottle for them can be a very intimate and loving experience.

On days where you’re both not working (e.g. a Saturday) don’t let them ask for a diaper change and instead check and change them yourself.

Try a 24/7 week where the toilet is completely out of bounds. Alternatively have a 24/7 diapered vacation.

Baby them more, hold their hand when crossing roads, sweat talk to them, and ask embarrassing questions at home if they’ve used their diaper, etc

Use punishments more regularly and push both of your comfort zones.

Oh man, where do I start with this one? lol

Baby Slaves:

Sold off to some random owner, completely indifferent to their plight, and eventually forced into their role as a submissive, obedient Baby Slave, no matter how much they despise it.

Sold back to their friends, and treated with zero respect in their role.

Depending on the character, having them be cucked by a [former] lover, since they're not getting ANY action stuck in their diapers~

Taking away their name, especially when they're bought by someone. Owner deciding they don't need one anymore~

Reciting. I love when a Baby Slave has to recite some humiliating speech and embarrass themselves, just to show how conditioned and trained they've become, despite their frustration.

Maintenance punishments: punished multiple times a day, for no reason other than to remind them of what happens IF they're naughty, and to remind them of their proper place~

Prison:

Diapered gals forced into harsh and unforgiving prison, tied up tight in strict bondage 24/7, no hope of escape whatsoever~

Being used and abused by corrupt guards/staff, no say in any of the treatment they get.

Other:

Diaper Maids. Forced to do a myriad of chores and humiliating tasks, all while thickly diapered.

Earning diaper changes. Having to maintain good behavior, or bargain for a diaper change, usually before bed time. Or seeing if their caretaker/owner deems them worthy of one.

Trapped into tight, form-fitting containers. Usually for being shipped or kidnapped and transported away~

Bare-bottom spankings, where the diaper is yanked down and cupping their red, bruised cheeks~

Each and every picture is of you.

You toddling around a park in shortalls that bulge suspiciously at the waist.

You strapped in a high chair, face, hands and bib covered in beige mush.

You on a rocking horse, dressed in nothing but a onesie and socks.

You laying on your stomach, a stupid grin hidden behind a large pacifier, with nothing but a large, brown-stained diaper to hide your shame.

Panic starts to set in.

"I don't remember these. I never took these. I never did... this..."

Two large, strong, too cool hands wrap themselves over your shoulder as a deep, feminine voice whispers in your ear.

"You haven't yet," The voice purrs, "But soon..."

🥕 Loads of veggies for nutrition

💧 Diuretics to keep them peeing.

🌾 Extra Fibre to help fill those diapers in the back.

😴 Sedatives to get them ready for naptime.

💪 Muscle relaxers to keep them weak.

In all sorts of fun combinations !

All of the jars have cute labels to help the grownups know what they'll do

Nappy Nap- (diuretics + sedatives for sleep wetting )

Wiggly Worm- (Aphrodisiacs+ Muscle Relaxers, to encourage diaper humping)

Drooly Dummy- (THC + mouth numbing, to keep intelligent speech away)

Fudge Factory- (bulk fibre and laxative for optimal diaper filling)

Hypnosis Helper- (Psychedelics and THC, to help those hypno sessions stick)

Toddler Topple- (Muscle Relaxers and Balance inhibitors, to keep them crawling)

Paw at your diaper all you want princess, that's the closets you'll get to being able to touch your princess parts again!

It's cute how the more you paw, the more frustrated you get.

I'm sure that little pink cage of yours isn't helping.

Because adults don't need to listen to a baby's opinion.

"Pink or Blue sweetie?" *Mmmph* "Hmm, pink it is!"

"Do you want to take a nap?" *Mmmph* "Ok, it's naptime then"

"That looks like a full diaper, do you want a change?" *Mmmph* "Well I guess you can wait a little longer..."

ActiveUps by Discrete-Wear

A package of adult pull-ups found tucked away in the corners of old gymnasiums and sports apparel stores. Blowing off the dust on the crinkly plastic packaging reveals them to be incontinence wear for active individuals. They emphasize the breathability and discretion of the product to an unnecessary level, the branding repeating “wear on the go!” at least a dozen times.

There’s an image of a model on the front holding a baseball bat ready to swing. Strangely he’s wearing nothing to cover his underwear, opting instead for just a pair of the pull-ups which are, upon inspection, way too childish for any self respecting adult to consider seriously wearing. They have cutesy decals of sports items with drawn-on faces and a similarly clad cartoon mascot in the middle of the crotch.

The twist is that they’re not designed for discretion whatsoever. Pulling up the leg cuffs snugly around your waist makes a small, almost unnoticeable change in the wearer. Your awareness of the pull-up’s presence on your body dissipates immediately. You have no capacity to understand that your waistband is peeking out, or that you’re just on the verge of leaking. You don’t exactly call attention to the fact, sure. But that doesn’t stop you from undressing in the locker room down to just your saggy afternoon pull-ups on full display to everyone while you’re absolutely clueless to the humiliating situation you’re in. That is, until you slide them down and the magic dissipates just as fast, leaving you a blushing mess.

The Hero’s Curse

This one is something of legend. Due to its nature, stories of its power can only be told from those who have witnessed it, not held subject to it. The myth says that only those with true intentions and pure hearts are shown access to it, its location obscured by a harrowing journey across several continents. The item in question sits alone on a golden altar, deep in a forest still untouched by most all. An inscription on the golden surface reads, “for those who wish to go back.”

Long ago there existed a powerful relic. The item itself is, you guessed it, a diaper. It’s appearance varies, but it’s usually similar to an oversized pair of pampers or huggies, with a design matching the particular interests of the brave adventurer chosen to wield it. Once donned, the padding empowers your intelligence and strength to inhuman levels. You can do graduate physics in your head and lift a car with one hand.

This comes at a steep cost, a burden that only the artifact’s chosen can shoulder. You are, in every way that counts, reduced back to the bodily capabilities of an infant. You’re constantly clad in childish clothing like pajamas and overalls. Your potty training is reduced to basics permanently. A small backpack with Elmo’s face is attached to you at all times, its contents of changing supplies and gigantic baby diapers refilling themselves from nothing.

You slur your well-read words as if you’re just learning them and toddle around awkwardly before delivering your devastating blows. You deftly duck a killing hit from an adversary and take the short moment squatting as an excuse to push into your pants. You have to tug on the king’s robe as he presents you an award for bravery because you desperately need a change from someone who can handle it. And yet, stories will be still be told for ages of you and your strength and cunning (albeit with maybe a few details missing).

Adaptive-Fit Formal Garb

A small formal wear shop sits in the very back of certain outlet malls, usually ones far past their prime. Its small confines are bright and lively, featuring all sorts of apparel in many fashionable brands. There’s never anyone working there, and a large sign in the center of the shop always reads, “Closing. Take what you need,” in hastily scribbled sharpie. Anyone in their right mind would jump at the opportunity for clothing like this at the low-low price of free, and that’s exactly what the store is counting on.

The clothing’s spell seems simple at first. You realize halfway through the night, whether you’re attending business dinner or fancy date, that you need to use the restroom an uncharacteristic amount. You’re squirming in your seat as you excuse yourself, plopping down on the seat just in the nick of time. This pattern continues, your every potty-break becoming more and more desperate until finally you have a lapse in control. You dribble just a bit of urine into your pants right as you’re undoing your garments. You swear under your breath, careful not to disturb the next stall over.

After cleaning up to the best of your ability you sulk towards the stall and begin washing your hands, your eyes widening in shock as you look at your reflection. You’re no longer dressed to the nines and ready-to-impress. No, your fancy leather or delicate fabric has been replaced under your nose by the most laughably infantile outfit possible.

I want to be walking along when suddenly I'm grabbed, stuffed in the back of a van, and knocked out.

When I come to, I'm blindfolded naked and cuffed down on a changing table with mittens locked on my hands and a pacigag locked in my mouth. I feel a super thick diaper being taped on me before spiked crawl booties are put on my feet and I'm uncuffed and carried to a playpen.

The blindfold gets taken off and my hands cuffed in front of me as I'm told to play with my toys and watch TV which is set to cocomelon videos. After a while I get a bottle of formula and laxatives, then after I wet and mess I'm cuffed down in a crib for the night.

Sometimes I'm taken out in a stroller with my used diaper on full display so everyone can see what a big baby I am.