Destiny

YAAAAASSSSSS NY KNICKS!!! 🙌🏾🏀

It doesn’t matter Z wore her wedding ring and bring the drink Tom made for her to a party, but it matter what anon think they know? Make that make sense please. We see not even 1% of their life. Who would still wear their ring or drink something their ex made? Who break up or divorce every two or three weeks? What kinda of relationship is this. I bet you anything guys hate to date that type of girls who get mad at the littlest thing in life which anon seems to be.

There are so many Hollywood couples who don’t post about each other, and NO ONE says they are broken up, not into each other anymore, or any of these negative things. Tom and Z are not the teens and early twenty something’s they were when the fist met. They are grown, more weary of social media, and genuinely building a life together that we don’t get to see. They clearly schedule their time off together, and apart to see family and friends in ways that work for them. They grew up on different continents, not parts of town, so it takes commitment and communication to make sure they all still get time with each other and family. They have many job commitments that we don’t see until they hit screens and magazine covers. They keep things private for a reason, and people need to stop projecting how they see a relationship, when they don’t have the circumstances of T and Z. They are never coming back to social media in the way people can’t let go of, it’s just a fact.

Aah I remember when Tom was called controlling and abusive because Z was spending her down time in Kingston. "She's not allowed to have friends" "He gets to go on boys trips amd she's stuck at home" they said

A genuine question: if another Hollywood couple were seen enjoying their lives with their respective friends in different countries, after weeks without being seen together, would we still think they were together? 🤔 Because I really think it's healthy for a couple to have their time apart, but I also find it strange that they don't show ANYTHING to their partner in any way. Okay, they didn't need to spend Tom's birthday together, but not even a silly post or story to wish him a happy birthday while they're apart? They used to do that. Their relationship has become totally commercial; he only posts to promote her work, and she doesn't even show up on social media for that. 💀

I don’t think with all due respect to your anon, to play into what they consider normal for relationships is off. Especially celebrities with busy schedules. My dad worked away from us growing up and my parents went 2-3 weeks without seeing each other and they are still married almost 30 years later. It’s too much assumption and not enough humility on a lot of fans part. It’s not our job to comfort their anxieties or normalizing wester expectations of a relationship onto two people who exist on a whole other level of privacy, gaze, and income. The expectation that what we don’t see means we don’t know is such a modernize way of putting value on social media to prove legitimacy and it’s harmful because people are now expected to perform due to demand to prove their love or labor? No thanks.

Lol not anon marking the calender about how long tz see each other. These are the same people BTW who kept calling tz codependent because they were always with one another

This parasocial stuff is going to reach a point where these “fans” will demand that Tom and Z have to have sex in front of them to prove their love 🤪