Iβm giving up on men because
1. The fact that they all assume theyβre experts in everything
2. The fact that they all assume theyβre smarter than me immediately
3. The fact that they allow and use slurs to divide women like Karen, Pick Me, Terf, The Main Character, SWERF, prude, slut bitch
4. The only slur they have is incel which relies on the premise that theyβre entitled to sex
5. Moms are expected to be perfect and if she makes a mistake sheβs a bad mom. Dads are considered perfect despite their mistakes and even being a poor parent
6. They think sex is a service
7. They cannot have a magic sexual moral barrier that divides children from teens from women. I refuse to believe it. And the media sexualizes kids and infantilizes female sexuality⦠so what now?
8. That porn is so normalized and teen is a category and yet we canβt check a manβs porn viewing history before allowing them to coach, treat, or be alone with vulnerable people.
9. That some will and can and do have sex with corpses. That deadness is sexualized in fashion photography as arousing
10. That choking has become normalized in porn
11. That we know porn becomes increasingly more extreme through algorithm and capitalism
12. That they hide behind plausible deniability and think we are too stupid to see it - like the devils advocate position
13. That they convince themselves their plausible deniability is a moral standard
14. That even the normal married ones with little girls for kids are shitty
15. That they think their pleasure overrides the civil rights of a person
16. That they believe consent magically changes abuse into kink
17. That they donβt even know what misogyny is
18. That they think misandry is somehow comparable
19. That they think my hurting their feelings or making them feel uncomfortable is a violent act. That pointing out violence makes me the violent one.
20. That they defend Johnny Depp
21. That theyβre afraid of false accusations
22. That they defend the reputations of men they havenβt met more than the reality of the women who report them lmao
23. They donβt take care of themselves physically
24. They can choose to be civilized but use animal evo psychology to defend subhuman actions
25. They believe that womenβs sexuality is an economy for them
26. They created religion to usurp creative power from women
27. They convinced other men that humans came from a manβs rib, from a patriarchal god, when literally no man has NOT come through and from a woman.
28. They have sexualized every aspect of womenβs existence including pain and crying
29. Theyβve convinced women that empowerment is a feeling and not a change in power position
30. They blame their antisocial loneliness epidemic on us
31. The tried to use the Love Languages on us
32. They created psychiatry as a way to at least in part control women just as they created medicine to control and destroy midwives
33. They place the locus of responsibility outside themselves which makes them perpetual victims
34. They created purity culture
35. They created porn culture
36. They buy and use and masturbate to trafficked and vulnerable women and it doesnβt matter to them
37. They corner me in the workplace
38. They are always looking at us - I want to not be perceived sexually at all
39. They use women for all of their emotional dumping and we arenβt certified to handle it
40. They resent our happiness (shaming it)
41. We had to create laws to keep them from marrying and having sex with kids. Like, everywhere. We havenβt even succeeded globally
42. They hold women in power to an entirely separate standard than men
43. Theyβre lazy
44. They can solve complex problems and be incentive and self-improving at work, but are seemingly really incapable of doing this for relationships
45. They wonβt see something unless it directly impacts them personally
46. They are emotionally unintelligent
47. They are violent
48. They are wilfully ignorant of the constant threat of sexual violence women face
49. They are making and using technology to get past consent
50. They believe women have a use value
51. Theyβre lying when they say they canβt show emotions : art, culture, music, etc belie this. And this is aside from the fact that we acknowledge their pride, nationalism, anger, boorishness, sulkishness, entitlement, jealousy, etc. these are emotions too.
52. They use power to get or pressure or coerce sex
53. They donβt mentor women professionally unless theyβre sexually attracted to them physically
54. Theyβre bad and aggressive drivers
55. Theyβre predatory and some donβt know it ???????
56. They play dumb
57. They owe us reparations and refuse to even consider this - we were left out of Das Kapital
58. They try to turn their wives into their mothers
59. They moderate men and women differently in social media spaces
60. We canβt trust them as soldiers or peace corps
61. We canβt trust them alone with kids period - who do we tell kids to go to if theyβre lost?!!
62. That theyβve turned violence into sex βbody countβ βfuck the shit out of youβ
63. We canβt be honest with them - we have to tiptoe around them
64. Iβm pissed more men arenβt speaking out about the obvious loss of civil rights of women globally - what the hell! It makes me believe that they kinda want it to happen (plausible deniability of course) because like itβs not gonna hurt them right?
65. At any given time I could pull up incidents where instead of intervening while a woman is being assaulted, the assault is filmed by other men. The reverse simply doesnβt happen.
66. They love borrowed authority
67. I hate them because when they ask βwhat do you want me to do about it?β And you say the most slacktivist thing, they wonβt even do that. Theyβll do NOTHING.
68. Because the most unsafe place for a woman in the world is the home
69. Because a woman is killed by an intimate partner globally every 11 minutes
70. Because the number one cause of death for pregnant women in the states is murder
71. Because they believe their morals are their best intentions. Itβs like they all think theyβre brave but heβs anyone done anything brave ?
72. They use weaponized incompetence to control people and be lazy
73. They believe sexism is benevolence
74. Because someone taught them that itβs the thought that counts and it almost never is the thought that counts
75. That gang rape is a thing
76. Because only a handful of men have most of the global wealth
77. They move goalposts: you can say what your experience is but theyβll discount it as one. You can say itβs others that have experienced the same thing and theyβll discount it as over represented.
78. Thereβs no acceptable way to be really angry with them, and express that, as a woman
79. They feel comfortable making comments about womenβs physical appearance, touching us without our consent and bank on us not rocking the boat.
80. They refuse to believe in the wage gap
81. We could have child care as being mandated but because women are primary childcare givers, we donβt have this.
82. Medicine was only tested on both genders recently because it was too difficult to do apparently
83. Our medical issues arenβt taken seriously
84. Mass shooters are almost exclusively men
85. Because they moan about suicide rates and forget to mention all the women and kids and sometimes strangers that suicidal men take with them
86. They believe theyβre entitled to sex - through payment guilt or force
87. They rarely care about what girls think unless they have a daughter
88. Cultures abort girl babies and before they just exposed them to the elements. As a result thereβs India and China and the Middle East Hong Kong, South Korea, Taiwan Vietnam etc there are more men than women
89. They donβt stop female genital mutilation. And they could if they wanted to.
90. More than 100 million women are missing - the shortfall of the number of women in the world we would expect in the absence of sex discrimination
91. They desire us to be dependent on them. Independence terrifies them.
92. They let women leave the workforce during the pandemic.
93. They see male history, male writing, male law as standard and they arenβt. Theyβd freak out if the USA had 9 woman Supreme Court justices
94. They are more sexist than even racist
95. Male over female Domination is the first and most primal form of oppression
96. Prostitution is the first form of trafficking not the worlds oldest profession
97. They can compartmentalize the pain of others - especially if it doesnβt impact them or their family (their own private kingdom)
98. Every man assumes heβs the king and grows up taught that they deserve to own things, people and property
99. They see women as girls all as potential sexual objects. Especially if theyβre mad.
100. They treat sex workers as a different class
101. Women donβt keep men as sex slaves
102. Theyβve made the law such that women cannot logistically perform murder itself defence
103. They say porn is free speech and that itβs not real when itβs convenient
104. Despite all of this: all of the proof and every experience logged and litigatedβ¦ that they donβt believe that women still are being oppressed under male supremacy.
105. Because someone has said itβs okay for drag queens to use βbitch serving cuntβ as an expression of femininity- and claim itβs not misogynistic
#misandry #misogyny #feminism #feminist
