Alex, truscum/transmedicalist, gay trans guy

1. he will clean the house, the public spaces, the common areas, the work spaces, and anywhere a woman may tread fully, with complete competence, so that it is hygienic and sanitary and nice to look at and pleasant to be around, without any expectation that a woman or any woman will assist

2. he will not consume any material classified as media that depicts women, fictional or real, in positions, sexual or not, of humiliation, torture, bodily harm, pain, torment, dehumanization, commodification, or death, made for the express purpose to tantalize, titillate, or arouse an audience of males, and he will not masturbate to the thought of it.

3. he will expect no children, no marriage, no servitude or attention from any woman, and will not expect any woman to forego her own health and safety to uplift his quest for legacy and import, nor will he expect her to prioritize him and his goals, his desires, or needs over her or another woman’s, rather he will when possible prioritize her own self-fullfilment and self-actualization without her asking.

4. he will not rape.

5. he will murder rapists. he will not punish a woman who murders a rapist, but indeed he will try his best to spare her the pain by murdering the rapist for her. when a woman murders a rapist, he will aid in uplifting the woman in the community in announcing and celebrating her good deed. he will expect no same approval and distinction, and will do his work quietly and unassuming. He will find no pleasure in the act and expect no reward, not least which from the rapist’s victims.

6. he will speak when spoken to by a woman. he will otherwise cast his eyes down, and make no act or sound to gain her attention. he will be thankful for any attention a woman deigns to give him, and he will not expect any attention further than she gives.

7. he will disown any god, all gods, and take no interest in the pursuit of godliness. the matters of theology will only be discussed, known, and understood by women, and he will have no desire taking part. he will not listen, he will not concern himself. he will not argue with a woman about the affairs of gods and spirituality.

8. he will labor graciously to provide a world that fosters the health and imagination of women, with no expectations for his own rewards.

9. he will not wage war, he will not fight in a war.

And if you love men so much why are you appropriating their struggles by calling yourself a gay man? You are not a homosexual male and never will be. In your own words you are a privileged vagina owner.

So you have decided you can decide others sexualities for them? you can tell someone that they’re wrong? Because what you’re saying is that you refuse to acknowledge my partner, you insist hes wrong about being gay. You insist that a man who like male sex traits, can’t possibly be gay because hes ok with male sex traits being on a body born with female sex traits. 

1. he will clean the house, the public spaces, the common areas, the work spaces, and anywhere a woman may tread fully, with complete competence, so that it is hygienic and sanitary and nice to look at and pleasant to be around, without any expectation that a woman or any woman will assist

2. he will not consume any material classified as media that depicts women, fictional or real, in positions, sexual or not, of humiliation, torture, bodily harm, pain, torment, dehumanization, commodification, or death, made for the express purpose to tantalize, titillate, or arouse an audience of males, and he will not masturbate to the thought of it.

3. he will expect no children, no marriage, no servitude or attention from any woman, and will not expect any woman to forego her own health and safety to uplift his quest for legacy and import, nor will he expect her to prioritize him and his goals, his desires, or needs over her or another woman’s, rather he will when possible prioritize her own self-fullfilment and self-actualization without her asking.

4. he will not rape.

5. he will murder rapists. he will not punish a woman who murders a rapist, but indeed he will try his best to spare her the pain by murdering the rapist for her. when a woman murders a rapist, he will aid in uplifting the woman in the community in announcing and celebrating her good deed. he will expect no same approval and distinction, and will do his work quietly and unassuming. He will find no pleasure in the act and expect no reward, not least which from the rapist’s victims.

6. he will speak when spoken to by a woman. he will otherwise cast his eyes down, and make no act or sound to gain her attention. he will be thankful for any attention a woman deigns to give him, and he will not expect any attention further than she gives.

7. he will disown any god, all gods, and take no interest in the pursuit of godliness. the matters of theology will only be discussed, known, and understood by women, and he will have no desire taking part. he will not listen, he will not concern himself. he will not argue with a woman about the affairs of gods and spirituality.

8. he will labor graciously to provide a world that fosters the health and imagination of women, with no expectations for his own rewards.

9. he will not wage war, he will not fight in a war.

krisabobbi @krisabobbi depends on the crime. don't forget laws are written by/for males' benefits. For ex: Women face harsher sentences for acting self defense. Men are barely ever charged/face any consequences for beating, raping &murdering women. Men get like 18 months for killing their wife but a woman will get 15 years for self defense killing her abusive husband. Your insistence to defend/identify w males who freely kill, rape, and maim women with impunity is MRA shit

Men are barely ever charged/face any consequences for beating, raping &murdering women.

Yet women face no charges for raping childeren.

our insistence to defend/identify w males who freely kill, rape, and maim women with impunity is MRA shit

Your insistance that I am defending or idenifying with rapist or murderers shows you have litterally zero reading comprehension. I never said that I identify with or am defending criminals. I never defended criminals. I only pointed out that there are rights women are given that men arn’t, and that there are things that women get off for that men wont. The mere mention of the consept of actually giving men rights that women have, was enough for you to claim I’m defending murderers. 

1. he will clean the house, the public spaces, the common areas, the work spaces, and anywhere a woman may tread fully, with complete competence, so that it is hygienic and sanitary and nice to look at and pleasant to be around, without any expectation that a woman or any woman will assist

2. he will not consume any material classified as media that depicts women, fictional or real, in positions, sexual or not, of humiliation, torture, bodily harm, pain, torment, dehumanization, commodification, or death, made for the express purpose to tantalize, titillate, or arouse an audience of males, and he will not masturbate to the thought of it.

3. he will expect no children, no marriage, no servitude or attention from any woman, and will not expect any woman to forego her own health and safety to uplift his quest for legacy and import, nor will he expect her to prioritize him and his goals, his desires, or needs over her or another woman’s, rather he will when possible prioritize her own self-fullfilment and self-actualization without her asking.

4. he will not rape.

5. he will murder rapists. he will not punish a woman who murders a rapist, but indeed he will try his best to spare her the pain by murdering the rapist for her. when a woman murders a rapist, he will aid in uplifting the woman in the community in announcing and celebrating her good deed. he will expect no same approval and distinction, and will do his work quietly and unassuming. He will find no pleasure in the act and expect no reward, not least which from the rapist’s victims.

6. he will speak when spoken to by a woman. he will otherwise cast his eyes down, and make no act or sound to gain her attention. he will be thankful for any attention a woman deigns to give him, and he will not expect any attention further than she gives.

7. he will disown any god, all gods, and take no interest in the pursuit of godliness. the matters of theology will only be discussed, known, and understood by women, and he will have no desire taking part. he will not listen, he will not concern himself. he will not argue with a woman about the affairs of gods and spirituality.

8. he will labor graciously to provide a world that fosters the health and imagination of women, with no expectations for his own rewards.

9. he will not wage war, he will not fight in a war.

1. he will clean the house, the public spaces, the common areas, the work spaces, and anywhere a woman may tread fully, with complete competence, so that it is hygienic and sanitary and nice to look at and pleasant to be around, without any expectation that a woman or any woman will assist

2. he will not consume any material classified as media that depicts women, fictional or real, in positions, sexual or not, of humiliation, torture, bodily harm, pain, torment, dehumanization, commodification, or death, made for the express purpose to tantalize, titillate, or arouse an audience of males, and he will not masturbate to the thought of it.

3. he will expect no children, no marriage, no servitude or attention from any woman, and will not expect any woman to forego her own health and safety to uplift his quest for legacy and import, nor will he expect her to prioritize him and his goals, his desires, or needs over her or another woman’s, rather he will when possible prioritize her own self-fullfilment and self-actualization without her asking.

4. he will not rape.

5. he will murder rapists. he will not punish a woman who murders a rapist, but indeed he will try his best to spare her the pain by murdering the rapist for her. when a woman murders a rapist, he will aid in uplifting the woman in the community in announcing and celebrating her good deed. he will expect no same approval and distinction, and will do his work quietly and unassuming. He will find no pleasure in the act and expect no reward, not least which from the rapist’s victims.

6. he will speak when spoken to by a woman. he will otherwise cast his eyes down, and make no act or sound to gain her attention. he will be thankful for any attention a woman deigns to give him, and he will not expect any attention further than she gives.

7. he will disown any god, all gods, and take no interest in the pursuit of godliness. the matters of theology will only be discussed, known, and understood by women, and he will have no desire taking part. he will not listen, he will not concern himself. he will not argue with a woman about the affairs of gods and spirituality.

8. he will labor graciously to provide a world that fosters the health and imagination of women, with no expectations for his own rewards.

9. he will not wage war, he will not fight in a war.

1. he will clean the house, the public spaces, the common areas, the work spaces, and anywhere a woman may tread fully, with complete competence, so that it is hygienic and sanitary and nice to look at and pleasant to be around, without any expectation that a woman or any woman will assist

2. he will not consume any material classified as media that depicts women, fictional or real, in positions, sexual or not, of humiliation, torture, bodily harm, pain, torment, dehumanization, commodification, or death, made for the express purpose to tantalize, titillate, or arouse an audience of males, and he will not masturbate to the thought of it.

3. he will expect no children, no marriage, no servitude or attention from any woman, and will not expect any woman to forego her own health and safety to uplift his quest for legacy and import, nor will he expect her to prioritize him and his goals, his desires, or needs over her or another woman’s, rather he will when possible prioritize her own self-fullfilment and self-actualization without her asking.

4. he will not rape.

5. he will murder rapists. he will not punish a woman who murders a rapist, but indeed he will try his best to spare her the pain by murdering the rapist for her. when a woman murders a rapist, he will aid in uplifting the woman in the community in announcing and celebrating her good deed. he will expect no same approval and distinction, and will do his work quietly and unassuming. He will find no pleasure in the act and expect no reward, not least which from the rapist’s victims.

6. he will speak when spoken to by a woman. he will otherwise cast his eyes down, and make no act or sound to gain her attention. he will be thankful for any attention a woman deigns to give him, and he will not expect any attention further than she gives.

7. he will disown any god, all gods, and take no interest in the pursuit of godliness. the matters of theology will only be discussed, known, and understood by women, and he will have no desire taking part. he will not listen, he will not concern himself. he will not argue with a woman about the affairs of gods and spirituality.

8. he will labor graciously to provide a world that fosters the health and imagination of women, with no expectations for his own rewards.

9. he will not wage war, he will not fight in a war.

actual lesbians, collectively:

Lesbians aren’t sucking trans women’s dicks. I think 99.9% of the time y’all have no idea what the hell you’re talking about

trans women actually going through their transition have low libido. They aren’t looking for someone to suck their dick, they just want a relationship. Believe it or not, loving someone isn’t 100% about sex.

Absolutely nothing, it means nothing to me because no one is looking but you.

You’re wasting your life analyzing people who don’t care about you or what you say or do.

Say anything you’d like to me, I dont deny that I was born as a female but im not going to go out of my way to let people in society know that. It’s none of there business. Just like I have no right to your body or your decisions you have no right to mine.

So you can keep talking and keep trying to get a rise out of me but it wont work.

Because I know who I am, I know what I am, and I’m not ashamed of myself nor am I afraid of you.

2. I’m not wasting my life, I’m defending myself from homophobia. That’s necessary for me to even live in some situations. How come you don’t know that? If you’re a gay man you know this.

3. I don’t want your body. Your body isn’t a gay man’s body. It never will be. That’s the whole reason for this ask. I apparently need to remind hetero/bisexuals that they aren’t gay and can’t appropriate our lives and experiences, claim to be us, etc.

2. You are on the offense here. You approached me first and asked me a question. How is someone who appears in society and lives in society as male being with another man any of your concern, how exactly does this affect you personally in any way? Are you saying someone is going to murder you because a transgender man across the country from you dared to call himself gay? Please explain.

3. Why do you need to? Explain.

4. You’re saying I should be ashamed of who I am, is that not exactly what some straight people do to gay men? Are you not legitimately doing exactly what people have done to gay men for centuries?

As for why I call myself a gay man?

It just makes sense.

I live in society as a man, I have the appearance of a man, and I am married to believe it or not a wonderful man.

You can continue trying to hurt me but all you’re being is hypocritical.

We all end up 6 ft under reguardless so why is it so important to you?

2. I’m on the offense I’m on the defense. You calling yourself a gay man negatively affects gay men by you simply being not gay and still marketing your experience as one of ours. I can’t have this. I can’t stand for it. It’s homophobic. It’s appalling. It’s unacceptable and if I don’t speak up against it nobody else is going to. You can’t call yourself gay if you’re not. You were never a young boy who realized you were attracted to other boys and never to girls. That is universal in the experience of all homosexual males. Did you date when you were young? Your relationships were just as straight then as a relationship between you and a male right now.

3. Because you homophobes always call yourselves gay. You won’t stop either, so I must remind you.

4. You should be ashamed of being a homophobe. Not of being trans.

What does it mean to live in society as a man? That is subjective. Looking like a man is subjective.

No one is trying to hurt you.

Just make sure you have other hobbies or you’ll fall into this pit where all you see is the politics and the pain that comes with it.

I’m sure you believe you are doing the right thing ((that’s completely subjective,))to me however it just looks like the spread of more hate, so I will continue to fight the good fight and I expect you to do your best too.

Good luck

Its sooo homophobic to say that gay guys can’t know they’re gay because you say so. I have a fiance, I am a trans man, hes attracted to me because of male sexual characteristics, he is not attracted to female sexual characteristics. A male, attracted to male sexed characteristics is gay, a gay males partner would thus also be gay. thats how language works. If your doing that thing manipulative people on tumblr do where you change the definition of a word for your own purpose then good thing tumblr gives me error pages trying to look at the post.