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A short while ago, I published a post on my thoughts of small, daily changes that men can make to overcome the toxic behaviors instilled in us by society, that are dangerous to women. This is an addition to that post, listing some activities that makes can make to help remove the toxic teachings from society once and for all. Let’s be the generations that sow the seeds of female supremacy and ensure females of the future are free of the worries that sadly, today’s women are plagued with, by starting to make changes now. 

- Politics - 

 - Where there is a female candidate that represents close to your views, vote her (even if she doesn’t represent the party you would normally vote for)

- When voting for a female candidate, don’t allow her looks or dress sense to put you off voting her. If she wears a dress and heels or a turtleneck and steel-toed boots it makes no odds if you’re truly a male ally (or respectable human male). Her ideas and policies are more important than her fashion sense. 

- If you’re married/long term relationship/have an older daughter who votes, and you can’t agree with any female candidates (for a better reason other than she’s female/not your usual party) consider ‘gifting’ your vote. I.e. voting for the same candidate your significant female other will vote for, as a gift to her. Telling her is optional.

 - Encourage daughters that women are essential to good government and never let her think politics is for men.

- If a local or national openly feminist or women’s party (like the WE party in the UK) consider joining as a member and attending campaign events.

 - Male allies are pro-choice, no ifs, buts or maybes. A woman and a woman alone should have the choice if she carries a child to term. Not her partner, not the state and not the church. 

- As above for same sex marriage. If you’re in a heterosexual marriage then all major decisions should be taken by the female partner.

- If attending an event for a pro-female party, be it a campaign or even a general meeting, assist in the tidy up at the end and don’t leave this to the women.

- Financial support -

- Set up a direct debit for a female focused charity or women’s shelter.

- Make ‘rescue bags’ and give them to homeless women (bags that contain some sanitary products, some facial wipes, toothpaste and a brush, clean, practical clothes and so on) 

- The next time you arrange or attend a fundraiser, consider the benefiting charity and if your focus be better placed on a female focused charity.

- Self learning - 

- Learn about and study feminism and especially 2nd wave feminism (Studying any feminism is a good start) 

- Take an interest in women’s suffrage. Learn the issues from a female perspective and see how you can improve them in any which way

- Take a women’s studies class 

- Study powerful and influential women from across the ages (Marie Curie, Amelia Earhart, Eva Perón, Boudicca and Emmeline Pankhurst to name a very few examples)

- Locker room talk/male banter -

- Call out your friends for this talk, point out how/why it’s unacceptable and not funny.

- Never let sons speak about women in derogatory ways.

- Don’t laugh at or tell jokes about sexual assault and/or rape.

- Point out inequality where you see it around your male peers, society has an excellent way of teaching men to avoid the issues in front of them, help open their eyes.

- In the family -

- Take your wife’s name/make your family Matrilineal.

- Have your salary paid to your wife’s account.

- If you’re in a loving and trusting enough relationship, sign all property into her name alone.

- Stand aside in all decisions that affect the family, holiday choices, kids schools, moving location etc…

- When assigning chores to children, give daughters more authority/responsibility. This will reinforce in both sons and daughters that leadership is not just for males.

- Teach or pay for tuition for your daughter to learn self defense.

- Don’t leave the seat up, and clean any splashes on the seat immediately.

- If you’ve been asked to do a household job, do it. Don’t put it off.

- If you have kids, and it makes financial sense, offer to be the stay-at-home parent. The woman of the house can make the the final call. 

- In the workplace -

- establish, enforce and respect women only work spaces

- If you have the authority, ensure management positions go only to women

- If you’re in a race to a promotion against a female colleague, pull out of that race

- Anything you can do to advance the careers of your female colleagues, do. 

Please consider making a News Years Resolution to support women’s authority (female domination).  Even if you don’t have a women dominating you, you can help by giving important women in your life power and promoting female domination in your everyday life.  Here are some suggestions:

Avoid Misbehavior

Don’t harass women, including not using the male gaze.

Don’t tell sexist jokes and stop others from doing so.

Don’t mansplain.  If you would assume a man is competent in a situation, assume the same for women.

Count up your misbehaviors each day and have 5 minutes of corner-time for each misbehavior. Set a timer, keep your hands on your head and your nose to the wall.  Think about what you have done and how you will do better tomorrow. Avoiding misbehavior is only halfway, you should also behave well:

Society & Politics

When voting, choose among the candidates that are women.  If only men are running, or only women, or you’re voting for propositions, vote how women significant women in your life are voting (e.g., spouse, mother, daughter)

Donate to causes and charities that specifically benefit women and girls, especially those that empower girls to be leaders.

Work & School

Whenever in a group, like team-work in the workplace or group projects at school, be sure you volunteer for the roles woman have traditionally held.  You should tidy up; you should be the secretary taking notes.  The most active roles should go to women.

If there is ever a choice for leader, choose, endorse, or vote for a women

Whenever possible, hire, promote, and give higher salaries to women.

If you have a boss or teacher who is a woman, be especially obedient to her and never challenge her authority.

If you are in a supervisory position (e.g., boss, teacher) be sure to compliment women on their performance and be constructive to help promote the success of the women you supervise.

Always be the one who straightens up, like cleaning out the refrigerator and making coffee, so women don’t end up having to.

Marriage & Dating

Volunteer to take your wife’s name or be sure girlfriends know you’ll switch names. You should be the one with a maiden name.

Your wife should make the financial decisions. Any salary you earn should be direct deposited into her bank account.  If she knows about your submissiveness, she can give you an allowance.  If not, spend money only as she would approve.

Be open to being a stay at home parent to support your wife’s career.

Any credit cards are in her name.  She can choose to add you as an authorized user.  Even if she does not know about your submissiveness, you can set up credit card alerts so she can monitor your spending easily.  If you spend too much, or make an odd inappropriate purchase, the alerts should go straight to her email/phone.

Cars and other assets should be in your wife’s name when possible.

You should do most of the housework, especially “women’s work.”

If you have children, be sure daughters are given chores that teach responsibility.

Your computer, laptop, and phone should have parental monitoring software and your wife or girlfriend should have the admin account(s).  If you wife or girlfriend knows about your submission, ask her to set it up.  If not, and it’s plausible (e.g., you have kids), set up parental monitoring but make her the admin with any automated messages.

Romance & Sexuality

Be romantic.  Try to be her ideal.  Give her small tokens of appreciation.  Say, “I love you” every day.

Your wife or girlfriend initiates anything sexual and you should fulfill her desires.

Never pay for sex or kink, including porn, prostitutes, or “findoms.” That money belongs to the women in your life or should be donated to charities to empower women.

I should have known that my self dedication to the service of my wife would be a bit of a bumpy transition. Progress is happening, but starting something new it is easy to expect instant mastery that never materializes.

Submission is a process and there is definitely a craft to it. That was the lesson of this week.

Domestic service can be exhausting when you already hold a full time job and are raising several children. I’ve never been so tired in my life to be perfectly honest. My wife thinks it’s kind of funny, she is used to this volume of work and is very skilled in the homemaking department.

I remain undetered, but extremely frustrated at my lack of skill at the house work. I suppose it will get easier with practice and I will soon be able to get it all done on my own without asking for help from my wife.

She deserves the best service I can provide.

On the bright side, I have rediscovered my love of food. Cooking quality meals from scratch has been the highlight of my service and I can tell that my wife is pleased with my cooking when I get it done. Unfortunately, there have been a few nights where she had to cook, mainly due to overtime at work. I will do what I can to make it up over the weekend.

Just a short 70 years ago, all fields were heavily male dominated, and men ran the world. However, after throwing off their restraints, women have become the new dominant sex, excelling and surpassing men in every field. In just 70 short years, it has become a woman's world, and it is leaving men feeling crushed. Take the case of a typical adult man in the 21st century. He is either a househusband or a low performing employee at work. If the man works in an office, his workplace is typically female dominated, and he takes orders from his female boss. He is married to a woman who earns far more money than him. When he goes to the gym or a fighting dojo, he is beat up by women who are better trained than him. In short, the typical man today is dominated by females in all aspects of his life. He realizes that he can only excel when there is no female competition.

Thus, men are confused about what to do, because they can no longer compete in today's female world. In this confusion they find solace and direction in bowing down and serving a strong woman. They are realizing that rather than competing with women, they desire to submit to them and be dominated by them. Rather than fighting back and trying to keep their male egos intact, men are increasingly choosing to lie prostrate at the feet of women and have their egos completely and permanently crushed under their heels.