SOME BASIC INFO AND BOUNDARIES
(updated October 2024)
About Me/Us
I'm a (nearly) 27 year old student in Canada currently taking a Medical Admin program. I've been aware of my dissociative disorder for nearly 9 years, but it took me a long time to fully accept the existence of other parts and the information they hold. Sometimes I still struggle with believing our trauma. We don't really have a system name anymore, so refer to us how you will; I suppose we should try to find something we'll all answer to if I'm dipping my toes back into CDD circles. I'm physically disabled and experience some cocktail of personality disorders and learning disabilities, all of which make it difficult to be consistent or connect with others.
Publicly, we are out as a lesbian (privately, it's significantly more complex) and live with our partner of 7 years, who is also dissociative. Collectively, they/he pronouns are the most accurate. We're white.
There isn't a single, dedicated host; rather we have multiple teams running different areas of our life. Some are more prominent and likely to post than others, who highly value privacy. Parts language is preferred but we also refer to other parts as alters, sometimes.
Some Boundaries
Please do not follow me if you are under 18. I won't follow back and may block minors, for my own comfort.
I experience DID through the lens of a trauma and dissociation disorder, so that's what my blog focuses on. If you don't identify with "traumagenic multiplicity", that's fine. Just be respectful of my experiences as a traumatized person and take what helps you.
Similarly, we won't be engaging with syscourse. It's stupid, pointless, and the same circular arguments since I first discovered online DID spaces almost a decade ago. I don't care.
Please do not give unsolicited advice or offer to DM us, If someone wants advice or messages, they will specifically ask for it. Invasive or rude asks/comments will be deleted and the sender blocked if necessary.


















