Pomo Liberalism is Not Sustainable

How come every guy says "I'm good at compartmentalizing things" instead of "I'm bad at dealing with uncomfortable emotions"?

Yesterday one of the school counselors told me repeatedly that I have “non-binary vibes”. This is after the first time I spoke to her when she asked me my pronouns and I said “I don’t care, it doesn’t matter to me what pronouns people used” and her response was “really?? I mean really? there isn’t one that one people use you feel all good inside?” (I thought you weren’t supposed to force people to reveal their pronouns?). I just want to make it clear that at this point in my life I am not gender non-conforming in my presence almost at all. I wear pants sometimes but I mostly wear skirts, my hair is long. The only thing that’s gnc about me (I GUESS) is that I am confident and I express my thoughts in a way that people describe as intelligent. That is IT. So, if you were wondering if  school counsellors are actually pushing in kids in one way or another, the answer is yes. 

I was recently talking to a male coworker who was explaining to me that he’s not into white girls because they’re “entitled” but that I seem different, I seem laid back. In my head the “cool girl” monologue from Gone Girl went through my head. He was saying “You’re a cool girl, I can tell. Don’t do anything to change my mind”. I hate it so much when men try to use misogyny to charm you. It’s disgusting.