daily solitaire enjoyer

"they should be in a healthy relationship with good communication" they should be obsessive freaks who stalk each other and have zero boundaries

unfortunately while having a fucked up childhood sometimes adds some spice to kink it does sometimes also shut you off from very common kink stuff

I cannot put into words how much I despise punishment as a concept in kink. I get that it's cathartic for some ppl and I'm so happy if ur one of them but I'm not the one to go to for that

no I'm not going to hit you for failing to live up to my expectations I'm not my mother

I had completely forgotten that this was abnormal until I was explaining it to my boyfriend, but one of the secrets to my killer deepthroating technique is that I hypnotically lower my heart rate while I have the cock in my throat so that I need less air and can keep it there longer.

I've also learned how to open up the back of my throat to get tiny gasps of air around the cock. that is more mechanical practice than anything. but being able to not freak out when your air supply is limited and you can feel your throat expanding is key. hypnosis has helped a ton w that too

and you know it needs be remarked that you need a good scene partner for this shit. someone who understands the contours of your body or can figure it out, as well as their own anatomy, and can help tilt your head this way in that until you get it all the way down because there are curves happening on both of your bodies and it will never be a linear process to get the cock all the way in. also a decent amount of discomfort tolerance or desire for extreme sensations is really beneficial in the person who is having their cock sucked. there is a lot that the throat can accommodate but your palate is only however wide it is and for some people who are on the girthy end of the spectrum there will be molar contact.

If you're struggling to find a New Year's resolution, consider learning hanky code and starting flagging

getting older is all about getting weirder and sexier and more perverted and gluttonous and intelligent and blunt and eloquent and spontaneous and skilled. i love that for us.

woman talking me through an orgasm in the tone of voice you’d use to talk to a dog…. yeah

I love being friends with prostitutes and transsexuals and artists and drug dealers and perverts and queers