Exhausted Panda

lol i hate today’s era of absolutely zero nuance takes. a friend didn’t behave exactly as you’d wanted them to? cut them off. a guy didn’t text you back instantly bc he has his own life? he’s just giving you breadcrumbs. doing something makes you uncomfortable? don’t do it anymore. someone isn’t instantly available for you? disinterest. just absolutist statements that often don’t apply to the multilayer situations of everyday life. like. stop. literally just stop it

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honey as a tea sweetener is so superior to sugar… the nectar of the gods and whatnot… when you add honey to tea it’s an ancient civilisations moment. when you add a sugar cube to tea it’s a british dude with a white curly wig moment. does anyone else get what i mean

"you don't owe anybody anything" has done irreparable damage to the minds of the youth

this ordeal of living is collaborative. we owe each other as much as we're able to give. come take ibuprofen with me.

Kafka was so right fuck this stupid baka life

He didn’t say that.

i don't actually give a fuck whether fatness is an indicator of health because health shouldn't indicate a moral high ground. being healthy isn't some pinnacle of human achievement, it's not morally superior. and being unhealthy isn't a moral failing and shouldn't mean you're less worthy of kindness, justice, and a good life. signed, a chronically ill person who will never be "healthy" at any weight.

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I think one of the most damaging ideologies towards children is the conviction that having children isn’t a calling but a moral obligation.

Not to be a crazy radical or anything, but children deserve to be deeply wanted by their parents.

I get frustrated by the notes of this post because I am specifically critiquing social systems, not parents’ personal decisions. I understand that there’s a desire to want to individualize the problem of unwanted children, however, this is a systematic issue. In fact, most problems facing children are systematic, not individual.