"I DO IT FOR THE GIRLS AND THE GAYS, THAT’S IT! THE QUEENS AND THE QUEERS, YEAH THEY LOVIN' MY SHIT!" - Queen Erotica ⊹ ₊ Read pinned for more deets hun ♡ ₊ ⊹
Do Not Interact: transmeds, fakeclaimers, exorsexists, anti-MOQAI, transmisogyny deniers, transandrophobia deniers, anti-self DX, anti-abortion, anti-agere, MDNI blogs, and anybody who uses the term cult 2 describe groups (radqueers, proshippers, antishippers, et cetera) that they don’t agree with. As a survivor, it is an ON SIGHT BLOCK.
Also, note: my blog is a side blog, meaning that all my likes & follows will come from the main blog owned by my host @adhd-fandom-and-gay since tumblr side blogs just cannot do that and have 2 use the main blog instead. Sorry luvs <3 I promise we are still mutuals even if I have 2 follow u from another blog.
(Blog intro!)
₊ ⊹ ˚ · ͟͟͞͞➳❥ „Oh, Dearest Diary...!“
Heyyyyy there! My name is HS—or Lexire, if you want—I’m just a girly thing who wants to chit-chat and gush over cute stuff all day! Y’know, typical stuff!
I’m actually an OCtive-ish from a system! We’re mostly traumagenic ourselves but I support all systems and I’m a firm believer in just being as kind as you can in this shitty world! We dunno if we're disordered with DID or OSDD or CDD bur, eh, plurality is plurality! We’re a minor bodily ^-^
Also I used to say that anti-endos are okay here but now that I think about it, please don’t follow me if you’re anti-endogenic, ’kay? I won’t stop any ol’ interaction, but yea :p
I’m a social butterfly who is such a drab at social stuff...I try to be better with it, but I got a few things to work out since our system has AVPD and a lot of mental issues that make us terrified of social interaction to some extent! I’m also a naturally affectionate person who uses petnames to refer to people and types hearts and XOXOs without needing it being a romantic thing. If it bothers you, feel free to tell me to stop and I’ll stop in a heartbeat!
...Oh. Right. AVPD. I avoid a ton of things.
My host has a blog! @adhd-fandom-and-gay! Go check it out maybe. Or stay here. I’m equally as cool as him, anyhow!! XD
⁀➴ ~ Identity ~ ₊ ⊹
Pronouns: Any!
Gender: I consider myself genderless and a honeybee trans fem! I might identify more with xenogenders, but I haven’t exactly chosen many specific ones! I think I’ll go on a li’l spree later... >~> I consider myself VERY fem in nature but I’m not sure how much of it is actually my gender.
Orientation: Despite pansexual probably describing my attraction the best, I choose to simply go by queer in terms of attraction! I am polyamorous, on the ace spectrum, and very queerplatonic! I have a queerplatonic hubby who is also one of my headmates and I value him so so much <3333 He’s a dark cacao fictive and he’s so sweet!
Terms: Fem, neutral, masc, and any terms at all are fine for me!
⁀➴ ~ About Me! ~ ₊ ⊹
Likes: Y2K + scenecore aesthetics, pink, character design, art, Ayesha Erotica, the Pussycat Dolls, Gwen Stefani, friends, 2000s + 2010s aesthetics, music, edits, Cookie Run Kingdom, sweets, trying new things, socialist lit, and cutesy stuff! I dunno how else to explain it, I simply like being a girls’ girl! I also like The Glass Scientists and other things but I keep forgetting...oh well!
Dislikes: Any oppressive garb, bad textures (chalk mostly), people making fun of my voice, people who just are not good people in general, math...not much else.
Boundaries: No sending graphic NSFW content to me, no general hate speech/harassment, no making harsh comments when I specifically have stated against them, no thinspo pics, and no prodding about details on my personal life. Also, please don't interact with my blog if you regularly reblog or post about graphic sexual topics involving more taboo subjects for my own comfort. I can’t handle this kind of stuff sometimes but know it’s nothing personal. Flirting is only OK if the person in question is not an adult and is using tone tags or else I will get uncomfortable or confused! >~>
Fav Headmates: Dark Cacao (currently inactive but he’s my hubby :3!), Capsaicin (currently inactive but she’s wifey!), Alisa (gal pal...also currently inactive...sobs.), Alex/Zester (BESTIE!), RoRo (I practically RAISED this girl! This is my BABY FAWN. /nsrs just being silly), Ang (sweetestheart ever. smol bean. can do no wrong. if you disagree I’m going to blast you into the fucking sun), Vil, Blondie, Adam (ADAM I AM MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU. QUEERPLATONICALLY. HE KNOWS THIS.), n more!
⁀➴ ~ Credits/Links ~ ₊ ⊹
Dividers: @/animatedglittergraphics-n-more, whose blog I totes recommend as its filled with TONS of useful aesthetic stuff like this!
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what part of disability activism do u wish queer people knew/engaged in more?
Gosh, so much -
I wish they would include real accessibility when creating their "safe spaces". Dismantling social structures needs to be accompanied by breaking down physical barriers - you can't preach acceptance and equality past a flight of stairs. You can't say "all are welcome" when not all can enter the space and move about it freely.
(It is truly so devastating to enter a space that is suppose to be all about love and acceptance, and still feel strange and unwelcome. So many queers in my area don't even know how to Talk about my disability, let alone accommodate for it)
I wish they would read up more on disabled history and teachings, because they'll discover a plethora of transferable knowledge. For many (white, abled) people, coming into their queerness or trans-ness is their first introduction to medical rights, cure vs. care, public access and visibility, marriage rights, anti-sterilization, and more. But these issues are at the core of the disabled experience, especially for those born disabled (and poc), and our knowledge is vast, developed, and transferable.
(If you are unfamiliar with "nothing about us without us", the crip crawl, the social model, or the curb cut effect, you've not even covered Disability 101)
I wish for kinky queers to learn from kinky disabled folks! They make up such a large portion of the kink community, as the culture allows for so many assistive devices, tools, suspension, unique positions, and breaking down the many ways people can have sex! There are so many sexual educators who are disabled, and they have such valuable knowledge!
I wish queer people could invest as much time and energy celebrating July (Disability Pride Month) as they do June (Queer Pride Month). Be outraged that we still can't get married without losing our medical coverage! Celebrate the disabled folks in your life! Spread awareness and boost disabled educators, activists, and artists!!
[PT: I wish they would include real accessibility when creating their "safe spaces". Dismantling social structures needs to be accompanied by breaking down physical barriers - you can't preach acceptance and equality past a flight of stairs. You can't say "all are welcome" when not all can enter the space and move about it freely.
(It is truly so devastating to enter a space that is suppose to be all about love and acceptance, and still feel strange and unwelcome. So many queers in my area don't even know how to Talk about my disability, let alone accommodate for it)
I wish they would read up more on disabled history and teachings, because they'll discover a plethora of transferable knowledge. For many (white, abled) people, coming into their queerness or trans-ness is their first introduction to medical rights, cure vs. care, public access and visibility, marriage rights, anti-sterilization, and more. But these issues are at the core of the disabled experience, especially for those born disabled (and poc), and our knowledge is vast, developed, and transferable.
(If you are unfamiliar with "nothing about us without us", the crip crawl, the social model, or the curb cut effect, you've not even covered Disability 101)
I wish for kinky queers to learn from kinky disabled folks! They make up such a large portion of the kink community, as the culture allows for so many assistive devices, tools, suspension, unique positions, and breaking down the many ways people can have sex! There are so many sexual educators who are disabled, and they have such valuable knowledge!
I wish queer people could invest as much time and energy celebrating July (Disability Pride Month) as they do June (Queer Pride Month). Be outraged that we still can't get married without losing our medical coverage! Celebrate the disabled folks in your life! Spread awareness and boost disabled educators, activists, and artists!! /end PT]
Oh hey it's that one cracker that tried to fight me on my post about how people will listen to trans poc until it's a transmasc poc cuz of how society views non white men and masculinity in general and tried to say I didn't know shit about intersectionality even though he's a white able bodied gay man lmao
To add on, fite-club in their other blog, Rittz (yes, same person) is extremely ableist. After I spoke up about this comment we had a long fight, not only did he decided to use a label I use to cope w my childhood trauma against me but when I pointed out I have brain damage due to physical abuse I went through as a child he used it against me as a way of saying "you have brain damage so therefore you are not allowed to speak about about anything at all and instead you should sit down and shut the fuck up"
(also tried to imply wealthiness makes one oppressed too all while STILL speaking up against 'transandronoir' as a term while being WHITE, keep in mind I am also a TMOC)
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