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make sure to include the pairing(s) you are wanting these questions to be answered for . these should work for poly ships as well as monogamous . feel free to edit these as you see fit .

💕 How did they both realize “oh wait, this is actually love”?

🌹 Who fell harder & who fell first?

🫂 What’s their favorite way to hold each other when words aren’t enough?

🔥 What’s the pettiest thing they’ve ever argued about?

💋 Who says “I love you” first & how?

🌙 Who’s the little spoon & who pretends they hate it but secretly loves it?

💍 Would they ever get married? What would the proposal look like?

🧸 Who still has the very first gift the other ever gave them?

😈 Who is more likely to start chaos “for the vine” & who films it?

🎶 What’s their song - the one that makes them both tear up / grin like idiots?

☕ Who’s the morning person & how do they lure the night owl out of bed?

🛡️ Who jumps in front of danger for the other without thinking?

😳 What’s the most embarrassing thing they’ve walked in on the other doing?

💔 What’s the one fight that almost ended them?

🩹 How do they comfort each other after nightmares?

👀 Who gets jealous more easily & how obvious are they about it?

🍳 Who cooks & who sets off the smoke alarm trying to help?

🧳 If they had to run away together tomorrow, where would they go?

😏 Who is bolder in public (hand-holding, kisses, etc.)?

🌧️ Who steals whose hoodies when it rains?

🎂 How do they celebrate each other’s birthdays?

🖤 What’s the darkest “we’ll never tell anyone” thing they’ve done together?

💌 Who leaves little love notes & where do they hide them?

🛌 Who hogs the blanket & who ends up freezing dramatically?

😴 Who falls asleep first & who watches them with heart-eyes?

🚪 Who’s more likely to say “we’re not leaving this room today”?

🌸 What nickname do they have for each other that would mortify them if others heard?

🎤 Who sings in the shower & who secretly records it for blackmail?

💞 How do they act when one of them is sick?

🩸 Who would literally kill for the other & who would help hide the body?

🌅 Do they go on sunrise / stargazing dates? Which one do they love more?

😤 Who apologizes first after a fight, even if they weren’t wrong?

🧩 What tiny habit of the other do they find unbearably adorable?

🎪 Who plans elaborate surprise dates & who just wants to stay in?

👑 In their relationship, who’s the king / queen & who’s the knight / advisor?

🌪️ What’s the most chaotic thing they’ve done together on pure impulse?

💤 Who has the weirdest sleep-talking lines that the other quotes constantly?

🧡 What color reminds each of them of the other?

🕰️ If they could go back in time, what moment would they relive together?

😶 Who’s terrified of saying “meet my parents” & why?

🍷 Who gets tipsy first & starts spilling embarrassing love confessions?

🌿 Do they want kids/pets/plants together? What do they name them?

🪞 Who takes longer getting ready & who hypes the other up in the mirror?

💥 What’s the biggest risk one of them took for the other that the partner didn’t find out about until much later?

🧣 Who steals the other’s scarf / gloves “on accident” every winter?

🌌 What’s their “we made it through hell” memory they’ll tell their grandkids?

😘 Who kisses the other first thing in the morning, morning breath & all?

🩰 Slow dancing in the kitchen at 3 a.m. - who starts it?

⚓ If one of them had to leave forever, what would they leave behind for the other?

☕ caramel macchiato – what’s their sweet side that most people don’t see?

🍵 matcha latte – what calms them down when they’re stressed?

🍫 caffè mocha – what’s their guilty pleasure?

🥤 pink drink – what’s their aesthetic / vibe?

☕ americano – what’s their brutally honest opinion about something that can go for hours?

🍮 vanilla latte – what’s something sweet about them?

🌿 chai latte – what’s something warm/spicy about their personality?

❄️ frappuccino – how do they act when they’re trying to impress someone?

🍯 honey citrus mint tea – how do they take care of themselves (or others) when sick?

☕ espresso shot – what gives them sudden bursts of energy or motivation?

🍪 cookies & cream frappuccino – what brings them comfort?

🍓 pink refresha – what’s something refreshing/new in their life?

🥛 flat white – what’s something simple but important about them?

🍂 pumpkin spice latte – what’s their biggest basic weakness and do they fall for it?

🌙 decaf – what do they do when they can’t sleep?

when did they realize they could trust each other with their lives?

what’s something they understand about the life they lead?

do they have their back in a way no one else could?

are there unspoken moments between them? how do they navigate that?

when did they become more than teammates?

favorite moments together?

a memory of shared sadness.

a memory of shared laughter.

what scares them more: losing their partner, or not being able to save them?

what’s something they’d never admit to anyone else, but would confide in their partner?

is there a line they’d never cross for them? would they blur lines? erase them completely?

their partner gets targeted: follow protocol or vengeance?

staying together for the assignment or choosing to split up?

did they ever have the responsibility to check if their partner was still breathing during an assignment?

did they ever have have a close call together?

do they notice anything different about them when they’re on the field?

trust blindly? yes or no?

would they follow orders or trust their partner’s word more?

what part of the job changes when their partner is with them?

reckless tendencies or protective tendencies?

do they handle distance well?

what would they carry with them that reminds them of their partner?

communication preferences? (Sporadic texts, phone calls, bracelet tracker,…)

how would they react if faced with the news the other wouldn’t come back?

would they be prepared?

what would haunt them the most?

would they forgive themselves?

what would they say at their grave?

how would they remember them?

❤️ (red heart) — a passion or interest of theirs

🧡 (orange heart) — something that makes them happy

💛 (yellow heart)— a favorite memory

💚 (green heart) — something they’d wish they could change

💙 (blue heart) — what comforts them

💜 (purple heart) — a secret talent

🖤 (black heart) — a difficult experience they’ve overcome

👜 - what’s in their bag? 

👠 - favourite pair of shoes

👗 - first date outfit

⛑ - what did they want to be when they were younger?

🍤 - favourite food

🍺 - do they like to drink?

🍵 - what are they like when ill?

🏐 - do they play any sports?

🥇 - have they ever won anything? 

🎟 - favourite movie

🎼 - can they play a musical instrument

🏖 - dream holiday

🛏 - are they a morning person?

🎉 - best birthday party

📅 - does their personality match their star sign?

🎨 tell you a skill or talent few know of that they have

👻 tell a fear they have

🔆 say one of their dreams/aspirations

🎁 show off something they have

🚿 mention one of their shower thoughts.

🎭 say how they are really feeling

📅 speak of a past experience

🐱 talk about their favorite animal/pet

🌙 tell about one of their recent dreams/nightmares

🍀 regale a time when luck was on their side

👪 speak about their thoughts and feelings about someone they know

🔪 talk about a time when they were hurt physically, mentally, or emotionally

👄 whisper a secret no one else knows

🎓 say one thing they are proud of

😳 say one thing they are ashamed of

I’m a big fan of these sorts of writing exercises for muses in the RP community but I can never find one right for me. So, I wrote one. This may not be right for everyone and certainly isn’t better or worse than any existing ones, just different. Below a cut for length. You don’t need to like or reblog to use but personally I would link or something not for me but for your fellow RPers who may also wish to use this format.

Each day has a word or phrase etc. and you are meant to write about your muse in that context however you are most comfortable. Each section includes additional suggestions to help get going but they’re all intended as ‘free write’ subjects so don’t feel bound by my suggestions. Also I picked 3 for my list number for  the few list questions, feel free to do more or less again don’t feel overly bound by anything here. Write as much or as little as suits you just have fun!

1- Are they easily guilted, shamed or embarrassed

‎2- Are there any misconceptions or stereotypes imposed on them that they struggle with or fight against

‎3- How much do they take others into consideration concerning their decisions, plans and future

‎4- Do they consider themselves special or average or below average

‎5- Would you say they tend to pick their battles or the opposite

‎6- Are there any parts of them that they abandoned as they grew older

‎7- What is their purpose that they believe in and work towards

‎8- How curious are they about the world around them, do they actively seek learning new things

‎9- Do they expect the worst from people or do they expect the best until proven otherwise

10- What do they depend on others for

‎11- How hard do they try to control the variables of their lives

‎12- Do they believe in what they can't see

‎13- Is there anything they're terrified of becoming or turning into

‎14- How aware are they at any given moment of their and other people's emotions

‎15- Is it hard for them to put their thoughts into words and to make others understand them

‎16- In which ways are they privileged (if any) and which ways are they disadvantaged (if any)

‎17- How much time do they spend thinking of their body and looking after it

‎18- How aware are they of their flaws and shortcomings and what's their reaction if someone points them out

‎19- Is there anything they dread to lose or say goodbye to

‎20- In their opinion what's the worst thing they've done to someone else and what's the worst thing that's ever been done to them

‎21- If their heart was a door would it be open a crack, half way, agape or constantly swinging

‎22- How far would they go to be of service to others

‎23- If they were given the opportunity to live in a utopia but on the condition that their stay there would not be more than five years and then they would return to their lives would they accept it

‎24- Are they 'too much' in any way

25- Anything they would do differently if given a second chance

26- Are their dreams for the future simple or complicated

1- When they are offered help how do they react

2- What teaching technique works best for them and what is their preferred technique for teaching others

3- Is there something they can't resist or someone they find it impossible to say no to

4- Do they worry about being a burden to others and if so where does this feeling come from

5- Do they feel they deserve love simply for existing or do they believe they have to offer something in return and If so what do they offer

6- When joy comes knocking on their door do they let it in immediately or do they hesitate to let it in

7- What would their ideal self look like and what is preventing them from achieving that ideal version of themselves

8- How do they usually react to someone disagreeing with their opinion

9- How do they deal with loss and what does their grief look like

10- What would make them lose respect for someone

11- Are they easy or hard to read

12- In moments of quiet where does their mind wander off to

13- Do they cope well with loneliness are they consumed by it or accustomed to it

14- How do they feel about growing old

15- In what ways did their childhood shape their personalities as adults

16- Are they generous or timid with their affection

17- If their worldviews were to be challenged how would they react? how stubborn would they be about it

‎18- What is their main/core guiding principle(s) that they use to navigate the world

‎19- Are they repressive sexually? do they carry any guilt when it comes to their sexuality

‎20- If things don't go their way for one reason or another do they generally fight back and try to change the outcome? or settle in and accept it

‎21- What occupies them the most: the past, present or the future

‎22- Do they prioritize stability and peace above all else or would they challenge the status quo if necessary

‎23- Are they fast on their feet or do they crumple under pressure? why do they react the way they do

‎24- What is a quality in them—whether negative or positive—they won't admit to or acknowledge

‎25- Generally do they see people as tools, connection or something to fear

• What kind of stories do they like to tell through dance?

• when did they start dancing?

• Why do they dance?

• What styles do they specialize in?

• Self taught or classically trained?

• Do they dance professionally, competitively, or just for fun?

• Are they confident or self-conscious on the dance floor?

• Do they prefer dancing alone or with others?

• What music do they dance to most often?

• What do they wear when they dance?

• How do they react to praise or criticism?

• What is dance trend they secretly enjoy?

• Have they ever fallen in love through dance?

• Who inspires them?

• Who’s their favorite person to dance with?

• Who’s their rival in dance?

1. What is/was their parents’ jobs?

2. What is their relationship with their parents like?

3. Do they respect their parents?

4. Do they share the same beliefs as their parents?

5. Did their parents raise them well?

6. Are their parents still alive?

7. Are there parents still together?

8. Do they still live with their parents?

9. How often do they see their parents?

10. How often do they talk to their parents?

11. Do the OC’s parents respect them?

12. Did their parents have good parents?

13. Do they have a favorite parent?

14. Do their parents support them financially?

15. Do their parents support their dreams?

🌶️ what’s the spiciest thing your character has ever eaten? how did they survive it?

🥵 can your character actually handle spice, or do they lie for pride reasons?

🍜 which country’s spicy cuisine would absolutely ruin them?

🌋 does your OC enjoy pain-spice or flavor-spice?

😈 would they prank someone with extra chili?

👤 who do they trust the least to cook spicy food for them?

🥘 what spicy dish would they defend with their life?

🥵 how do they act when the spice hits (stoic silence, dramatic suffering, or instant regret)?

🌍 what international spicy food do they want to try but haven’t yet?

🥛 milk, water, bread, or chaos…what do they reach for first?

😵 have they ever tapped out mid-meal?

🌶️🗣 would they enter a spicy food challenge like The Hot Ones? why or why not?

1- If they were asked what would they say their worst quality is and what is it actually

2- Is there a situation they went through that had a positive and a negative impact on them simultaneously

3- How lonely or isolated are they

4- Do they like to commit themselves to things/people or do they not and why is that

5- Has their relationship with crying changed over the years

6- How in control do they feel about themselves and their choices and their body

7- If they wanted something they don't have what means would they resort to in order to obtain it

8- What are the markings of success to them

9- What is the one thing they believe they are not meant for

10- What are the top three defining decisions of their life

11- What are their beliefs regarding suffering and what is their relationship with it

12- To what extent do they believe themselves and others are accountable to their own actions

13- What are their unhealthiest habits or tendencies

14- How often do they find themselves identifying with and relating to others

15- How do they look out or care for themselves whether in small or big ways

16- Do they believe that life is intentional and meaningful or chaotic and arbitrary

17- We all contain multitudes within, talk about an example of contradiction within them

18- What do they run towards and what do they run from

19- What type of people or mistakes do they believe are unforgivable

20- How early on did they have to start doing things for and by themselves

21- How easy would it be for them to deal with someone who has their same major flaws

22- If they ever found themselves living in conditions that make them miserable how much effort will they put into changing their position

23- How clear is the image they have of themselves and how would they react if it was questioned or challenged

24- How much of an influence do they have on others in their life and are they aware of the extent of it

25- Who in their life knows who they truly are

26- Is it easy for them to say 'no'

27- How far would they go to keep appearances

28- Do they have rigid expectations of their life and daily experiences and what would their reaction be to those expectations not being fulfilled

29- Are they the type who fills their schedule with as many activities as possible or would they rather spend their days ideally

30- Do they have fixed principles for what they consider moral and immoral to them or do they believe it depends on circumstances

31- Do they have anybody in their lives that they might consider an anti role model

32- If they were in an environment that demanded them to shrink would they collapse on themselves or would they fight back

33- Do they rather do things solo or do they prefer to have someone else with them and why is that

34- Are they usually able to recognize their emotions when they arise and know how to name or categorize them or not

35- Is there an aspect of their life that remains a mystery to them and how accepting are they of that

why? bc i’ve been dying with r76 lately

(this doesn’t have to be necessarily romance-oriented)

do they have a lot of arguments? if so, over what?

who apologizes first? in what way? is it hard for either of them to apologize?

which one has more insecurities? over what?

who gets more riled up? do they show their anger? 

how do they hide their pain when they’re upset? do they try to hide their pain?

who tries to make up first? does it work?

would they hate-fuck if they were mad at one another? if they had a falling out?

do they hold grudges? is it hard for them to let go/forgive each other?

is there something big that could potentially tear them apart if it was revealed? 

if something already happened to tear them apart, what would make them come back together? is it even possible?

what’s their favorite pass time when they’re upset?

who do they confide in when shit hits the fan (besides each other)?

is it hard for them to talk about their feelings openly with each other? if so, is there any way that can be resolved, even in the slightest?

who grieves more when the other is away?

who misses the other more, or really thinks about them more?

do either of them have a special item (an article of clothing, a necklace, a book) that they use when they miss the other? if so, what is it? what do they do with it (read, wear, look at, smell)?

who cries more? who gets more emotional in general?

do either of them have the other’s stuff lying around their house?

how about teasing? do they tease each other while in a fight (whether it be with themselves or just general teasing)?

do either of them have any vices?

what’s the thing they miss most about each other?

what’s their go-to breakup/angst song?

who’s more jealous?

who is the first to forgive?

what’s the one deal breaker for either of them (lack of communication, fear of commitment, etc)?

who would take longer to let go? do they ever really “let go”?

which is more afraid of confrontation?

who’s the first to distance themselves (if either)?

who’s more patient? is it hard to break that patience?

who’s the first to blame themselves? 

who’s more likely to do something out of spite?

who would be the first to say they hate the other? would they mean it?

who worries more?

what scent reminds them of the other?

do they have any regrets (regarding the other, or just in general)?

who’s quicker to walk away if a situation gets heated?

who is more prone to anger?

who cries more in an argument? do either of them cry?

does it take a lot for it to get to the point of yelling?

who sleeps on the couch? can either of them sleep without the other?

who’s more likely to protect the other?

if one of them gets injured, who worries more?

who would be more afraid of the other’s death/harm?

who ends up yelling first? are they always yelling when arguing, or do neither of them yell at all?

who would be more likely to save who? 

who stays up at night brooding?

who has more dreams/nightmares about the other?

who comforts who after a bad dream/event?

do they think about each other a lot? does it affect their performance/schoolwork?

🎇 = Does your character possess magic? How do they feel about it even if they don’t have it?

🗣️ = How does your character feel about Non-Human intelligent races? If they are one how are they treated?

⚔️ = What weapon does your character wield? Why did they choose it? If your character doesn’t fight, why?

👑 = If your character is part of the aristocracy how do they feel about their responsibility? If not how do they feel about their local governing body.

🤕 = Has your character obtained any unique or important injuries/scars, what are they and what are they from?

💼 = What does your character consider to be their ‘occupation’ how do they define it? Is it lucrative?

💧 = Has the type of world your character lives in claimed anyone they loved? How do they cope with it?

🏰 = Does your character feel any connection with the land/country they were born in, what sort of connection?

🔮 = Does your character buy into destinies, fate, or prophecies? Why or why not?

😡 = Is there something commonplace in their kingdom or world that your character absolutely despises?

🥊 = Has your character experienced war or conflict, directly or indirectly how did it effect them?

😱 = What does your character fear most in their world?

🐉 = Of the fantastical elements in their world what does your character actually find strange, or hard to believe?

😈 = Does your character believe in hard, definable good and evils?