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Understand that I have a life outside of Tumblr and can’t always response immediately. We could be talking and all of a sudden I stop responding it could mean many things. If you can’t be patient then don’t message me at all.

A very simple concept but very foreign to most men…

How do you bring that sexual goddess out of your woman? That sexy nasty slutty whore that you know she can be? Its really quite simple…

Step 1.

Understand that she does not belong to you and you need to worship the very ground she walks on. That yoni between her legs is the ultimate gif. You plant a seed and it brings for life. If you want her to give herself to you fully you must give of yourself.

Step 2.

Sex is mental. That’s right the biggest sex organ is in her mind. You have to learn how to stimulate her mentally before you even touch her. Teach her something. Whisper sweet. Nothings in her ear. Tell her what she means to you and how you appreciate her (even in casual FWB situations tell her you appreciate that ass). Find out her desires her dreams and goals. And then grip her mind spread her open and penetrate her. Slow stroke her mind till she’s a wet creamy mess because all she can think of is cumming on your dick… You know c you’re doing it right when she can’t take her eyes off you and she’s squirming in her chair rubbing her thighs together. That tight there gentleman is a mindgasm.

Step 3.

When you get her in the bedroom don’t rip off her clothes and start poking her cervix (there will be other times for that) no we are worshipping a sexual goddess and she will be treated as such. Run that woman a scalding hot bath with her favorite scented oils in it. When she’s done dry her off, lay her down, proceed to rub kiss and lick every single inch of her body but her yoni. And make mental notes fellas. Her body will let you know her hot spots you will need those for later. By the time you are done she will be a complete creamy mess and ready for almost whatever.

Step 4.

Cunnilingus. Fellas this right here makes or breaks us sexually. First things first don’t go in there aggressively. Kiss her thighs, suck on her labia, lick her clit softly and gauge her reactions. DO NOT listen to her moans. Listen to her body. Women don’t like to bruise our egos. If she is moaning but her body is not responding you don’t doing nothing. Every woman is different so you have to learn what she likes and give her what she wants not what you think cuz it worked with the last girl. Now you are to stay down there until she cums. Some will take a little longer than others but trust me the pay off will come 100 fold. If she’s multi orgasmic even better cuz then you can give her a few orgasms before you present the d.

Step 5.

By this time you have a sexual beast on your hands. She is ready for anything you throw at her. So this is s good time to ravage her body and take the spoils right? Nah bruh… Now is the time for you to give some of the most unselfish loving you ever gave. You are going to take her and please her body in every way you can. Remember I told you to keep a mental note of her hotspots hit those spots as you are stroking her. Because she is gonna realize that you are paying attention to her. The thought alone of a man giving unselfish dick and pays attention to their sexual needs will make most women cream on the spot. And men please learn to kegal cuz this is not a sprint it’s a marathon. Keep water by the bed cuz you bout to put in work. I suggest that you don’t use this time to beat up the pussy. Trust me a nice steady rhythm works just as well. YOU ARE NOT TO EVER CUM FIRST! She is to orgasm long hard and multiple times. This is not about you it’s about her. Only after you have completely satisfied her then you may orgasm yourself.

Step 6.

Aftercare. Fellas this separates boys from men. Get your girl a warm wet towel and clean her yoni up. Please wipe FRONT TO BACK or you will get cussed TF out. Compliment your woman. Cuddle and talk with her. If you did a really good job she may be knocked out. Make sure she comfortable.

Step 7.

Repeat steps 1 through 6 Everytime you guys have the time to. Be consistently good at fucking your girl. Because here’s where the reciprocation comes in. Everytime you repeat this cycle more of that sexual goddess will come out. You gone wake up one day with your dick down her throat while she twerking with a anal plug in her ass and she will be ready to go. But why? Because you planted seeds of trust, understanding, tolerance and endurance all of which every woman should feel with her man. Now every woman’s hard limits are different but you will she the full extent of their sexual prowess as you continue to open her sexual side up. You will also learn that pleasing your woman will ultimately please you as well. Because when you plant a seed in her garden it brings forth life.

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Okay, folks. So. Tumblr’s jumped the shark in a big way, and I’m not even just talking about indiscriminately blocking all “adult” content on a platform that IS, in fact, primarily 18+.

Many blogs, like the wonderful @blackkatmagic , that are not especially NSFW have vanished.

(And I for one LIKE being able to go to curated porn blogs run by actual people and have a chance of finding stuff to my taste, it was one of the things that kept me on this hellsite, but that’s another issue entirely.)

I know lots of people are talking about migrating, but none of us are sure to where yet. Pillowfort seems to be an option, some people are talking about Twitter. But for now, it’s a mess, and even if we knew where we were going, it’s often a huge process, and a lot of us have stuff on tumblr that ONLY exists there. One possible quick solution to save your blogs, both NSFW and personal, is to import it to WordPress. I found this solution through from frantic googling on how to save an entire blog, text posts an all. There are several apps for downloading all the pictures from a tumblr, (Plently for Windows, but only a few paid ones for mac, of which Tumbelog Picture Downloader is working for me so far) but this is the only solution I’ve seen so far that allows you to save EVERYTHING. I downloaded my NSFW blog in like 10 min. My regular blog, which is significantly larger, is in the process of importing, but I don’t anticipate any problems. I will, of course, update you if I have any.  

This tutorial I found worked really easily. http://quickguide (.) tumblr (.) com/post/39780378703/backing-up-your-tumblr-blog-to-wordpress

I put parenthesis around the .’s like we’re back in FF-Hell, just in case tumblr’s new thing about outgoing links kicks in. You know what to do.  To break it down, just in case:

 Sign up for a WordPress.com account at wordpress (.) com/start You’ll have to create an account, with your email, a username, and a password. They should send you a confirmation email immediately, check it, activate it, and you’re good to go. On the site, it will ask you for a site name. That page asks you a bunch of other information too, but you only have to fill out the site name.

Then you have to give your site a URL. If you’re lucky, your tumblr URL is still available, if not you’ll have to come up with another one, sorry.

It will tell you if that option is still available for free.

Then it will ask you to pick a plan. Free is really good enough, I swear.

Now you’re set up! You can import your tumblr! The only differences from the linked tutorial are that the Import button is now on the first level menu, not in tools.

Hit Import, then you have to follow the link for “other importers”  at the bottom, to find the option for Tumblr.

Then you’ll have to sign in with tumblr, using your normal tumblr credentials. You’ll be redirected there automatically. You’ll have to allow Wordpress permissions on your blog.

Then your blogs, including all your sideblogs, will show up in wordpress.

Hit import, wait a WHILE depending on the size of your blog, and you’re done!

ALSO!!

I made my NSFW blog private for now, since I don’t know WP’s policy on NSFW.

This means that to access it, someone has to have an account and request access. But hey, part of our problem on this hellsite has been people going places they aren’t wanted, so I don’t personally see this as a bad thing. They can send a request from the landing site on your blog, you get an email, click a link in the email, and PRESTO, they have access. To make it private, go to Settings > Reading > Site Visibility. Go back and check, it took me changing the setting twice for it to actually stick. tl;dr, you can import your entire blog to wordpress in just a few steps.  I’m going to tag the hell out of this, in no particular order. PLEASE reblog this and spread the word so people know it’s an option. If you’re having trouble, PM me, and I’m happy to help.

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Beyoncé - Speechless 

Drake feat. Lloyd - A Night Off

Electrik Red - Go Shawty

Sevyn Streeter - Come On Over 

J. Holiday - Bed

J. Holiday - Lights Go Out

Jamie Foxx - Do What It Do

Lloyd - Year of the lover 

Maxwell - This Woman’s Work

Twista - Wetter

Beyoncé - Naughty Girl

Miguel - Arch N’ Point

Ying Yang Twins - Pull My Hair

Missy Elliott - Pussycat

SWV featuring Foxy Brown - Release Some Tension

Usher - Trading Places 

T-Pain - Say It

Timbaland feat. Money - Fantasy

Usher - BedTime 

Beyoncé - Freakum Dress

Usher - Do It To Me

C-Ride feat. Pleasure P - Walk Different

Drake - Cece’s Interlude

D’Angelo - Untitled (How Does It Feel) 

Tink - HML

Plies feat. Pleasure P - Get You Wet 

Omarion - O

Andre 3000 - Spread

Twista feat. Trey Songz - Girl Tonite

Usher - Can U Handle It 

Pharrell Williams - Take It Off (Dim The Lights)

Robin Thicke - Sex Therapy

The Dream - Sweat It Out

Shlohmo & Jeremih - Dope

Shlohmo & Jeremih - Let It Go

Usher - Nice And Slow

The Roots feat. Musiq Soulchild - Break You Off

Trillville - Some Cut

Beyoncé - 1+1

Jeremih - Raindrops

Ginuwine - Pony

Drake Feat. James Fauntleroy - On My Way

Montell Jordan - get it on tonight

Khia - Lick Me Dry

The Pack - Make Me Cum

Aaliyah - Rock The Boat (jelani remix)

Beyoncé - Blow

Kanye West - I’m In It

Lil Wayne feat. Bobby Valentino - Mrs. Officer

Lady featuring K. Michelle - Scream

Jhené Aiko - Wait no more

Foxy Brown ft. Kelis - Candy

Ciara - Ciara To The Stage 

JS - Ice Cream

Lil Jon & The EastSide Boyz - Ooh Na Na Naa Naa

Lloyd - Feels So Right

Marques Houston - Naked

Ginuwine - So Anxious 

Outkast - Where Are My Panties Skit

Tweet featuring Missy Elliott - Turn da Lights Off

LL Cool J - Doin’ It 

Ciara - Bang It Up 

The Dream - Falsetto 

Pretty Ricky - Get A Little Closer

Chris Brown feat. Ludacris - Wet The Bed

Chris Brown feat. Teyana Taylor & Lonnie Bereal - Favor 

Pleasure P - Under

Janet Jackson - Anytime Anyplace

Sade - No Ordinary Love

Pretty Ricky - Grind With Me

Ne-yo - Sexy Love

Janet Jackson - Would You Mind

Maxwell - Til The Cops Come Knockin’

TLC - Red Light Special

Usher feat. Beyoncé & Lil Wayne - Love In This Club (part 2)

Tyrese - Signs Of Love Making

En Vogue - Don’t Let Go (Love)

Earth, Wind & Fire - Reasons

Ready For The World - Love You Down

Chris Brown - Glow In The Dark

The Weekend - What You Need (i hate him but this song goes awf)

Sade - The Sweetest Taboo 

Pretty Ricky - On The Hotline

112 feat. Lil Zane - Anywhere 

Ludacris Feat Raphael Saadiq - Splash Waterfalls (Whatever you want) Remix

Chris Brown - Take U Down

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1) people with erictle dysfunction and staying hard are not less of a “man” or “less important” or in any way should be emberassed regardless of age

2) performance anxiety doesn’t make you less than and just because you may need to get comfortable is not an issue and fuck anyone that made you feel differently

3) penis size is not a racial aspect and just because you’re from a racial group that has a penis size stereotype does not mean you’re less than if you don’t fit it

4) you’re more important and worth respect regardless of your penis size

Also, smaller guys, let me get you in on a little secret:

Us “bigger” dudes are just as jelous of small dicks as smaller guys are of big dicks.

I can hear the screaming, frothing at the mouth angry comments now “but big dicks are what everyone wants!!1!1”

No. It’s what everyone thinks they want because of porn.

You ever had to deal with hurting your partner because you’re too big? A fun night cut short because of one wrong twitch or thrust?

Blowjobs? HA! The only people who CAN do that are porn stars, and even then, in real life stretching a mucous membrane (like the throat) is REALLY painful. Don’t belive me? Try stretching out your nostril enough to get your thumb in there - hurts, eh? Big cock oral porn is SUPER painful for the actors unless they’re really, really carfull.

Anal is even more dangerous - because if you do tear something down there bad enough you can literally die. And unfortunately, there’s only so much lube can help - sometimes you really are just to big to do that.

There are work arounds - just not the kind you see in porn. Slightly smaller toys for partner preperation work and non-penitrative options! Which can still be great if you communicate and find solutions, but aren’t nearly as “glamorous” as the porn industry would have you believe.

I’m pan, and deal with the problem of being “bigger”, and I can safely say; while I still like the idea/fantasy of big dicks - average or smaller is better for real life sex, hands down.

As long as you’re not hurting your partner, there’s always fun ways to feel good! Weather your hung like a horse, a man, or an ape(tiny! Probably cute! Embrace the cute!) - there’s a good way to have sex for you.

But I mean

If you wanna live in a world where you think people dismiss you or people like you for your genitals and not your pessimistic negative energy and lack of a welcoming disposition, then you’re welcome to do so

But I mean

Coming onto a post where people are trying to feel better about themselves with your sour attitude and overal aura of self esteem issues is unnecessary

You want to think the world cares more about penis size then actual personality or any other physical trait, be my guest

Brandon . .

mmm , Brandon . Thick joint . enriched with the typa’ brown skin that will make any bitch with common decency do a double take in passing . Rough neck . But it was still inevitable he was gentle .

i ain’t know this nigga from a can of paint but I had already established where I wanted them LARGE hands to be . His conversation was mediocre . I wasn’t sure if it were his dimples that made me smile or the punchline to his semi tradition jokes . but that’s neither here nor there . I wanna fuck this nigga . who the hell am I kidding ? I want him to do some of the nastiest things imaginable to me . .