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âIf outside validation is your only source of nourishment, you will hunger for the rest of your life.â
â Unknown

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âDo yourself a favor and learn how to walk away. When a connection starts to fade, Learn how to let it go. When a person starts to mistreat you, learn how to move on.. to something and someone better. Donât waste your energy trying to force something that isnât meant to be.. Because the truth is.. for every one person who doesnât value you - there are tons more waiting to love you better. Do better.â
â Reyna Biddy
I think that sometimes itâs hard to let your heart just love openly. Because itâs naive. Itâs neglecting to look at the facts that youâre giving your heart to someone that doesnât know that they donât know how to take care of it. And I think thatâs one of the greatest travesties of love.
âOne of the hardest decisions youâll ever face in life is choosing whether to walk away or try harder.â
â Ziad K. Abdelnour
Did you know, you can quit your job,  you can leave university? You arenât legally required to have a degree, itâs a social pressure and expectation, not the law, and no one is holding a gun to your head. You can sell your house, you can give up your apartment, you can even sell your vehicle, and your things that are mostly unnecessary. You can see the world on a minimum wage salary, despite the persisting myth, you do not need a high paying job. You can leave your friends (if theyâre true friends theyâll forgive you, and youâll still be friends) and make new ones on the road. You can leave your family. You can depart from your hometown, your country, your culture, and everything you know. You can sacrifice. You can give up your $5.00 a cup morning coffee, you can give up air conditioning, frequent consumption of new products. You can give up eating out at restaurants and prepare affordable meals at home, and eat the leftovers too, instead of throwing them away. You can give up cable TV, Internet even. This list is endless. You can sacrifice climbing up in the hierarchy of careers. You can buck tradition and othersâ expectations of you.  You can triumph over your fears, by conquering your mind. You can take risks. And most of all, you can travel. You just donât want it enough. You want a degree or a well-paying job or to stay in your comfort zone more. This is fine, if itâs what your heart desires most, but please donât envy me and tell me you canât travel. Youâre not in a famine, in a desert, in a third world country, with five malnourished children to feed. You probably live in a first world country. You have a roof over your head, and food on your plate. You probably own luxuries like a cellphone and a computer. You can afford the $3.00 a night guest houses of India, the $0.10 fresh baked breakfasts of Morocco, because if you can afford to live in a first world country, you can certainly afford to travel in third world countries, you can probably even afford to travel in a first world country. So please say to me, âI want to travel, but other things are more important to me and Iâm putting them firstâ, not, âIâm dying to travel, but I canâtâ, because I have yet to have someone say they canât, who truly canât. You can, however, only live once, and for me, the enrichment of the soul that comes from seeing the world is worth more than a degree that could bring me in a bigger paycheck, or material wealth, or pleasing society. Of course, you must choose for yourself, follow your heartâs truest desires, but know that you can travel, youâre only making excuses for why you canât. And if it makes any difference, I have never met anyone who has quit their job, left school, given up their life at home, to see the world, and regretted it. None. Only people who have grown old and regretted never traveling, who have regretted focusing too much on money and superficial success, who have realized too late that there is so much more to living than this.
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On the nights his loneliness stings him harder than cheap liquor; he suddenly thinks of her. For he revels in the memory of her heart placed on his hands. As he tried to get drunk on other peopleâs skin. Yet all that regret still burns his chest. And now he realized that he once had the best. Since she loved his highs and lows. He thought about what he once held. He regrets leaving her. But the girl now loves somebody else, a boy who loved her for being herself.
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âMaybe Iâm just blood. Whatever thatâs for.â
â Alice Notley, from In The Pines: Poems; âHemostatic,â
âGivers need to set limits because takers seldom do.â
â Irma Kurtz
âI donât wait for moods. Youâll accomplish nothing if you do that. Your mind must know it has to get down to work.â
â Pearl S. Buck
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All suffering originates from craving, from attachment, from desire.
Edgar Allan Poe (via wordsnquotes)
Your 20âs are your âselfishâ years. Itâs a decade to immerse yourself in every single thing possible. Be selfish with your time, and all the aspects of youâŚTravel, explore, love a lot, love a little, and never touch the ground.
Kyoko Escamilla (via wordsnquotes)
There comes a point when you either embrace who and what you are, or condemn yourself to be miserable all your days. Other people will try to make you miserable; donât help them by doing the job yourself.
Laurell K. Hamilton (via wordsnquotes)
Itâs easy for someone to joke about scars if theyâve never been cut.
William Shakespeare, Romeo & Juliet (via wordsnquotes)
for a lot of us, it seems nearly impossible to find a balance between our grades and our health. iâve created a list of tips and resources for managing classwork as well as mental illness. i tried to be inclusive of depression and anxiety as well as other disorders like adhd and bipolar. (iâd like to be more inclusive of others, but i couldnât find a lot of resources and wasnât sure what would help aaaa)
please let me know if you have anything to add, and i hope this post can help you out in some way c:
while studying
create a routine, and do your best to stick to it. having a consistent schedule can be a struggle, especially when dealing with long days of class or difficulties with sleep. try something more open-ended and flexible if you canât manage specific times. (studying for an hour in the morning and before bed vs studying at 8 am and 10 pm)
start with your favourite subject. there are a lot of suggestions on how to start a study session (and they usually conflict it seems), but iâve found that this works best for me. your favourite subject may be easy or difficult, but by starting with it, you get in the groove of studying and wonât get burnt out as quickly, giving you more energy to do your other work.
donât take on more than what you can handle. if youâre feeling motivated, great! get as much done as you can! but on the bad days, just do what you can. there are times where it seems nearly impossible to get anything done, but still try to make the most out of each day and do what youâre able to so you donât fall far behind. do what you can, when you can. donât overwork yourself so much.
during class
take notes. for me, the easiest way to lose track during a class is if i donât write or doodle. even if the material doesnât seem important, write it down! it may be useful later, and itâll keep your mind from wandering during lecture. (that being said, donât always write things exactly as the teacher says; putting it into your own words can make it easier to remember and understand)
record lecture audio. if you canât copy everything down in time, or if for whatever reason you need to know something verbatim, then youâll have something to listen to again later.
take pics of what the instructor writes on the board. similar to the above tip, you can refer back to the pictures you took. just donât forget about them! write yourself a note or make an alarm on your phone to remind you that thereâs more material to review. donât be the kid who takes pictures during the whole lecture but never writes anything, that kidâs obnoxious and gets bad grades
stay focused. i fidget a lot with my hands and feet, especially during a long lecture or study session. i find that keeping my hand on my pen/pencil is the simplest way to keep my mind on track, but fidget toys may help you as well. most teachers and students are fine with it as long as itâs not too disruptive.
at home
keep track of medication. ngl i am suuuper forgetful when it comes to medication :â) if youâre forgetful too, leave yourself as many reminders as you can. set alarms, write notes, or have someone else keep you accountable if youâre living with a parent or roommate. having routine helps here as well, especially if you take meds multiple times a day.
communicate regularly with your doctor. if youâre living away from home, or just a busy student, it can be particularly difficult to make appointments. but you should still make an effort to email your doctor, therapist, etc. at least once a month, and more often if youâre currently changing or adjusting medications.
âcatching upâ on sleep is a myth. depriving yourself of sleep during the week and then sleeping in on the weekends wonât fix your sleep schedule, sadly. keep it consistent if you can. even if youâre staying up late and sleeping in, try to get at least 7-8 hours. whether itâs 12-8 am or 2-10 am, itâs a reasonable amount for getting through the day. sleeping too little can leave you tired and grumpy in the morning, but sleeping too much can also leave you groggy, sluggish, and unproductive for the rest of the day.
eat something healthy. okay, no one can eat healthy all the time, and i donât expect you to. i certainly donât expect myself to lol. but we can still find a healthy snack or meal to make a part of our lives. sometimes fruit is the best comfort food tbh. here are a few simple snacks that you could try, for studying or for whatever else. i personally enjoy anything with berries, especially yogurt parfait or oatmeal.
have a support system. it helps so much to have someone you can talk to when youâre not feeling well or in need of encouragement. it can be a friend, a parent, a sibling, your significant other, or even other members of the studyblr community! (if you donât have anyone to talk to, please talk to me!! i am here for you my friendo)
other stuff
community college by @universi-tea - if youâre worried about moving into dorms or away from home (or are simply unable to), i strongly encourage you to try out community college. itâs made schooling much more enjoyable and accessible for me and i think everyone should give it a chance. plus itâs waaay cheaper.
also, most (if not all) U.S. schools have a disability services department; this applies to both physical and mental illnesses. talking to them for the first time can be nerve-wracking, but in the long run itâs completely worth it. teachers and staff want to help you! but you have to help yourself a lil bit too. accommodations may include leniency about attendance and deadlines, or they may let you take exams on earlier or later dates with fewer students present. the flexibility with deadlines has saved my ass more than once tbh
things to do when things donât feel right by @affectionsuggestions - sometimes itâs okay to just do small things, and sometimes itâs okay to not do anything at all.
ways to start feeling again by @urbanthropologie - similar to above, but with a focus on mindfulness (helps with anxiety, dissociation, etc)
my mental illness tag - this has many other resources that are otherwise not listed in this post.
my printables tag! - printables are great for when youâre too tired or not sure how to write things out completely by hand. there are some planners and calendars as well as gratitude logs, habit trackers, etc.
i have tons of other tags listed here if you need anything more specific :>
thank you for reading! i hope you found some of these tips helpful. i believe in you!!

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I still love the people Iâve loved, even if I cross the street to avoid them.
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You are so brave and quiet I forget you are suffering.
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