Daddy’s Good Girl

Last night Daddy came home very late after his work meeting and I was having an off day…

Daddy: “What’s wrong baby?”

Me: “Not feeling well, Daddy”

Daddy: “Why didn’t you tell Daddy? What hurts?”

Me: “My tummy and my head and my back. I couldn’t focus today and I didn’t get any work done and I’m just frustrated because there’s still so much to do.” *nuzzles into chest and hides*

Daddy: *gently strokes my back and kisses the back of my head* “Sweetheart look at me, please.”

Me: “But Daddy- I have work to do.”

Daddy: “Not tonight. You are always working, you can take tonight off because you’re too little.”

Me: *whines* “I’m not feeling little!”

Daddy: *picks me up placing paci in my mouth and handing me blanky* “Who’s my cute little baby?”

Me: *pouts*

Daddy: *gently rocks and bounces me* “… You are! You’re my pretty baby and tonight you just need to be little and let me take care of you.”

Me: *squeezes Daddy tight* “I love you, Daddy”

Content warning - Kinky themes inbound!

Tinkle (pee) play was always one of my favourite games to play with my little girl. Of course, there’s so many neat games you can play within the kink even if you’re not so much into actual pee itself, which can be pretty icky even to the kinkiest of kinksters. This time I want to talk about the whole “Omorashi” side of it, or bathroom control, or perhaps, not peeing at all. Most other daddies I’ve encountered absolutely love a little bathroom control play and a lot of littles really enjoy it too. After all, it’s probably not since we were children, frustrating our teachers with our tiny bladders constantly interrupting class, that we were denied permission to go to the bathroom. There’s something just super cute about making your little girl ask permission to go potty, then, at least occasionally, denying that permission.The great thing about Ageplay is you can make almost any kink more interesting just with a spot of imagination and that’s certainly true here. Mix the kink up with some games and you’re set for some super fun times. Some of my favourites include:-

You can’t pee until - This works well in a little headspace I find. Again, this possibly goes back to school and being told that it was only a few minutes until break time and you had to wait until then. Maybe your little has a simple chore to do, like cleaning, homework, grocery shopping or whatever. Tell her she can’t go until the task is completed, that makes for no slacking (at least if accidents are to be avoided) and another way you can add a little ageplay magic to otherwise mundane activities. Isn’t ageplay just the best thing ever? Videogames and bathroom control - An example of the above, this works really well for daddies and daughters that like gaming. Claim that the game can’t be paused and you have to complete at least two more levels before permission to go to the bathroom is granted. Since you’re never sure how long this is going to take, it works great. You can also use this one if you’re in a distance relationship for a little fun. The no-pee timeout - A lot of little girls and daddies are into the whole bathroom control as punishment and will give no-pee timeouts, where the little is denied bathroom permissions for a set time. This didn’t really work in my previous relationship but there’s no reason it won’t work for you. Extra punishment might be required if an accident occurs, of course. Star charts - Having a secret star-chart you can mark down when accidents were avoided or not is a sure-fire way to make those butterflies flutter in your little girls tummy. Make sure there’s a little treat each month for her efforts, even if she doesn’t do that well!

Tips for littles

Daddy LOVES when you squirm, wiggle, cross your legs, whimper and do the potty dance. According to actual science, this doesn’t help at all with the need to go, but totally feel free to fake it or exaggerate it for extra good-girl points.

Daddy LOVES if you keep reminding him you need to go pee, or beg to be let go pee, especially if you can’t. Mix up the words, tell him you have to wee wee, pee pee, go potty, etc. Nag at him and give him your puppy dog eyes. Flap, have a proper mini tantrum every few minutes, if he’s into the fetish you will drive him nuts with this, in a good way usually!

Tips for daddies

Don’t always make it end in an accident! It’s far more fun if you know sometimes she’s going to make it but you can never be sure. Of course make sure you set boundaries you’re both comfortable with, encourage your little girl to be brave, but respect her limits too. Not everyone wants the embarrassment of needing to pee desperately in public, for example.

“Want something baby?”

Some good news, I’ve been talking to two developers now and got them working together, we just had a meeting with the guys behind an existing large (millions of users) site similar to Tumblr, with a vibrant and open-minded community, and more importantly, it has open-minded owners who believe in free speech. They think we can get something done here to rescue the whole community.

I’m not allowed to reveal the site name yet. I can tell you it’s mainstream, open to everyone, open-minded and welcoming. (It’s not WordPress or any site owned by Facebook or Twitter. It’s not Pillowfort, that’s in closed beta. It’s not Ello, that’s mainly for artists. It’s not kinkspace or fetlife, those are too specialist. It’s not jux, that seems to be closed. It’s not Soup, that seems still in development and too small.)

One of the reasons for delaying the announcement for next few days is they don’t want a “land grab” where people take the names of current popular Tumblr users over there (cyber squatting). So they are looking at ways for existing Tumblr users to keep the same names on the new site.

More info over the days to come.

The plan is, broadly:

1. By December 9th, announcement of the new site and how to secure your username there

2. By December 10th, an online tool for bloggers to copy their existing content to the new site automatically, with the same tags and captions.

3. Bloggers will need to copy their content across between December 10th and December 17th if they want to use the automatic tool.

4. My understanding is that after December 17th there will be no public access to any “flagged” posts on Tumblr, but the original poster will still be able to see the flagged post (for a short time at least). Therefore, the original poster may still be able to manually download a post to their own PC or phone, after December 17th, and manually upload it to the other site. But if you have lots of posts that will take a long time, it will be better to use the automatic tool before December 17th.

Please understand that these dates are approximate and may change for technical or other reasons.

There may be a few rough edges or not so perfect looking site design on the transfer tool. Everyone is doing their best. The main goal here is to help as many people as possible preserve access to their content, in the short space of time Tumblr has allowed us, and preserve as much as possible of the Tumblr community spirit somewhere new.

The new site will cater for photo, GIF, text and html posts. It will not offer video and audio posts, due to cost reasons - maybe in future, but for now you will need to preserve video and audio content yourself in some other place.

If your Tumblr blog has a mixture of original content and reblogs, or all reblogs, all of that can be copied over to the new site. Reblogs will become “your” original content if nobody else posted them yet, otherwise they will be shown as reblogs. The devs are looking at ways to preserve attribution of reblogs back to the original Tumblr poster, if that person also moves to the new site.

Important: your Likes cannot be copied from Tumblr to the new site. You will have to go find the same posts again on the new site, and like them afresh.

(Similarly, existing reblog comments, asks, messages and other user interaction on Tumblr cannot be copied to the new site - that’s just too much to do, in the short time available.)

If you want to preserve any of your existing Liked posts on Tumblr, you will need to either: (1) download the post to your own PC, or: (2A) reblog it now to your own Tumblr blog, and then (2B) use the automatic tool, before December 17th, to move your whole Tumblr blog across to the new site.

If you have Liked a lot of posts here on Tumblr, the gridllr.com webapp should be able to help you do steps 1 and 2A quickly, I mean download or reblog.

(Someone complained to me today about the appearance of Gridllr on a phone. It’s best to use Gridllr on a PC, Mac or Tablet with a large screen.)

If you have liked a post here on Tumblr and the original poster decides to delete it, or even to delete their entire blog, some time before December 17th, then that post will be permanently lost. So if you want to be sure to preserve any of your Liked posts, you should best download or reblog as soon as possible. If it’s reblogged to your own blog it is safe from deletion, at least for next few days.

dom: “use your words”