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Hahaha, never! And honestly, that's overall a good thing. I want my husband to be aroused and attentive for me. But of course, I also like my sleep, and I don't like him being all needy and bothering me, either. 😂

I don't know how long you plan to keep him locked up, but give him a few weeks to get settled in. But make it clear that he needs to force himself to settle down or else you will stop playing with him.

🔏 Tom jumping in here. You may need to offer him some kind of reward or consequences to help him learn to get all that sexual energy under control. Perhaps the carrot of an orgasm for good behavior, or the stick of delayed orgasm for poor behavior might work.

Most of us can get it under control, but in the early days it's just difficult.

Debbie Harry in April 1978, NYC

Before I met my wife, I was working and I live in a lonely apartment. I did use a matchmaking service where I wanted to meet a woman to spank me because otherwise no woman would date me. Usually we would first talk on the phone and exchange emails before our first meeting. When I felt I could trust a woman, then we would usually first meet somewhere before we went to her house where I would be spanked.