welcome

If you want to become better, you need to be around people who challenge you, not just those who always agree with you. If you're constantly surrounded by enablers and people who validate negative behaviors, they might not give you the necessary feedback to grow. When you intentionally choose people who only make you feel good, you might miss out on opportunities for self-improvement. Relying on external validation can hold you back because it avoids the need to take responsibility for your actions. Real growth happens when you face difficulties and take responsibility for your actions. It's better to have friends who push you to be better rather than someone who tells you what you want to hear and lets you stay the same.

Are you actually healed or are you just isolated with no one to trigger you? Because there is a huge difference. You can't heal without being triggered a little. Being triggered and then not reacting in a destructive way, that's being healed.

the fucked up thing is how "Creep" by Radiohead will really get your ass if you hear it at the wrong time. that shit can be stupid and overdramatic or it can have the weight of an atomic bomb dropped on your heart it just depends

parents are so crazy because they can say the most fucked up shit to you when your brain is forming and it sets the tone for your whole adult mind set and then they forget about it the next day

goodnight and don’t worry about any mistakes you made today. come up with tangible ways to do better next time, and keep your head up.

i changed my theme. see how good i am at handling change?

you ever know someone and you think “god i love you. i wish we could’ve known eachother when we were carefree and 11. i wish we could’ve played together as kids”

speak now is the people’s princess of taylor albums

this coffee tastes like i can still have a beautiful life

Idk how to explain it but I have very strong 19 yr old energy. Or I feel a very strong energy surrounding age 19. Scary