Bate and Honesty 1
My goal as “Fap Facilitator” of my Wank Worthy Crew is to teach members how to be better bators. Now, this doesn’t mean that members of the squad don’t know how to bate - they know how to bate, and they bate well.
What I aim to do is teach fellow bators how to effectively communicate with other bators, and believe me, it is a task.
You see, not everyone will respond to your horny requests in the ways you’d think. Just because you scream to the top of your lungs that you’re horny, doesn’t mean everyone will flock to you to help you ease your desires.
In it’s purest form, masturbation is honest. Often times, you are alone, with your dick out, playing with yourself. Vulnerability is high. Even the most secure of bators can feel completely by themselves, and that’s okay.
Instead of masking that honesty in aggression and frustration, sometimes it’s more effective just to be completely vulnerable and say what’s really bothering you.
“Hey, I’m here, bating, and although it’s nice and all, I don’t want to bate alone.” It’s simple, and understandable, and many can identify with that feeling. Just be honest and say that you don’t want to bate alone.
I repeat - whomever you contact, whether it be a buddy in person or #PhoneBate partner, try being honest in it’s purest essence. You’re by yourself, you don’t want to be, and you’d rather wank with someone. Honesty goes a long way without having to basically say things that can possibly be a turn-off.
Maybe that’s why some people are not eager to wank with you. Just a thought.
