Husband Of My Quean

Life as a cuckcake is not always easy. Some are missing the self confidence they should have as real Queens. As a cuckquean, your main role is to ensure that this woman understands her real status, and that she can go deeper and deeper in your life.

When she spends more and more time in your home, ensure to always make the dishes and inferior tasks. Prepare her good meals, and let her alone with your husband as long and as often as possible. Don’t hesitate to compliment her everytime, tell her how smarter she is, how beautiful and sexy she looks, and always say it when your husband is listening. Make her feel superior, in any domain.

Try to propose her to stay every nights, and when she accepts, let her sleep in your bed, close to your husband while you sleep in the living room. Don’t change the sheets, so her scent will progressively invade your marital bed, and slowly replace yours.

When she starts to fuck your husband in your own bed while you are in the next room,  more and more regularly, moaning louder and louder everyday, being less and less discrete, never interrupt them. Act everytime as it is totally normal, make her feel she is in her rights to fuck and steal your husband right in front of you. When they finish, ask politely if everything was okay, and if you could do something to please her, like a massage to relax her sweaty and sexy body. She may start to laugh at you, to say you are a pathetic slut, and order you to massage her feet : in these moments, never fight back, never retaliate. Just bow down, and take the humiliation with a polite smile. Let her trash talk you and degrade you in front of your husband, and obey all her orders and wishes.

At this time she may feel more and more confident, and you shall encourage her silently to go further, deeper. Buy her presents, let her use your wardrobe and your underwears without any required permission, buy her jewerly and sexy lingerie that makes your husband so horny. Dig regularly your face in her dirty panties, and slowly inhale during several minutes, so her scent becomes familiar to you, as a part of you. 

One night, she may come silently, naked, in your bed. She may facesit you, shyly first, with hesitation. Make the most comfortable seat for her with your face. Let her pussy invade slowly your mouth, your nose, and always keep eye-contact with her. To make her understand that you totally surrender her without any condition. You accept the weight of her wet cunt and her asshole on your face, you accept the smell and taste of your husband’s cum in her vagina, because it’s okay. She deserves it, she is much superior, and it’s normal. Let her juices go slowly and directly in your throat while she will facefuck you wilder and wilder, let her reach orgasm after orgasm and explode on your face. When it’s finished, just use three words as a conclusion : “Thank you Mistress”. Her juices will penetrate your skin and dry on it, and you shall not take a shower. You will be marked as her territory.

He had been texting a girl he met at a bar a bit and it was just playful.

It was turning me on so much he only showed me when I asked but he wouldn’t put his phone down at lunch and kept smiling while texting her.

It was happening all day and I could tell he was trying to not text her in front of me because every time I left him alone for 2 seconds he picked his phone back up. The way it made me feel so jealous. He didn’t even seem interested in having sex with me. He just wanted to talk to her.

It was 10pm and we were in bed later and I was watching a show while he was on his phone.

He turned to me and said, “babe. She wants me to come over.”

“Oh.” I said. “Well are you going to go?”

“Yea I think so. Is that cool?”

“Yeah babe. That’s kinda the point.”

“I know but this has never happened before”

“It’s ok. It’s definitely new but it turns me on.”

“Okay. I feel weird leaving you. Do I look ok?”

“You look so sexy. She’s going to love you. Are you going to fuck her?”

“I hope so. I really want to. We’ll see how it goes. Should I bring wine?”

“Yeah. Bring some wine”

He kissed me goodbye and left me alone in his bed while he went to another woman’s house. The jealousy and humiliation was almost unbearable but my pussy was on fire and I had never been wetter in my life. I came 3 times before finally falling asleep to a text he sent that said, “it went well” and a video of him fucking her from behind.

I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the best way to go about that is to first read everything you can and then read even more! Not only will this allow you to educate yourself, help keep you safe and avoid any potential mistakes or regrets, but also the more you understand something, the less intimidating it will seem.

If you have anything to add, please don’t hesitate to let me know and I will update this list, in particular if there any books that a submissive might find helpful or informative, as most of the books I have read or included are intended for Dominants.

Note: For the sake of consistency and readability, I have used capitals throughout this document and have not used lower case when referring to submissives or slaves.

Websites:

Babygirls ‘n’ Daddy Doms: Website dedicated to littles, babygirls and Daddy Doms, with a lot of useful information on the subject.

Collarme: A free BDSM dating website and community, that is probably the most popular and a better option than the commercial alternatives.

DS Arts: Academy of DS Arts, fairly self explanatory.

Evil Monk: Ambrosio’s BDSM Website, featuring many useful articles.

Fetlife: An online BDSM community that I would highly recommend and which is perhaps best described as Facebook for the kinky, allowing users to create a profile, publish photos or writing and join interest groups where you can ask questions.

Kink Academy: An online resource with many educational and instructional videos on various aspects of BDSM, although users must pay a small fee to access all of the content.

Submissive Guide: As the name suggests, this is an online resource for submissives.

The Iron Gate: A general BDSM online resource, with many aticles, essays and even stories on the subject.

Dating and Relationships:

10 Principles For Healthy 24/7 D/s And M/s (Source: sexgeek.wordpress.com)

Difference of Dynamics in BDSM (Source: the-little-kitten.tumblr.com)

Finding Your Dominant (Source: asubmissivesjourney.com)

How To Find A Partner (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 3 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

So You Want Your Boyfriend To Dominate You (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate Her (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

The Unfortunate But Common Misconceptions About DD/lg Relationships (Source: a-lolitas-life.tumblr.com)

Play:

Consent Is Mandatory And Non-Negotiable (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

Food Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Rules and Tasks for Building Confidence (Source: themostdangerousplaything.tumblr.com)

Tools of Consent in BDSM (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Training in D/s - Why? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - How? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - Thoughts And Concerns (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Wax Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

Safety:

Basics Of Safe, Sane And Consensual Power Exchange (Source: Molly Devon / the-iron-gate.com)

Common Sense (Source: Sean R. Powell / the-iron-gate.com)

Emotional Safety (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Offline/Online BDSM Safety Rules (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Ouch Is Not A Safe Word: Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Rules For Meeting Strangers (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Safewords and Safesigns 101 (Source: kinkology.tumblr.com)

S.S.C. VS R.A.C.K. (Source: Justin Medlin / the-iron-gate.com)

Checklists, Communication and Negotiation:

BDSM Play Partner Check List (Source: Sovereign House / the-iron-gate.com)

BDSM Scene Negotiations (Source: daddyvinnie.tumblr.com)

Can I Get That In Writing: Basics of Negotiations (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Communication (Source: submissivesupportgroup.tumblr.com)

If I Ever See Another Checklist I Will Scream: An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Negotiation Forms (Source: Jay Wiseman, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction / greenerypress.com)

What Are Negotiations Good For? (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare:

Aftercare for submissives (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Dominants (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Switches (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Emergency Self-Administered Aftercare (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Sub Drop (Source: David Williams / subshelpingsubs.tripod.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare (Source: desires-of-a-domimant-man.tumblr.com)

Dominance and Dominants:

A Dominant is NOT… (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dom (Source: Washington Sexuality University / the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dominant (Source: cherhatton.tumblr.com)

An Open Letter To A Novice Dom (Source: evilmonk.org)

Qualities of A Successful Dominant (Source: Polly Peachum / the-iron-gate.com)

Daddy Doms: They’re Not What You Think (Source: edenfantasys.com)

Domination for Nice Guys (Source: Franklin Veaux / the-iron-gate.com)

How To Spot A Non Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Learning To Be A Dom (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

The Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Daddy Dom? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

What Makes A Good Dominant (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

What Should A Dominant Be (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Submission and Submissives:

10 Considerations For Inexperienced Subs (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

A Submissive Bill of Rights (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Creed (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Ethics (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Introduction To Submission (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

Learning to Trust Your Instincts (Source: bewildbetruebekinkybeyou.tumblr.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts- Part 2: Submissives/Slaves (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Some Rules For The Submissive (Source: daddylookingforhisbaby.tumblr.com)

Submissive Owner’s Manual (Source: youmadememe.tumblr.com)

Ten Tips For The Novice, Heterosexual submissive Woman (Source: Jay Wiseman / the-iron-gate.com)

Warning Signs for Submissives (Source: RC Bauer / the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Babygirl? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

Books:

BDSM: The Naked Truth by Dr Charley Ferrer

Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Devil in the Details I: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - The Master, The Slave, The Power by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details II: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Mastery Refine: The Issues, The Skills by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details III: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Sustainable Structure and Traning by LT Morrison

Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame and Jon Jacobs

Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships by Dan and Dawn Williams

Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Solutions 402, Living in Harmony by Robert Rubel

Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel

Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillp Miller and Molly Devon

SM101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

The Control Book by Peter Masters

The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters

We met a girl through tinder who I picked as he didn’t really seem into any of them. She liked the idea and was super young and cute.

We all met at a bar and she was quiet and shy but gorgeous and tiny with a perfect round ass and long brown hair. She was dressed in tight jeans and I did see my boyfriend glance a few times.

I was super turned on and loved how she looked at my boyfriend. He is super handsome and girls love him.

When we got to the hotel room we had rented to make it less personal and weird we immediately took our clothes off and she and I started kissing and touching. She smelled so good and her breasts were firm and sat perfectly.

I finally took my boyfriends hand and slowly brought him over and started kissing him and took off his shirt and his jeans. I took him over to her standing perfect and naked and gestured at them to kiss. He took her in his arms the way I’m so used to and went in to kiss her gently. He slowly grabbed her breast and I saw his cock get stiff in his boxers. He started kissing her more passionately and was groping her ass when he pushed her over onto the bed with her ass in the air and then got me and did the same. We were both face down on the bed in front of him next to each other and he took his boxers off and entered me. I was soaking wet and moaned loudly it felt so good. He fucked me for about 30 seconds when he pulled out and I could feel him shift towards her. I turned to face her so I could see her face while he fucked her. I saw her roll her eyes and felt one of his hands grip my ass hard and he moaned like I had never heard before and said, “ohhhhhh fuuuuckkkkkk”.

He started fucking her and I could feel his rhythm from his hand on my ass. He was moaning loudly and saying things like, “fuck so fucking tight oh my god. Pussy is amazing.”

I watched her close her eyes and start to moan and felt his hand leave my ass. He was gripping her with both hands and pounding her hard.

I was laying there with my ass in the air waiting for him to come back and re enter me but it didn’t happen. He was engulfed in this girl, something I didn’t expect. He was in love with me but he was only giving this girl all his attention in the threesome that I planned.

He finally flipped her over and started kissing her and fucking her like I didn’t exist. He was saying things now like, “oh my god this fucking pussy is the best I’ve ever had. Jesus Christ I want to cum inside of you baby.”

I whined and he didn’t hear me but I started to get wet from how it was making me feel.

I got up from my position and he finally remembered or realized I was there.

His entire attitude had shifted and he said, “lick my ass while I fuck her.”

He never had me lick his ass but I got up and pressed my face awkwardly against it and started licking and kissing it and connecting with it when I could in between thrusts.

I was buried in his ass and he pushed my head off with force and lifted her legs back to fuck her deeper. She was moaning loudly while he said he was going to cum. I watched from the floor as he fucked her deep and unloaded inside her while she writhed and wrapped her legs around him.

They stayed like that for a few minutes while his cock got soft inside of her. He was kissing her and pulled out slowly while I watched his huge load of cum drip out of her perfect pussy.

He got up and saw me on the floor and kissed my head patronizingly.

We both knew what happened I think he knew I had liked it. He asked her if she wanted me to clean her up and she said yes so he nodded his head towards me and I started licking my man’s cum out of her.

He started jerking off watching us and was instantly hard again. He gently pushed me out of the way and said, “ there we go, that’s a good girl. Go ahead and watch us. You can touch yourself while I fuck her.”

1.       Always kiss His cock after he’s fucked you or let you suck him off … tell him how wonderful his cock tastes/feels/looks, and how much you love it. … and say “Thank You Master”

2.       Be kind – it’s not all about rules, or play, sometimes take the time to watch him, get a sense of His mood, is He stressy? Is he tired? Try to be in tune with what He needs, and when you can make His life - better do so.  You can do lots of nice things – simple acts of kindness and goodness, bake a cake, litter the house with scribbled post it notes hidden in cupboards, in His wallet, in His favourite girlie mag or on the bathroom mirror. If he’s ill make him soup, bring him warm drinks before he needs to ask, bring Him a cushion if he’s been sat to long hunched over a laptop.  

3.       Be proud to be His. Stand for what you believe in. Call Him Master in public/ with vanilla friends – maybe not constantly, but when it matters. If you’re asked to go somewhere – say “I’ll ask my Master”. Your friends may think you’re jesting, but by the time they realise you aren’t you’ll probably find they’re pretty accepting.  Mine were. I always deferred on important decisions and asked them to ask Him. Every time you’re honest about your relationship it reaffirms the dynamic.

4.       Pay attention to what He likes – forget anything, but remember what matters to Him, His core values, his worries, His preferences, His favourite smells, foods, colours, fabrics etc.

5.       Don’t try to be an expert on His interests though.  I’m starting to realise that actually me and my Master are different. He is logical, and has a scientific, mathematical, right-brained man’s mind. I on the other hand, am typically left brained and artistic. I do not understand what He is talking about when he talks about physics. But it doesn’t matter – I enjoy listening to Him talking passionately about something. I don’t need to understand all of it, or how it works.  People so oftenly mistake showing interest with debating or firing inquisitory questions at the other person. It’s actually really nice that we are different – it balances us perfectly. I don’t try to outsmart Him on His topics or question Him.  I wondered if this might actually be a problem of where the bimbo-ideal and living it would give rise to a conflict of desires he might have, but He doesn’t need or expect me to understand.

6.       Learn role-appropriate-skills to make His life wonderful.  Being submissive is a discipline. It’s kind of like being a geisha. It is about (particularly for doll-types) aspiring to perfection. So presentation is everything – perfect self presentation, perfect home, perfect meals. Learn everything you can about home care – cleaning tips- cooking skill- sexual skills- beauty tips- massage tips- exercise facts-and do everything with grace and skill. Practice speaking nicely, moving elegantly and learn how to hold yourself and at what angles you look best. Learn to communicate effectively and appealingly – find out if He wants you to be explicit , or more subtle, to communicate using specific words or sometimes in your tone, your eye contact and body language, and learn to listen , active listening makes for better relationships. Take time to process his questions before responding.  It is nice to be unquestioning and the ideal of submission is surrender as an absolute not a semi-version but as a relationship its really important to comprehend what is being communicated to you , so even if you fully plan to agree – pause and absorb before moving on.

7.       Be useful to Him. In public do whatever He needs. Be His personal cheerleader, or right hand woman, his rock and confidente. Laugh at jokes you don’t understand. Don’t criticize Him even as part of general hen-crowd-man-baiting. Be near enough to him that you are by His side, but let him shine – don’t cling to Him and be in the way, be devoted and patient, serene and poised.  It’s ok to be a private performer and to put on a show when He tells you. But be what He needs when He needs it and understand that what is expected or desired may change based on environment.

8.       Make His life easier. He may get final say on things but don’t ask Him about everything, it can be exhaustive. Like home furnishings. I have pretty much always had the D/s M/s dynamic in all my adult relationships . Never, have I met a Master, or man for that matter that particularly cares about curtains.  From what I understand generally the topic is boring and you only make a pest of yourself running to Him with catalogues of fabric. If you know what colours He likes narrow it to maybe 3 options you think He will like. The same applies on other things that he finds dull or laborious – i.e. food shopping, anything He may need for health or self care.

9.       Tell Him things that you appreciate about what He does for you i.e.  patience, promoting your confidence, learn to see the things that go beyond “kink” (I hate that word so much).

10.   Believe in him. Trust him… believe in His dreams even if you don’t understand them…do everything you can to help him flourish towards his own happiness… offer to promote his restaurant, offer to help Him gift shop for children/women/relatives in his life, offer to promote his craft or art through social media, offer anything that you think is of service or benefit to Him.