Cuckold Training

Pegging, definition according to Wikipedia: “Pegging” is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo, which is held with a harness or with her own vagina.

Doctor Jenn Gunsaullus says that pegging “unites men, women, dildo, lube, pleasure and power”

The most important to me is POWER.

From my experience as a Mistress, I know that pegging is the most effective way to get the transfer of the standard dominant role from men.

Through pegging, the dominant role of the relationship passes radically from the man to the woman.

The couple relationship dynamics will completely change once he will be underneath you and you will fuck his ass with a strap-on. From that moment, you will stop seeing him as the “leader” of the relationship and you will be stating a precedent for having things done your own way, not his. And the best thing about it is that he is going to love it too.

You will discover yourself soon making decisions he used to make before, or for which you needed his approval. You will feel much more self-confident, Dominant, and at the same time, he will start feeling and showing himself more submissive, more sensitive to your needs, wishes and whims.

Determined but cautious

If you have decided to incorporate the pegging to your relationship, don’t rush. Choose the best moment to tell him; a moment when he is very excited and receptive. Tell him you want to fuck his ass in the next months. Be very sexy when exposing your idea and take profit of that excitement to negotiate with him. Deal and establish clearly the limits, changes and punishments, also the physical ones, which you will apply if he decides not to obey at some stage.

He will not know how far you intend to go, and accept all your conditions. He will be too excited and worried planning to get to fuck you for his own pleasure, to stop thinking in the future. This will be his first great lesson.

Before starting with the strap-on training, you have to realize at all moments that you have to look confident and pushing. It is a training, that may seem too slow to you sometimes, but it is clearly pleasant for both of you, so, enjoy the process as well. The results will come, but it must be something positive from the first moment to you.

Another way to pleasure

What you will do, as a matter of fact, will be changing is pleasure area. He will have to learn to transfer all the pleasure he thinks he has only in his dick, from the top of his penis, to his anus… After a while, you will get to make the anal pleasure his only way to get sexual satisfaction. And you, will get this way all the power and the control you wish on him and much, much more pleasure. Because, in exchange of the pleasure he will get from your strap-on, he will feel the impetuous need to give you all the pleasure you may want, and will do anything to make you happy. He will be “programmed” to satisfy you.

His penis stops being a pleasure tool, also for you, and you rediscover the pleasure of oral sex, a pleasure that you will need and ask constantly. The more pleasure you will get like this, the more he will need to satisfy you.

Humiliation

Very important: you can add some humiliation to the training. Take profit of any occasion to show him you really have all the control and all the power. You may need other dicks for your pleasure, not his, and you may use them or not; anyway, you decide. If you use other dicks, don’t feel guilty; on the other hand, tell him your intention to do it and your experiences. He must learn, and understand, that your pleasure is the most important thing, NOT the source where it comes from. He will have to make an effort then to be the only source of pleasure. You know, they always love to be the Alpha “Macho Man”.

Chastity

Rise your control on him: cage his penis in a Chastity Belt. Even if it seems unbelievable, the fact of not touching himself, nor seeing his useless dick, will turn him on a lot. This is because he can’t disconnect his mind from you while wearing the Chastity Belt. The CB, or cage, as I call it, will keep him in a state of perpetual excitement and obsession for his sexual needs and pleasure.

Remember, once you start fucking his ass with the strap-on, you won’t see him the same way. You will not see him as a man, he will be your whore, a slut you take by his ass, each time you wish to.

Rejection

It won’t be so easy to induce him. He will try to convince you that pegging is an absurd practice, unnatural, strange and shameful to him.

He will think that the idea of being penetrated will seem to him an atrocious act, and he will describe the scene of you fucking him as something horrible. Those are just excuses. Ignore them!

Sometimes the “Macho” hides away the strap-on not to be fucked. Other men stay at work until later, when they feel “it is time”. Others allege, finally their rejection from their fear to be identified and catalogued as “gays”… He will always find excuses to take your attention away from his ass. Don’t hesitate, use discipline and corporal punishment, if needed, to prevail.

Fuck him again and again

In a FemDom relationship, it is important that you fuck him regularly during the first months of the strap-on training. In my opinion, several times a week.

Do it in a way that he will never know when you will do it: before he falls asleep, or early in the morning, before he gets to work, after work, even in the middle of the night, and most of all, each time you will feel like fucking his ass.

With the pegging practice you fuck his ass, but also his mind and you reinforce your authority. Ignore his complaints. Reward will come soon.

Little by little, his resistance to be fucked will start to decay, as it will happen with his sphincter in the same way.

The combination of forced chastity, corporal punishment and pegging will make your man a new creature, unselfish and submissive. The power dynamics of the relationship will change. Remember always that your authority will grow more the more you apply it.

He will soon understand that he does not control anything _not even his penis_ he will not be able to have something as private as an erection without your consent. He will realize he can’t have what he wants, when he wants it, without your approval.

Masturbation

It is very important to control the masturbatory customs of men. A man should not be allowed to masturbate in a FemDom relationship.

Always full

Your authority will grow, while he gets used to have something inside his ass: make him use a butt-plug, of a good size, when you are not fucking him.

You can also enjoy making him feel always full. During a meal, surprise him ordering him to go to the bathroom to introduce himself a butt-plug you have prepared for him.

He must get used to other physical things. But mental and psychological changes in him will be very deep and definitive.

Knickers for him

The moment has come to ask him to wear knickers, instead of a male slip. Hide all his slips, and take him to buy his own girlie underwear. Make him wash every night the knickers of both of you. Hand wash.

It is normal to wear a whore’s clothes if he is being fucked as one. This way you show him it is not just a game; he will feel your control on him while being dressed as a whore all day, he will not have relief, even when he is far away from you.

Milking

His body must get used to the new situation. Receiving the strap-on will change from being painful, to being uncomfortable, and finally just a strange sensation.

Take your time in order to stimulate his prostate when you are fucking him, it will be very pleasant for him, even if also humiliating, and he will not recognize it easily. He is enjoying a strange new pleasure, humiliating, but for sure milking will help.

What you will really do is milking his prostate and, remember, keep his penis caged. During the milking process, he must feel relief, but something really different from his usual pleasure with his precious penis. Milking is necessary to drain his prostate, that will be extra full of his seminal liquid almost for sure, because of the level of continuous excitementyou provoke in him.

More humiliation

Verbal humiliation can be useful during this process to break his ego, you will see soon how necessary it is to break him, humiliate him.

The first time you will call his ass “hole to be fucked” or “male cunt”, he will be shocked and ashamed. Ignore him. You will see he is dripping, excited, only because of your words.

Make him shave. Either all his public hair or leave enough for a landing strip. Like a true whore does.

Cruelty

You can be even more cruel. If you say to him, in a calmed but self-confident tone, that his little penis is useless, that he fucks like a girl, hat you need a big man, with a big cock, who will know how to use it to fuck you… for sure you will get his attention immediately.

Explain to him that you are going to tell to two or three of your best girlfriends some private aspects of your sexual life… Things like that he has a small dick, that you put him in chastity, that he has controlled orgasms, that he is a cunt-licker, that you love fucking him with the strap-on, that you make him wear knickers, that he has to share your cunt with other men and that he must clean after… all that will be very humiliating to him, but will reinforce your authority, he must realize that you are serious about it.

After three or four months of chastity treatment, pegging, discipline and humiliation… Being self-confident, firm, strict… he will stop resisting and fighting.

He will bend over for you, will hug and hold you after you have fucked him with love, and will desperately need to lick your cunt to give you pleasure and thank you for what you do for him.

No pleasure for his dick

He mustn’t have “conventional sex,” during this period. I recommend you not to offer him “vanilla sex”, at least during the first months, until he understands his dick is not necessary anymore to give or get pleasure. Sex for him, must be limited to serving you orally. You can masturbate him some time in a humiliating way, or with lack of interest. Better if you do it with your feet. May be I don’t need to say it, but your mouth will never touch his penis again.

Having his dick caged, has no real effect on him giving you pleasure with his mouth, but while being frustrated by the fact of not coming for weeks,, his sexual tension will arise dramatically and, of course, his desire towards you. This produces his wish to see you get pleasure and sexual satisfaction many more times.

Finally, your man’s brain will end by associating the anal penetration with your pleasure and orgasms, he will want his strap-on treatment, and will beg for it. He will be your whore, always in disposal to please you. He will need to be fucked by you, and he will do anything to get it.

A one way trip

If the man receives the strap-on regularly, his body and mind adjust to the new situation, and he experiences some physical and psychological changes.

Fucking him turns into a “normal” experience, and he will even need it. This happens because you succeeded to change is erogenous zone, by ignoring and caging his penis and by constantly stimulating his prostate through his anus.

His own pleasure becomes secondary, and he prefers to make you enjoy, gets excitement and joy when you ignore his penis, but you use more his mouth and tongue… he discovers a richer and more exciting world in which he is not the centre anymore, he does not even decide.

Source:

Taken from here:

http://www.spankingmyhusband.blogspot.com

Prostate milking manual: Step 1. This is the hardest step: No orgasm of any kind for a long time.  At least a week is needed with no release.  You will probably need 2-4 weeks for you to be successful the first time. Step 1 is the hardest step to achieve.  For us to be successful at this the first time, Evan went approximately 3 weeks without ejaculating.  That was a really long time!  I know that there are lots of people that have gone longer, but this was difficult for him.  He was used to ejaculating once or twice a day for years and years.  He would sometimes go 2 or 3 days without ejaculating, but those were unusual times: he gets super horny if he hasn’t ejaculated in 3 days.  So this was difficult for him. And when I say no release, I mean no release at all. After some experience now, I think that so-called “edging” is too dangerous to risk release.  Any time you release any sperm at all, even just a bit of pre-cum or one squirt in a partial release, then you have to re-fill that before you can milk well.  For example, on one early occasion – maybe our third or fourth milking session ever – I was edging Evan, and he accidentally shot one stream of come.  This was definitely not a full come: I stopped early enough to stop that.  But a lot of come came out.  When we tried milking the next day, nothing came out at all.  Our guess is that the big early shot of come is what I would have been milked out if he hadn’t let that go the previous day.  So my advice is no edging.  Now, when I want to milk Evan, I try to keep sexual contact with him to a minimum for days in advance.  That is, I don’t touch his penis for long at all.  It’s fine to touch it until it’s hard, but then I leave it alone.  (Of course, this does not stop me from getting oral pleasure from Evan: it’s just him who needs to be denied for milking to work.)

Evan from day 2 until day 21, when it’s time to milk.  That’s an exaggeration, but what a nice picture: I have my hands full.

Step 2. Find a firm dildo to massage your prostate with.  Perhaps you can use your finger(s) instead.  We weren’t successful with fingers however, possibly because my fingers cannot reach deep enough to massage the right spot.  We use the red “more” feeldoe dildo from: http://www.feeldoe.com/ I like this dildo for milking because it’s smooth, and firmer than most dildos.  (I realize that these dildos are expensive, but they are good.  We are not paid in any way by this company, and we recommend them.  I see that they now have a “stout” version: I would have got that one if it had been available when we bought ours.  Evan likes a thick one in his behind.)

The feeldoe dildos

Step 3: Prepare yourself for anal play. For us, this means that Evan gives himself an enema, or I give him an enema.  This takes a while: he takes 2 quarts of plain warm water, or sometimes water with a bit of white vinegar, or sometimes water with a bit of mild hand soap.  I fill him up, while he is kneeling the bathtub, and then have him hold it for a few minutes.  I plug his bottom with an anal plug to hold the water in during this period.  I time the hold so that it’s 5-10 minutes (depending on how he feels: I don’t want to do him any damage), and then he releases the water after I leave.  We wait for 1 hour or more for the water to clean him out.  Then he is nice and clean, and ready for his milking. Step 4. Find a comfortable position for being pegged (butt-fucked).  We have mostly used positions where Evan is kneeling on the bed, or where he stands up and bends over.  And occasionally I have milked him on our spanking bench (which is a great place for milking).  I have seen that others get pegged while on their backs.  I imagine that this would work too, but we haven’t done this.  We like a position from which the semen can drip down and catch in a container, so this means that Evan has to be bent over. Step 5. Using lots of lubricant, insert the dildo into the anus.  Take your time to get it in comfortably. Step 6. Aim the dildo at the prostate.  The prostate is a little round soft thing in his rectum, underneath the base of the penis.  This picture is from the wikipedia page on prostatic massage:

Step 6: Now just simply massage the prostate with the head of the dildo, applying some pressure.  Do this firmly and smoothly, back and forth over the prostate.  (But don’t bang into it hard: the prostate is a sensitive part of the body.  According to the wikipedia page, you shouldn’t do this “vigorously” but I don’t know how to define “vigorous”.  Apply common sense here: if it hurts, don’t do it.) When I do this using the feeldoe, the feeldoe is aimed down, not up in its normal fucking position.  I find it easiest to use the head of the dildo penis aimed in this way to massage the prostate most efficiently. Simply repeat step 6 until you get some seminal fluid dripping out of the head of the penis.  For us, it takes a while for the seminal fluid to flow, approximately a minute or so of massaging.  The massage should feel really strange (according to Evan): it should feel like you need to go to the bathroom in some weird way, maybe like needing to pee or maybe like needing to defecate.  Unless it hurts, then just relax and try to enjoy these feelings.  As long as you have cleaned yourself well (using the enema), you shouldn’t worry about defecating.  Evan also tells me that he feels very submissive to me at this point, when I am massaging his prostate: apparently it’s when he feels most submissive to me.  He gets very quiet and subdued: not alpha male at all.  As you might imagine, I like this very much. Listen to your partner during this process: massage in a place that feels the strangest to him.  Evan tells me when I hit a spot that feels really strange, and then I massage over and over on that spot.  After a little while, he often can feel when the semen is going to start to flow, and he tells me.  The flow starts as a rapid series of drops – often a little spurt of a few drops at once – and then a steady flow of one drop every few seconds, drip, drip, drip.  I usually milk Evan for about 5-8 minutes.  At this point, the drips have basically stopped.  Then I often turn the dildo so that it has the normal side up, and I peg Evan deeply for a couple more minutes, just because it’s fun for both of us to do this. I like it when he moans his adoration of me during all of this process.  Sometimes he will say “thank you, maam” every time I push deeply on his prostate or penetrate him.  It’s good to be appreciated. Some information on the internet that I have found claims that for milking to work successfully, one needs to be in the right state of mind.  The author of these articles seems to think that the process is part mental on the part of the milkee.  We don’t think that this is correct: we think that milking is a purely physiological process: if your prostate is filled with overflow semen, and if you massage it right, then you will necessarily be milked.  This is certainly true for Evan: if Evan is in a ready state for milking (backed up for a week or more), then if I then follow the steps above, he will be milked of his excess semen, no matter what his mental state (that is, whether he wants this to happen or not). Step 7: Clean up.  We put a little dish or a cup below Evan’s penis during the milking process, to catch all the semen (the milk!).  We also sometimes film this process.  When watching the film, Evan has counted how many drops he typically produces.  Depending on how recently he has ejaculated before, he will produce somewhere between 30 and 60 drops of semen.  This can end up being equivalent to a pretty substantial come load.  Once the milking process is completed, I make sure that Evan drinks this down.  This is the one time when Evan doesn’t mind drinking his own semen: getting milked has basically no effect on his sexual excitement level.  After milking, he is still as horny as when we started.

This is at the end of the milking session.  Although it’s not easy to see, the bowl has lots of semen in it.

This is Evan drinking his milk.  (Good boy!)