every 5 minutes i go wow i NEED to kill myself and then i ignore it because i have things to do

has anyone else noticed that pretty much everyone who is worth knowing seems to be doing really bad all of the time and is never allowed a moment's respite from all the pointless cruelties and horrors ❓❓❓❓❓❓❓

The term “situationship” is KILLING romance!

Why take something beautiful and fascinating like an undefined impractical romance and describe it with some vape-esque word like situationship. A spiritually heterosexual word. You’re supposed to write genre defining poetry about this kind of madness, and yet “situationship” is the term we’re choosing to use these days. OKAY.

fiveturlough is always fun because everyone has different opinions about when they began. i personally think their first interaction was turlough giving the doctor a blowjob but it's always fun to see what other people think

there is no such thing as a 'pure' desire untouched by various societal pressures and bigotries and stressors and traumas. there's no way to know what sexuality would look like stripped bare of everything that influences it. and either we can embrace that complicated mess, or we can spend till the end of the world trying to figure out what Correct Sexual Desire looks like and in the process further traumatize and exclude anyone who doesn't fit that image. and frankly, that sounds extremely unsexy to me.

and needless to say, you will never be able to try to force people to do sex right without rubbing directly up against radfeminist bullshit. the minute you find yourself in the same corner as people who think a submissive woman who wants to be slapped is setting feminism back centuries, you have taken a wrong turn somewhere.

Stars of Cassiopeia, Draco, Ursa Major and Ursa Minor in relation to Polaris

i am sooo pro-cheating in fiction omg wdym you want them to ethically break things up with their significant other before getting together that actively makes it less hot 🙄 like literally whats the point then 🙄 bring back UNETHICAL NON-MONOGAMY!!!!