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something that i DO find fascinating abt both phm and interpretations of it is when folks say things along the lines of “the point of grace’s lack of attachments isn’t that he’s aroace, the point of grace’s lack of attachments is that he’s refused to open himself up enough to form ANY close bonds because he’s a coward” because like. not only is it very possible for both to be true, i think that reading both as being the case continues to enhance the story AND speaks a very honest truth about how being aroace might have affected his life?
like. imagine you are grace. you have a life you enjoy where you get to teach kids you’re fond of about a subject you love. you’ve been hanging out with your friend marissa weekly for years (!) and you have a lot of peers on project hail mary who you respect and even have fun with. but! you’re also like 40, and you know how the world works - at the end of the day, at the end of the project, all of those people will go back to their parents and families and partners. the people whose names are on their emergency contact forms and birth certificates and marriage licenses and apartment leases. no matter how much you care about them, and no matter how much they care about you, there is always someone else in their life who is Above you, and Before you, because That’s How The World Works.
so like… yeah. lmao. aroace grace not opening himself up all the way because he anticipates pain and wants to avoid that is a kind of protective hedging that i find very likely for him to engage in? even if he opens himself up to the people around him, the fact is that most of those people will only reciprocate to whatever degree they/society deem acceptable for friendship, even if they like him a lot.
which is why, imo, the very careful portrayal of grace and rocky’s friendship in the phm film reads as extremely aroace-coded. because it’s not “rocky specifically is Special and Likable in a way which fixes all of grace’s hangups and allows him to open up” - it’s “rocky has a partner to go home to, but on multiple occasions, puts grace Above and Before that in a way which grace is unused to, because grace comes from a society which culturally and legally devalues the types of relationships he wants and holds most dear.” and once rocky shows that he is willing to reciprocate friendship and care to a degree grace could never expect from anyone on earth, grace no longer needs to maintain the kind of emotional defenses he always has. grace likes rocky and wants to be friends from the moment they meet, of course, but only lets himself form SUCH a close bond after rocky demonstrates that he, too, does not place an earth-society-style limit on the strength of their friendship. and they’re both better off for it!
Look, I'm sorry, but no, you don't just get to create a new pride flag (especially replacing an existing and established one) and go "this is our new flag!" and expect that to fly.
I'm totally happy if you want to play around with creating flags and sharing them.
But you don't get to just randomly, suddenly, and without any fucking input, foist that flag on everyone or tout it about like it represents the community when no one even knew about it.
Share it with me and say you'd love for people to use it if they like it? GREAT!!! Love that!
Work behind the scenes to create a flag, introduce it as the new flag for the community, with no input or interaction from the community??? Just what the fuck. If you want to replace the flag, then you have to do A LOT of work organizing to spread visibility and talk with people. You give people besides you the chance to have input. You let the community decide if the overhaul is worth or it not, and if they think it is, then you let multiple people share their designs and have the community decide.
You don't just rush in and erase our existing flag because you have personal issues with it. That flag has history now. It's on and in published books about our community. We're not a blossoming community who has no flag or history. We are a small but established community who has been using this flag for the past two decades at least.
If you want to replace it completely? You gotta involve the community. It's our flag, not yours. If you don't involve us, it clearly has nothing at all to do with feeling represented. It has to do with you wanting to feel special getting to see your creation everywhere.
And yeah, when you stomp in and act like you can just represent us all without asking any of us, that's gonna upset people.
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SRAM’s S3 is easily one of my favorite S3 remakes, if not my favorite (tied with Druck’s third season). Their use of metaphors, visual imagery and in particular, using the Little Prince as somewhat of a common thread is one of my favorite choices a remake has ever made. Sure, the season had some parts that didn’t quite stick the landing (like the Filip plot line) but overall I could sense there was a lot of care put into telling Lovro’s story. Now that the season is over, as someone who went to uni for these kinds of things, I wanted to make a list of my favorite references/metaphors even if it’s just to visualize it for myself. I didn’t mention every single thing, but that’s because I could be here all day:')
(English is not my native language, so I hope I managed to make it clear enough lol)
The Little Prince
This is, by far, my favorite reference in the season and one that a remake has ever added. In The Little Prince, a boy falls in love with a red rose that blooms on his tiny planet, a place where flowers typically don’t last longer than a day. This rose, however, fully bloomed. The flower rather vain and demands the prince does a lot for her. So much so, that the prince begins to feel frustrated and starts to question whether the rose actually loves him back. In short, he doesn’t understand the rose. It leads him to run away and explore a bunch of planets, eventually ending on Earth. Throughout his travels he begins to feel regret about leaving his rose and starts to long for her. One of the key moments is when he meets a fox who wants to be tamed, which he calls ‘establishing ties’. The fox sees taming as something going from ordinary to something precious and unique. But you’ll also become responsible for the other, meaning that a relationship takes care but it’s still a precious thing to have.
This is Lovro’s journey in a nutshell. He fell in love with his rose (Ivan) but kept running away from any conflict, anything that came too close. Eventually, after Ivan’s manic episode, he also begins to question whether Ivan ever truly loved him. But, like the little prince, he realizes they did have something beautiful and still longs for him.
Flower Imagery
The flowers are used extensively throughout the season, which ties in with the Little Prince references. On more than one occasion does a flower represent Ivan, like the red flower that blooms in a place a flower shouldn’t bloom (also kinda a Little Prince reference) and the flower in the artsy music video in ep. 9, where all that’s left for Lovro in the end is a flower.
Another rather in your face one is the Protea, which shows up in the Mexican restaurant that Vito works at. First shown in episode 7, it symbolizes courage, resilience and transformation. All aspects essential to Lovro and his growth during the season. It also shows up during their date in ep. 10, which just ties it all neatly together.
Underwater Metaphor
The underwater kiss has always been one of my favorite scenes in SKAM and the remakes that I’ve seen (WTFock and Druck being my only other two), so it brought me a lot of joy to see SRAM use it more than once. I really liked that in this remake being underwater was for Lovro the only way to feel safe enough to kiss Ivan for the first time, hidden away from the rest of the world. For him to dream of Ivan whilst imaging them back in that pool, like it’s the only safe space for him to go to. I especially love how their last scene of the episode is them kissing in a blue lit room, like they’re under water, but now they’re above ground.
Daydreaming
Lovro’s daydreaming serves as an important plot device, to show how much Lovro wanted to be with Ivan even though he felt like he couldn’t act on it. However, to me personally it also showed some of the most romantic moments of the season. Lovro dreaming of riding on the back of Ivan’s Tomos after only just meeting him. Lovro fantasizing about Ivan whilst listening to Josipa Lisac’s ‘O Jednoj Mladosti’, that was introduced to him by Ivan, even though he claimed it wasn’t his vibe. I especially loved that Lovro let Ivan into his world by the end of the show, daydreaming together. It showed how big of an effect Ivan had on Lovro right from the get go and it was just a very nice touch to the season.
Blue/Yellow Lighting
Once the use of blue and yellow lighting was pointed out to me, I started to see it being used everywhere in the show. Blue is typically a color that represents melancholy, loneliness, isolation, etc. whilst yellow is a bright and happy color representing the complete opposite. I love this in particular with the almost kiss, with the world being yellow but Lovro’s mouth being blue. My favorite case of this, however, is when they go to Ivan’s room to hang out in episode two. His room is so yellow/orange, almost like Ivan literally brightens Lovro’s life just by being in it.
Romeo and Juliet
The last thing I wanted to mention is the first time Lovro sees Ivan. I don’t know for sure if this was the intended purpose, but to me if felt like a reference to the Romeo and Juliet balcony scene. In the story, it’s not the first time Romeo and Juliet meet but it’s a very recognizable and iconic moment nonetheless. There is just something so romantic about it all, especially with how smitten Lovro looked the second he laid eyes on Ivan and how Ivan looked up at him as well.
Like I said, there is so much more to mention but these are the ones I loved the most. Overall, I had a lot of fun watching this season and I hope for season 4 they'll do something just as interesting for Vanessa:)
I'm slightly upset of the way so many people in the fandom treat the portrayal of lovro's and ivan's relationship. There is probably some level of censorship, not denying that but in spite of that the portrayal wasn't bad or unrealistic. They both are quite shy and insecure in their own ways so It translates in a sweet and slow relationship, not every couple needs to be furiously making out right away.
Maybe its because Im aroace and dont really get that aspect of life but I didn't find a problem in the lack of physical intimacy they surely make up for It with the intense emotional narrative. Not every relationship is the same and every kind of relationship deserves to be portrayed in media, the more sexually charged and the less so. It isn't bad representation its just different, we should focus the good things It gave us instead of mourning what It didn't, that is what fanfiction is for, to explore what you would have wanted to see
Like people keep comparing them to the other relationships in the show but they aren't the same, they not only have the huge issue of homophobia looming over them but their more introverted personalities play a lot into their relationship being "lowkey" too. And of course that living in a homophobic country is going to mold how you act in a homosexual relationship, even in private.
All that to say that I believe that It was a great story and most of the issues stem from what people expect more than the relationship being censored
I love this season for a lot of reasons but the thing that speaks to me the most is that they doubled down on the artistic aspect of the original, not only with the beautiful cinematography but with the characters as well.
Both Lovro and Ivan are more artistically inclined than their original counterparts. Ivan more in a traditional way with all his art studies plastered in the wall and his darker paintings as a signal to the viewer that something is wrong. In the original, Evens art was a major plot device and a very important part of his character but here is intensified and used to its maximum potential with the amazing animated clip.
Lovro has his artistic side too, the Isak character is usually more science inclined and his appearance is more "plain" but Lovro expreses himself through clothing and looks even when he was hiding his authentic self. His room is also an example, very cuttlered and decorated with random street objects. And lets not forget the graffiti wall, he really went all in the skater aesthetic. Every act of self expression is art in a way
That its to say that sram season 3 is a love letter to art and is very appreciated nowadays
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Here's BG3's Sven Vinckle's speech before he announced the game of the year, it's something I think certain companies should keep in mind going forward... (also sorry for the 'yes' that's yelled in the background during it, I didn't realize I projected that much from where I was seated. I got happy about developers striving to be treated as people making art and not ticks on a spreadsheet trying to make ceo's more money)
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