oliver

i keep finding new and interesting ways to be deeply problematic

post like nobody's watching, reblog like you've never been blocked; dm like no one is offline, and rpf like they actually fucked

im so insane about them

Charlie forgiving his uncle in .5 seconds makes sense when you consider that this is probably the FIRST time Bilbert has EVER hugged him and told him "I love you." This is the exact kind of affection Charlie has been starving for his entire life so of course he eats it up. With his already-established fawn response it was inevitable. Pim didn't really object to it either despite it happening at his expense because if he's honest with himself he would probably forgive his father the same way.

I could fix him in my fics but making him worse is so much more fun. #bleeding as enrichment

"ethical rpf" pisses me off i'm writing about hitting him with a belt

if men couldn’t offer me rpf they would wholly cease to exist in my life

what people don’t understand about how adhd is disabling is that it’s not just getting temporarily distracted from, like, school work or hobbies. it’s getting distracted/being unable to motivate yourself to go to the doctor, eat regularly, do hygiene tasks, etc. it’s not knowing when or how long it will take you to do something, ANYTHING, and in many cases that thing is taking a shower or keeping your house from turning into a biohazard. it’s about being fundamentally incapable of controlling your attention and focus on anything, even and especially things you need to do to survive.