tonight i feel like kafka

but I'm hearing there's a NSFW-friendly ko-fi alternative built on atproto that's actively in the works, and being vetted by lawyers right now. as torrent-princess (OP) says, you should be able to swap out payment processors while keeping your account intact. this matters since even if stripe removes support, you'll still have a shop and all of your links intact. (ATproto is an infrastructure that bsky is built on, but is far bigger than bsky with far more opportunities.)

additionally, the Free Speech Coalition is working on a credit union specifically for adult work (including kink art) - here's the link so you can add your interest & support. Since this will be built by sex workers, there'll be far less risk of being debanked for spurious and puritanical reasons.

on a domain TLD level, there's an initiative here for a .furry domain built from the ground up by seasoned furries; it's unclear whether they'll support NSFW, but it's yet another promising turn of events for a group that's been similarly affected by censorship.

I got pregnant not through some fluke or 1 in a 100 contraceptive failure. I got pregnant because I was knowingly and willfully having unprotected sex. Out of wedlock too if that matters.

It was my own fault, I was being irresponsible because I knew I could always get an abortion if I got pregnant. My abortion was as close as it comes to 'using abortion as a contraceptive' as anti-choicers love to say.

I didn't abort it because my health was in danger or because I didn't have the ability to care for it or whatever else. I did it purely because I didn't want a child. I wanted sex and I didn't want to deal with any consequences from it.

I think we should DEMASTER Bullets, if anything. Give me the ugliest, NASTIEST takes from those sessions.

An intersex man in florida was fired from his teaching job on the suspicion than he was transgender. This is transphobia certainly, but it is such a blatant demonstration of intersexism and outside of coverage by intersex people, the issue is being narrowed down to incident #657 of "cis person accidentally hit by transphobia" that refuses to see the intersection of transphobia with other forms of bigotry.

"trans people have been warning you" and intersex people have been warning trans folks! let's be extremely honest right now. Black women have been warning trans folks. Queer cis women who have been living this reality for longer than some of us have been trans do not need their lives explained to them as collateral for a "bigger issue" when it is all one issue: the rigid policing of a sex and gender binary and the ensuing war against bodily autonomy.