Cuz like LGBT leanings are much more widely accepted in people of a lower social status and while being gay isn't outright bad it's kinda like... ???? I can't think of the word but higer class people often don't end up in LGBT relationships mostly bc of the importance of heirs BUT polyamory is much more common??? And it's not unheard of for a noble to have a few wives and a husband or vice versa AND THEN FOR LIKE ROYALTY ITS.... largely a focus on monogamy and heterosexuality bc again heirs are important and the person(s) you marry will get a say in the govt so haveingbseveral spouces can get messy and












